FabSwingers.com forum: first time

By *arah d OP Couple
over a year ago

devon

just wondering what advice could be given for a first time meet,do we go to a swingers club or do we arrange a more private meet off here.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its up to you to decide what you want to do, socials are a better place to meet people though

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my first time

my arse was sore for weeks after

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how sore did it feel like you scrubbed your arse with a brillo pad lol

By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"just wondering what advice could be given for a first time meet,do we go to a swingers club or do we arrange a more private meet off here."

It's entirely up to you but we always meet in a bar for a no pressure drink first then arrange to meet another night to have fun or go back to ours and play on the first meet, it's totally up to you. We didn't go to a club for a couple of years and still prefer to play in our own place - more intimate and relaxed. just do what you feel happiest with as there's no 'formula'. Have fun! Z

By *lscmnmytngMan
over a year ago

J13 of the M5

Each have their benefits.

A club is fantastic for a number of events, multiple people, many different things happening at the same time and the supervised non pressure atmosphere.

Private parties are interesting because they are more intimate but are dependant on the people there being up for fun and on your wavelength. They can very swiftly come to an end for a number of reasons, its best to have multiple couples at a party for the variety.

Think what you want out of the venues and consider your options, I for one am glad I went to a club first, it has put my foot in the door for more personal get togethers down the line. I intend to continue doing both.