FabSwingers.com forum: No Verifications....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just because we are new and have not yet had the pleasure of ameeting some of you people it doesn't mean we are not a genuine couple.

We will also not do things we are not comfortable with to prove to you otherwise. If all you want to do is message us with abuse why bother.

We stated we would meet people for a social so if we say we will not do something because we are new and we don't feel comfortable with that yet. Again it doesn't mean we are not who we say we are.

Little Rant Over!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you should be sending that to whoever has pissed ou off.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Use the site as you want to and don't let anyone dictate how you should. Good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rememeber.. many who just meet cos they got verification, losses out on us that don't got one, that's how I see it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Use the site as you want to and don't let anyone dictate how you should. Good luck. X"

We won't, it was amusing till they blocked us and thank you.

I know there are a lot of fakes and day dreamers etc on here but still it was uncalled for. Why not just meet up like we said instead of making a big deal out of nothing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rememeber.. many who just meet cos they got verification, losses out on us that don't got one, that's how I see it

The thing is everyone started out without any and everyone has things they will not do no matter how simple it may seem to others. We won't rush ourselves to please others who think they are correct.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like you should be sending that to whoever has pissed ou off."

They blocked us, then unlocked us to send another message and blocked us again. Cheeky fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just to clear things up, are you genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like you should be sending that to whoever has pissed ou off.

They blocked us, then unlocked us to send another message and blocked us again. Cheeky fuckers

You can block them so they can't keep doing that. Either click the block button on a mail they sent or type their profile name into your block list page.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Just block them and stop allowing them to even cross your mind.

Use the site as you see fit - and not everyone will agree, but its what is right for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like you should be sending that to whoever has pissed ou off.

They blocked us, then unlocked us to send another message and blocked us again. Cheeky fuckers

if you click on their profile there is an option to block them even though they have blocked you, it will stop their ability to do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like you should be sending that to whoever has pissed ou off.

They blocked us, then unlocked us to send another message and blocked us again. Cheeky fuckers

You can block them so they can't keep doing that. Either click the block button on a mail they sent or type their profile name into your block list page. "

Thanks for that, didn't try it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always to slow lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So just to clear things up, are you genuine?

Yes we are genuine. Bit annoying being called a liar and a piss taker etc. We do expect the odd div here and there for being new .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be prepared for a long run...we have been here for what seems ages now and not met anyone and no veri's

we are soooooo genuine but keep getting let down.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It took me 6 months to get my first meet, but it was worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be prepared for a long run...we have been here for what seems ages now and not met anyone and no veri's

we are soooooo genuine but keep getting let down."

You've been here 3 months and you're looking for a unicorn, go to club's, socials and parties, you'll hardly get anywhere if you just use the site and don't use all resources and tools been given to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it can all be a little chicken and egg sometimes.

A lot of people won't meet unless you're verified, but you can't get verified unless you meet!

I'm the same - genuinely here hoping to meet like minded people (not necessarily for sex

) but not able to prove it as yet.

Like you say don't do anything you're not comfortable with until you're ready. My solution with probably be to go to a club (Kestrels?) to at least meet socially to get a verification - but I need to be comfortable first as going to a nudist spa on your own not knowing anyone can be pretty daunting!

Anyway, best of luck to the OP, ignore those that give you grief and enjoy your swinging!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Sounds like you should be sending that to whoever has pissed ou off."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like you should be sending that to whoever has pissed ou off.

They blocked us, then unlocked us to send another message and blocked us again. Cheeky fuckers

then block them, from the message they sent you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be prepared for a long run...we have been here for what seems ages now and not met anyone and no veri's

we are soooooo genuine but keep getting let down.

Definitely try a social. You will get loads of veris and will build up your social network. I would never rely on this site for just meets. Too many fantasists on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my first social a month after I joined and first play meet wasn't till September

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were on here 3 months before we met anyone

You do whatever you feel comfortable with and you go at your own pace,you've barely got your foot in the door so don't take any rubbish from pushy people or people that can't respect your wishes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, we are after the social side of things also we are here to have fun just like everyone else and certainly won't be going at any other pace that our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had that with a couple near us just after we got photo verified. Started getting really arsey and accusing us of just being a single male. We said that the admins were satisfied that we were genuine, but they started calling us a liar and demanding to see pics to prove it. We pointed out that we were not interested in couples and didn't need their approval anyway. Really pissed us off at the time tho!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We had that with a couple near us just after we got photo verified. Started getting really arsey and accusing us of just being a single male. We said that the admins were satisfied that we were genuine, but they started calling us a liar and demanding to see pics to prove it. We pointed out that we were not interested in couples and didn't need their approval anyway. Really pissed us off at the time tho!

It was the un blocking to send a message followed by being blocked which was annoying. They asked if we were genuine and we said we are only photo verified but can meet up if talk on here first. That was not good enough for them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you first join some people's behaviour can be quite shocking - and I'm not talking sexually, that's a whole different thread!. If you are chatting and the conversation takes a turn you don't feel comfortable with send a brief message saying so (if it makes you feel better to do so) and then block, its not offensive to use the block button, just another means of filtering out people you are not compatible with.

