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Single women vs single men message ratio

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think we've had one single fem message and about 6347 single male messages.

Is there a reason for this? Do single ladies wait to be messaged first?

Just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 6347 men to every woman on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do, they never send one msg first.. for example my inbox been empty for 3 days now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we've had one single fem message and about 6347 single male messages.

Is there a reason for this? Do single ladies wait to be messaged first?"

With ratios like that, they can afford to wait and be picky. My ratios are about 2/3 women and couples, 1/3 guys - though these are mostly winks rather than messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are 6347 men to every woman on here "

Very good point, didn't think of that. Next message will be a single woman then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most single women wait to be messaged first. Or they are just looking for guys and not couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are 6347 men to every woman on here

Very good point, didn't think of that. Next message will be a single woman then?"

Should be. Most people on here patiently wait their turn to send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sent out a few first messages, i have never had a reply from anyone i have messaged first so i see it as a waste of time, i now just mail back guys that i like who message me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally only message 1st in response to a forum post from someone I've had my eye on.

Don't really have the inclination to look thru profiles & message, not at the moment anyway.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

im often so busy replying to the messages sent to me i dont get a chance to send the 1st message to someone

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I search and message first. Couples, guys and other single females.

I'm proactive in getting what I like.

Doesn't stop people pissing about tho, and some do take a first message as being desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi

i'm interested in meeting couples, and although i've read a few lovely profiles about couples making a person feel relaxed, i am still nervous about meeting two people when i will be on my own.

i think i will find myself a couple of fuckbuddies i can trust and meet couples with them.

glad you mentioned this because it made me think and i will change my profile to reflect this, then change back to interested in couples when i am ready. forgot i even put in on tbh been that busy on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i say couple of fuckbuddies and meet with them i don't mean both at once lol, unless the couple wants to obviously.

but just one would do then i'm not on my own.

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts


" My ratios are about 2/3 women and couples, 1/3 guys "

That's a pretty impressive ratio to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some don't the ones who do usually are pretty interesting and usually pretty confident and know what they want.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Some do some don't the ones who do usually are pretty interesting and usually pretty confident and know what they want."

I send first messages and yes the above is true of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband will message for me if we see a guy I like. Trouble is the young guys will chat for a bit and then not message me for a week or so. No use at all. Want to chat regularly before meeting. They will then come back maybe a fortnight later and wonder why Im not interested anymore. Bit obvious really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own way of how they use the site we have had messages sent from single women each to their own as they say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll message people who I like the look of or who interest me on the forums. Don't always get or expect a reply. I'm the same on my couple profile (suppose I'm the gobby one lol)

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Ironically, when I've had first contact out of nowhere from a lady, I've been suspicious and responded cautiously.

Generally, the situation ends one of two ways - it turns out to be related to a forum post, and all is well, or the content becomes too good to be true, usually with no profile pic.

I may have missed out on as many as one meet this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages from single females a lot and rarely any from couples. I find myself messaging couples first more to than I do single females.

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