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"I've noticed more and more of these types of meet requests popping up. I just wanted to know what others thought of them?" I would not go near it. its a licence to catch something very nasty!(and spread it round fabs and other people. | |||
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"Condoms yes bareback no. I don't want to increase the risk of catching an STI. " | |||
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"I saw an organised meet a few weeks ago for a bareback gangbang while the fem was on her period. It was well-attended judging from the veris. There seems to be an increasing number of young girls in to bareback as well. I'm all for "live and let live", but it does horrify me. Safe sex for me every time." Indeed. Quite horrifying to think people are doing it without a care for the consequences. Many people have become too complacent, thinking that because certain diseases aren't not so much in public eye anymore, are no longer a threat. A girl on her period is more likely to pass on certain diseases, i.e. hiv. | |||
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"I saw an organised meet a few weeks ago for a bareback gangbang while the fem was on her period. It was well-attended judging from the veris. There seems to be an increasing number of young girls in to bareback as well. I'm all for "live and let live", but it does horrify me. Safe sex for me every time." I saw that post too. I think our comment was. WTF | |||
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"Safe sex or no sex it's about fun not danger " | |||
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"Just think of what you could talk about at the clap clinic later when you all meet up again." | |||
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"Whilst it's not something I'd ever indulge in, if others want to it's their choice. I look after my own sexual health & leave others to look after theirs. " This... And to be honest I often get messages from people claiming safe sex but asking for something else. At least these people are being honest and you can choose to meet or not. I hate the comments that these people have no regard... Maybe they have just decided that they have considereed the risks and its a risk they are prepared to take x | |||
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"Each to their own, but for myself id ise condoms. Only ever bb with long term partners" ditto | |||
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"I've noticed more and more of these types of meet requests popping up. I just wanted to know what others thought of them?" Well, for everybody that indulges in this reckless type of behaviour, bear in mind the Offences Against the Person Act 1861 (Section 20) for which you can be prosecuted and jailed if you fail to inform a partner about your HIV status. If you do inform them of your HIV status, then the issue of consent is considered: R v Konzani (2005) considered the issue of consent. The trial judge had directed the jury on this aspect by stating that the jury had to be sure that the complainants in the case did not willingly consent to the risk of suffering that infection. He returned to the clear and important distinction between running a risk on the one hand and consenting to run that risk on the other, pointing out that the prosecution had to establish that the complainants "did not willingly consent to the risk of suffering the infection in the sense of ... having consciously thought about it at the time and decided to run it." He repeated that for the purposes of his direction, "willingly" meant "consciously". The Court of Appeal endorsed the trial judge's directions to the jury, stating that he had sufficiently explained the proper implications of the consensual participation by each of the complainants to sexual intercourse with the appellant. | |||
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"You only have to have sex once to catch an infection so calling people disease spreaders is unfair. If they want bareback it's their choice it's not illegal. I think discussing it is waste of time and just causes arguments and bad comments. People will do what they want to " You might want to run a search on 'Bug Chasing' and 'Gift Giving' where men deliberately seek to become infected with HIV and then pass it on to others. It's thought that more than 25% of HIV infections in the US are now due to this behaviour. Just for information there were 73,659 cases of HIV in the UK in 2012; 43% per cent of them gay or bisexual men, which represents a rise of 58% over the past 10 years. | |||
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" There seems to be an increasing number of young girls in to bareback as well. I'm all for "live and let live", but it does horrify me. Safe sex for me every time." L works with an 18 year old girl that has just caught herpes. It seems that young people today are that dumb that they don't even consider that they might catch something that will affect their whole lives. T | |||
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"Precisely the reason why I'm not meeting anymore, there are far more people who bareback than meet the eye on here! The ones who publicly advertise it and have loads of veris are terrifying to look at! I had 1 guy claiming to have slept with 100 women off here and only 2 insisted on using condoms and I've seen plenty of women's profiles who blatently advertise bareback sex. They have a blatent disregard for their own health and the people who meet them are fools. From what I've seen their are more that bareback then don't these days on here! I for one don't want to and up being the one who catches somthing from oral sex because a guy has dipped his wick in one of the site disease spreaders. Funny when you ask them if they have no concern at all about STI's or HIV they don't respond or try and convince you that they are invibsivle and that it's the norm. " Well at least I'm safe and clean haven't managed to meet anyone yet | |||