Like all of us, you are here to meet your needs. Nobody has any right to demand or be abusive but sadly some will.

Good luck and have fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you first join some people's behaviour can be quite shocking - and I'm not talking sexually, that's a whole different thread!. If you are chatting and the conversation takes a turn you don't feel comfortable with send a brief message saying so (if it makes you feel better to do so) and then block, its not offensive to use the block button, just another means of filtering out people you are not compatible with.

Like all of us, you are here to meet your needs. Nobody has any right to demand or be abusive but sadly some will.

Good luck and have fun x

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By *otpair255Couple
over a year ago

Langley

Well, even if you are new it does not mean that you are not genuine. We like to meet new and verified couple.Just please understand peoples here, there is lot's of time-wasters, or people who pretend to be couple etc. We always ask for a picture and we return the same.With new couple our first meet would be hotel or club..but not always.For verified couple we are happy to accommodate but not always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be very difficult to get a meeting without being verified, I am quite new here as well but even I don't really contact people who aren't at least photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can be very difficult to get a meeting without being verified, I am quite new here as well but even I don't really contact people who aren't at least photo verified"

Photo verified means Jack all! You can upload fake pics and still get photo verified! I've been here over a year, never been photo verified and have at least 13 veri's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can be very difficult to get a meeting without being verified, I am quite new here as well but even I don't really contact people who aren't at least photo verified

Photo verified means Jack all! You can upload fake pics and still get photo verified! I've been here over a year, never been photo verified and have at least 13 veri's"

Thanks for the heads up, but I do realise that its not easy to get a first veri so I take the photo veri at face value

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can be very difficult to get a meeting without being verified, I am quite new here as well but even I don't really contact people who aren't at least photo verified

Photo verified means Jack all! You can upload fake pics and still get photo verified! I've been here over a year, never been photo verified and have at least 13 veri's

Thanks for the heads up, but I do realise that its not easy to get a first veri so I take the photo veri at face value"

Go to a club or social then

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

"It can be very difficult to get a meeting without being verified, I am quite new here as well but even I don't really contact people who aren't at least photo verified

Photo verified means Jack all! You can upload fake pics and still get photo verified! I've been here over a year, never been photo verified and have at least 13 veri's

Thanks for the heads up, but I do realise that its not easy to get a first veri so I take the photo veri at face value"

Lol don't think that having veris means that's it... My veris are mostly just from socials to say Wat a gent I am and the couple of veris I slept with n had fun, well you couldn't wish for nicer veris... Yet I have struggled all week to get a meet so it's just a learning curve.... It's actually for me bout finding the right people to have in ya life on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club or social then"

I am not complaining, just commenting on their problem getting verified

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

Go to a club or social then

I am not complaining, just commenting on their problem getting verified

Yeah socials is Def the way forward xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is too much emphasis on verifications after all people can fake them if they want anyway the proof is in the meeting for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is too much emphasis on verifications after all people can fake them if they want anyway the proof is in the meeting for us."

We did offer them a meet but we doubt they wanted to anyway after. We think they/him/her or whoever it actually was were either tolling or just set on having a argument. It all adds to the experience even if it does get slightly annoying.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

"There is too much emphasis on verifications after all people can fake them if they want anyway the proof is in the meeting for us."

Yeah I didn't get it at first but I find socials are ace I also know veris mean shit to some

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"There is too much emphasis on verifications after all people can fake them if they want anyway the proof is in the meeting for us."

After a while you get to sift the fake verifications and dodgy profiles. Socials are brill for meeting peeps.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

"There is too much emphasis on verifications after all people can fake them if they want anyway the proof is in the meeting for us.

After a while you get to sift the fake verifications and dodgy profiles. Socials are brill for meeting peeps.

Definitely

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Fancy a Social meet and I can verify you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be prepared for a long run...we have been here for what seems ages now and not met anyone and no veri's

we are soooooo genuine but keep getting let down.

You've been here 3 months and you're looking for a unicorn, go to club's, socials and parties, you'll hardly get

anywhere if you just use the site and don't use all resources and tools been given to you"

we have been on here on and off about a year and still havnt met anyone,we just seem to get messed about all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"be prepared for a long run...we have been here for what seems ages now and not met anyone and no veri's

we are soooooo genuine but keep getting let down.

You've been here 3 months and you're looking for a unicorn, go to club's, socials and parties, you'll hardly get

anywhere if you just use the site and don't use all resources and tools been given to you

we have been on here on and off about a year and still havnt met anyone,we just seem to get messed about all the time

We have just been chatting no_new_winks and we was saying the time we are free we will head over to a club. He said The Vanilla Alternative is good which is where we had in mind. Is there any near you? Maybe something you could consider also?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we arent ready for all that yet...we just fancied getting to know someone first meet for a social then if we all get on go home and all explore together

we are looking for someone curious like us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"we arent ready for all that yet...we just fancied getting to know someone first meet for a social then if we all get on go home and all explore together

we are looking for someone curious like us."

Well I hope you have some luck

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