FabSwingers.com forum: Getting on my own nerves!!

By *ewexperience83 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

I'm getting myself incredibly worked up an nervous about a meet at a club this Saturday coming. And I don't get why I'm like this at all.

I've had a ffm, mmff and a mmf .

Does any one else get nervous and how do you deal with it xx J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know people who do but are lucky as we are pretty laid back. The best bet might be to concentrate on something else make something or do a bit of decorating to take your mind off it.

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By *ewexperience83 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're definitely not alone. I was surprised that most people get nervous before meets, not just me. Been a few threads similar and lots of people say the same. So don't worry because the people you are meeting are likely to be nervous too. Turn the nerves into excited anticipation.

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By *ewexperience83 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

The fella we're meeting s&m really lovely an understanding, just hope he's quite chatty because that'll relax me an get me chatting too lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fella we're meeting s&m really lovely an understanding, just hope he's quite chatty because that'll relax me an get me chatting too lol xx"

Just imagine he's really nervous on the inside even if he doesn't show it. That might help. x

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By *ewexperience83 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

That's a good idea x my hubby is really good at hiding his nerves xx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Just be yourself. They want to meet you because you are you. So look forwards to it and knock 'em dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you chat to him on here ?

It wont be any different just brink things up you have already talked about then the chatting will flow,

Am not good at starting a conversation with strangers,

But when i get to know them a bit better you can't shut me up

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By *ewexperience83 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

"Just be yourself. They want to meet you because you are you. So look forwards to it and knock 'em dead

Thank you sweetie x

I've been chatting to him a lot on here, and he's not pushy and he's asked me about normal things and genuinely seems interested in me as a person. I think I'll be fine once Saturday comes around

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By *ussexLukeMan
over a year ago

Newhaven

There is a certain amount of nervousness before a meet, even as a single guy I get butterflies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a bit laid back about meeting people, I go along and be myself.

It's the best way to be, go and have a good laugh, with positivity.

Easy for me to say I know, I chat to anyone and take them how they are

Have a good time.

Her

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By *ewexperience83 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

My hubby's the same very laid back, I'm excited about it. I just worry wart

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"You're definitely not alone. I was surprised that most people get nervous before meets, not just me. Been a few threads similar and lots of people say the same. So don't worry because the people you are meeting are likely to be nervous too. Turn the nerves into excited anticipation.

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