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" There seems to be an increasing number of young girls in to bareback as well. I'm all for "live and let live", but it does horrify me. Safe sex for me every time. L works with an 18 year old girl that has just caught herpes. It seems that young people today are that dumb that they don't even consider that they might catch something that will affect their whole lives. T" you can still catch herpes using condoms. ... | |||
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" you can still catch herpes using condoms. ..." Yes via cold sores on the lips. She however got it from a lad that had type 2 herpes down stairs and he didn't know. | |||
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" you can still catch herpes using condoms. ... Yes via cold sores on the lips. She however got it from a lad that had type 2 herpes down stairs and he didn't know. " again. ... Can still catch it even if on the genitals even using condoms. | |||
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"You only have to have sex once to catch an infection so calling people disease spreaders is unfair. If they want bareback it's their choice it's not illegal. I think discussing it is waste of time and just causes arguments and bad comments. People will do what they want to You might want to run a search on 'Bug Chasing' and 'Gift Giving' where men deliberately seek to become infected with HIV and then pass it on to others. It's thought that more than 25% of HIV infections in the US are now due to this behaviour. Just for information there were 73,659 cases of HIV in the UK in 2012; 43% per cent of them gay or bisexual men, which represents a rise of 58% over the past 10 years." After "bug chasing" and "gift giving" search "assault" and "attempted murder". | |||
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"You only have to have sex once to catch an infection so calling people disease spreaders is unfair. If they want bareback it's their choice it's not illegal. I think discussing it is waste of time and just causes arguments and bad comments. People will do what they want to You might want to run a search on 'Bug Chasing' and 'Gift Giving' where men deliberately seek to become infected with HIV and then pass it on to others. It's thought that more than 25% of HIV infections in the US are now due to this behaviour. Just for information there were 73,659 cases of HIV in the UK in 2012; 43% per cent of them gay or bisexual men, which represents a rise of 58% over the past 10 years." Interesting, so you would, statistically, have to fuck 685 different people to stand a chance if meeting one who had aids. | |||
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"Interesting, so you would, statistically, have to fuck 685 different people to stand a chance if meeting one who had aids. " Breaking the figures down: Sex with women: 1000 Sex with men: 476 | |||
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"After "bug chasing" and "gift giving" search "assault" and "attempted murder". " I think that the Offences Against the Person Act 1861 (Section 20) includes the means to prosecute for grievous bodily harm. Canada successfully prosecuted and jailed Johnson Aziga, a Ugandan-born Canadian man, for first-degree murder after he infected two women, who later died, with HIV. | |||
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"The concept of any person, let alone a group, actively trying to infect others with AIDS sounds very very hard to believe." They exist. Whole communities dedicated to their cause exist online too. Having said that, if people set up a gangbang in a responsible, sophisticated manner (i.e. everyone is tested first), I don't see a problem. It's just very unrealistic for anyone to do that, for a couple of hours of fun. And there's very little trust floating around these days... | |||
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"The concept of any person, let alone a group, actively trying to infect others with AIDS sounds very very hard to believe." Yes; I hadn't come across it until around 4 months ago. Searchable on the internet, big in the USA for several years and now taking off over here. | |||
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"Sex and condoms are like strawberries and cream a must . We wached a good frend die of the hiv virus it was horrible waching them wast away . These bare backers are fools makes you think are they spreading the virus and dont care . Some of the guys our frend went with are still on fab so be warnd cover your cock" did they not get tested for it? | |||
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"I'd love To know how many of those that state those doing bareback have no regard for their health stop and clean mouths and fingers in group situations ... Couples having a 4sum for instance. Do the partners play with one lady, then wash their hands with antibacterial soap? Just wondering as that is still orisky.... And actually something it seems many don't even think about xx " I would imagine Its much less of a risk than swallowing many different men's semen Cali | |||
