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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm intrigued as to why a wink can be seen as lacking effort ?

Surely it's like catching someone's attention in a crowded bar ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The simplest way to look at it is............some like a wink, others hate them and some are indifferent. Read profiles to see if they specifically say no winks and message them instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's that but you can get quite a few a day and I personally don't have the time to go through them all as well as my messages. Though occasionally I will quickly scan through them to see if anyone catches my eye

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The simplest way to look at it is............some like a wink, others hate them and some are indifferent. Read profiles to see if they specifically say no winks and message them instead."

Completely understand that but surely it's a compliment winking at someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't like them its not a compliment at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they don't like them its not a compliment at all "

I suppose it's about finding who likes a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't offend me I just forget they are there ~ all 278 of them!

better do some housekeeping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never respond to winks simply because i never know if they have sent it because they are interested in me as a individual or have just sent it because I'm a woman and the law of average says if you send enough out someone will reply, i don't want to meet someone because i was that twat the law of average picked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if someone writes in their profile they don't like them then you have your answer.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

It's nice to get a wink,ar least you know someone likes you,and it might go further .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best meets I've had have started with a cheeky wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the issue with winks, I,ve looked at profiles and thought, jeez shes hot but way out of my league, so I,ve winked, never been told off for it by anyone. I don't think its lazy either, surely its less intrusive than a message ??

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

Amazingly I got a wink ??

When I went to look, I had about six Id never noticed arriving. Prob now is... How to tell who sent the recent one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink people as quick test of the water to see if there is a mutual attraction off pictures if I receive one back I go on to message the person.

I don't see why some people hate winks so much they are a harmless tester as I see it anyway.

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By *3xy c0upl3Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere in the Northwest.

We like winks, I suppose it's like a ice breaker...

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By *ilthydirtyfuckersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We like winks too , it saves a bit of time finding out if you like each other enough to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a lazy way to communicate on here - But hey they don't do any harm!

But if it was messages over winks...messages would be checked first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wink people as quick test of the water to see if there is a mutual attraction off pictures if I receive one back I go on to message the person.

I don't see why some people hate winks so much they are a harmless tester as I see it anyway."

I agree. It is a harmless way of expressing an interest in someone. Just letting them know that they have caught your eye.

I don't see them as lazy at all.

If someone winks at me, I will look at their profile and in some cases I may wink or message back.

What I find lazy is profiles without pictures and / or profile text.

I do wonder how some people expect to get any meets when nobody can see what they look like or find out anything about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we don't mind winks if they are an icebreaker, theres nothing worse though than receiving a wink then when you return 1 everything stops or when a profile into totally different things wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the issue with winks, I,ve looked at profiles and thought, jeez shes hot but way out of my league, so I,ve winked, never been told off for it by anyone. I don't think its lazy either, surely its less intrusive than a message ??"

I agree....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if someone writes in their profile they don't like them then you have your answer."
so if i winked at you would it just get deleted

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By *orksfuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield


"I'm intrigued as to why a wink can be seen as lacking effort ?

Surely it's like catching someone's attention in a crowded bar ? "

Clicking a button or spending five minutes to write a nice well thought message, which says more effort, after all you only get one chance to make a first impression.

Thats our view anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my best meets have started with a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love getting a wink lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get no (winks) or inboxes either

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