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Certifying Prospective Meets - How do you go about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This doesn't apply so much to people you have -already- met in a swingers club/environment... However, how do you like confirming genuine people?

Do you Skype?

Do you call?

Do you have relaxed, social meets?

Do you have your own process?

I'd like to hear

It helps to see how all sorts of people prefer to do their checks - even if some are laborious!

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple phone call s out dreamers. Failing that, a quick drink at the local........if they can't be bothered with that, we don't meet them.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Call or text followed by social in a pub or cafe (as I mostly meet men, a text is fine as it's unlikely to be a hot bi woman masquerading as a single bloke)...in the case of couples, a 3way call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Signed letters from previous meets along with contact details for them should be enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely if ever swap numbers and never go on cam. All comes down to gut instinct. Ne

We go to clubs and a lot of fet events and tend to suggest meeting at an event we'll already be at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Signed letters from previous meets along with contact details for them should be enough "

How would Quill Ink on Parchment roll with you?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"it's unlikely to be a hot bi woman masquerading as a single bloke"

And you wouldn't mind if it was.

Same as Caz, I swap numbers and arrange a drink at my local. Although getting men to drop by for a pint is getting tougher these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Signed letters from previous meets along with contact details for them should be enough

How would Quill Ink on Parchment roll with you? "

Will it be sealed with wax? We accept no less

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Will it be sealed with wax? We accept no less "

I'll plant a fancy border; even sign it off fancy & squiggly. Oh, the determination!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"it's unlikely to be a hot bi woman masquerading as a single bloke

And you wouldn't mind if it was.

Same as Caz, I swap numbers and arrange a drink at my local. Although getting men to drop by for a pint is getting tougher these days."

I think that's just gone on my fantasy list...arrange to meet middle-aged bloke off Fab and gorgeous Holly Willoughbooby lookalike turns up gagging to get her head between my legs...

One for the remake of Fantasy Island perhaps..."Da plane, Da plane boss"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having done the midnight dash. I prefer a social first, maybe a cup of green tea in a moorland cafe () or a coffee after work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Texts, social in a cafe or pub, then play. Or meet at an organized social or event.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

If I'm not meeting at a club then I always arrange a social meet first to see if we click and want to go further. Depending on time I sometimes play on same day or arrange a play meet fir another day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We chat to people in the chat rooms here, you can see each other and find out if there's some nice flowing conversation.

And/Or arrange a social meet - we always do this before anything else anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet them at my local park over the road

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

And never trust a single pic - make sure you see several, that will out a few fakes/ cons early on, and Google them if they look too good.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Most of mine are already certified

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And never trust a single pic - make sure you see several, that will out a few fakes/ cons early on, and Google them if they look too good. "

I absolutely do this (reverse image search), haha. Usually only in the case whereby something smells iffy - but fortunately I haven't come across it too often.

Sweet to hear about the initial social meets & phone calls (especially with both parties if it's a couple). Was beginning to think I was being too careful at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never rush into meets

I like to see a few face pics,not just one

I like to be able to chat freely and feel a rapport,if they just want constant sex talk then im bored very quickly

I chat to them on the phone

If they're close enough ill have a quick drink,very rare though

Ill never do a hotel meet with someone ive not met before

They have to be happy meeting at a club or event

I have lots of fun and very rarely any problems with who I meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This doesn't apply so much to people you have -already- met in a swingers club/environment... However, how do you like confirming genuine people?

Do you Skype?

Do you call?

Do you have relaxed, social meets?

Do you have your own process?

I'd like to hear

It helps to see how all sorts of people prefer to do their checks - even if some are laborious!

H x"

Phone call, social meet, play or don't according to how we feel, sometimes on the same night...only time that didn't work is when we deviated from the plan...and I left the monkey in charge...He was clearly thinking with his little head...still, we had a nice night out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer social meets now.

We are happy to do a phone chat but prefer not to give out number now.

Due to dodgy messages and phone calls a few years ago.

Funny thing was we could narrow it down to 2 couples who had that number at the time.

One we met in a club, another we were talking with on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet always at a club, if they don't show up then it's no loss to us

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