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"Yes via cold sores on the lips" Whitlows found on fingers and shingles are also forms of the virus. "About 60% or the population carries Herpes type 1 and 10% type 2. Both can affect the genitals. There is thus a high chance that people on this thread have had some contact with others with just there 2 strains - there are others. Condoms dont protect from everything, so think of it as safer sex. Whilst the above figures reflect the general population, they include those who have no sex as well as others who have more partners, so the percentage amongst swingers may be different. Decide what your goals and demands are and find compatible partners. Ive not seen bareback meets promoted, but have viewed occasional forum posters who have said they want it in the forums - but dont think they have been questioned. Better to ask them than reassure each other in the safer sex only grouping. " Well said | |||
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"I'd love To know how many of those that state those doing bareback have no regard for their health stop and clean mouths and fingers in group situations ... Couples having a 4sum for instance. Do the partners play with one lady, then wash their hands with antibacterial soap? Just wondering as that is still orisky.... And actually something it seems many don't even think about xx I would imagine Its much less of a risk than swallowing many different men's semen Cali " The risk from swallowing semen is much less than creampies and especially anal sex. Girls should gargle with Corsodil or TCP after group swallowing. Their stomach acid will kill the rest. | |||
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"You only have to have sex once to catch an infection so calling people disease spreaders is unfair. If they want bareback it's their choice it's not illegal. I think discussing it is waste of time and just causes arguments and bad comments. People will do what they want to You might want to run a search on 'Bug Chasing' and 'Gift Giving' where men deliberately seek to become infected with HIV and then pass it on to others. It's thought that more than 25% of HIV infections in the US are now due to this behaviour. Just for information there were 73,659 cases of HIV in the UK in 2012; 43% per cent of them gay or bisexual men, which represents a rise of 58% over the past 10 years. Interesting, so you would, statistically, have to fuck 685 different people to stand a chance if meeting one who had aids. " Or just 1 | |||
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"I'd love To know how many of those that state those doing bareback have no regard for their health stop and clean mouths and fingers in group situations ... Couples having a 4sum for instance. Do the partners play with one lady, then wash their hands with antibacterial soap? Just wondering as that is still orisky.... And actually something it seems many don't even think about xx I would imagine Its much less of a risk than swallowing many different men's semen Cali " As I dont tend to swallow these days its not something I worry about to much but cum in mouth is not as bad as people seem to fear. I don't for other reasons . But what I am saying is a guy could play with 4 or so women on a group bed... And that cross contaminates them all.... Yet couples often do this without a care... I just look out for my sexual health. And I actually see the gangbangs advertised often and these are never the ones complaining of no shows x so rightly or wrongly they are popular and well attended | |||
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"There are also those who advertised events like this to include their wives. Is there a concern for loved ones?" | |||
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"Any guy with the right frame of mind won't part take in such a dangerous game.fair enough if you don't care about your life.it doesn't worth it. I don't know if is a sign of desperation. Remember no cure for Hiv.drug can only suppress it and prolong the life span of the carrier. " "Dangerous game" - statistically the chances of dying on the road in an accident is far far higher than from a sti. I assume therefore you do not ever drive or travel in a private car? | |||
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"I saw an organised meet a few weeks ago for a bareback gangbang while the fem was on her period. It was well-attended judging from the veris. There seems to be an increasing number of young girls in to bareback as well. I'm all for "live and let live", but it does horrify me. Safe sex for me every time. I saw that post too. I think our comment was. WTF" mr ..... Haha I thought married lol and the same for most single guys who let's face it would sell there mum to get a leg over bareback or not | |||
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"I would never ever do it without condoms. But if others want to it, that's fine. It is a little risky, but people do risky things all the time, like horse riding, smoking, driving too fast and so on. It's life. " A very fairminded commment. I prefer bare and am going to an advertised bareback gangbang this coming Saturday. My choice. And the choice of those who attend. The feeling of a pussy lubes with cum is unlike anything else. I live in a free country. Demonising those who play like this encourages some to be shy (alright, lets be more direct) lie about this. That means that the chances of informed choice are reduced. Only this evening I was saddened to read a lady's post who was concerned that a fellow had removed his condom without her consent. For my part, I will express a prefernce for bareback, cover for those who want to play safer knowing I bareback and respect the wishes of those who would prefer not to play with me. It is resonable to expect the same level of respect in return. I do not force myself on non smokers nor will I accept lectures from zealots who are arrogant enough to think that I am stupid and that, as I am clearly retarded in their view, theyy have some ordained right to impose their view on me. Here endeth the lesson. | |||
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