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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I recently got lambasted for my occupation and the fact I am on this site, I must add by a person on here who messaged me who I refused to give my number to.

This topic is raised to show you that it doesn't matter what occupation you have, we are all here for the same thing! Rant over!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

how did they know your occupation..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would occupation have any relevance to you being here ? Sounds lime whomever you've rejected used it as a weapon against you ...ignore them ...by the way I'm Intruiged at what you do now to cause offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's called being bitter lol. Occupation doesn't matter, I care not what people do that I/we meet, its not important.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

During chatting through messages I told him what I did, no need to hide it!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"During chatting through messages I told him what I did, no need to hide it!"

block them and get on with it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you an MP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, I wish I got paid as much them though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I'm sure a few folks job might be more risky as it could lead to blackmail, don't think any should be revealing too much about their occupation anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I wish I got paid as much them though!"

Haha you and me both!

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By *iguy39Man
over a year ago

manchester

I'm a part time porn star

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I wish I got paid as much them though!"

Are you a filthy spunk who're?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are u an escort/prostitute?

Thats the only thing I can think that people would question being on the site because of the profession..and its links with payment.

of course...everyones got a right to be on the site(keeping to the rules), even those with no interest in meeting people

hope my question isnt offensive, people are people regardless of what they do in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a priest. Someone tried to tell me some sordid story at confession the other day and I was like "maate, that's nufin, you should see this gal from Romford"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure why people feel the need to tell others on here what type of work they do, you cant always believe them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I most definitely am not a prostitute!

For the sake of transparency I'm a school teacher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I most definitely am not a prostitute!

For the sake of transparency I'm a school teacher."

Why on earth did they criticise you for that?!

Anyway, there's quite a few of you on here...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Never sure why people need to know what I do in real life, as its really boring!

But regardless, it shouldn't cause abuse. Some odd people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most time wasters work for nasa they must do as they are space cadets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I most definitely am not a prostitute!

For the sake of transparency I'm a school teacher."

I didnt mean to offend honestly x

never mind the guy anyway, he's talking shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it doesn't matter what you work as its just a fuck lol.

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By *ugeload_atxMan
over a year ago

Goatstown


"I most definitely am not a prostitute!

For the sake of transparency I'm a school teacher."

Nothing wrong with that. I work at a uni. I really like your user name and profile text, wish I lived closer

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London.

Just ignore the stupid bugger. He just said it to wind you up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought you were going to say you were a social worker. I believe there are a few teachers and nurses on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are LOADS of nurses on here!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I most definitely am not a prostitute!

For the sake of transparency I'm a school teacher."

nothing wrong with that , thought you may be a tax collector or traffic warden hee hee

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think that's called being bitter lol. Occupation doesn't matter, I care not what people do that I/we meet, its not important."

Personally I wouldn't meet an undertaker as I'd be imagining where his hands had been. Totally irrational, but there you are so occupation would matter to me!

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

What jobs arent respectable for swingers??

.only ones I can think of are those that chose religion as a vocation

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Funny every time we tell people what we do for a living we never hear from them again ....I mean contract killers have feelings too you know

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London

It is interesting to know what somebody does for a living. The more I know the more I can work out what might turn them on

I would only disapprove of hypocrisy meaning the religious or political zealot who publicly criticises a way of behaving whilst indulging in just that themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the sake of transparency I'm a teacher."

It doesn't matter what you do for a living, your private life is up to you.

Well done on being a teacher it's a very challenging profession!

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By *i fem huntersCouple
over a year ago

london

We work for Sydney university analysing swingers and perving at their pics!!

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By *ranthamThroatMan
over a year ago

Grantham.

What your income is derived from is nothing to do with anyone on this site, if they ask I tell them it is none of their business and I am not looking for anyone to pay me bills, I do that well enough thank you , I am ony here for sex.....then I block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a dolphin trainer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that's called being bitter lol. Occupation doesn't matter, I care not what people do that I/we meet, its not important.

Personally I wouldn't meet an undertaker as I'd be imagining where his hands had been. Totally irrational, but there you are so occupation would matter to me!"

I'm sure they'll have washed their hands but to be honest, do you really know where anyone's hands have been???!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a dolphin trainer x "

I (Juicy) stick the little round colored plastic bits on the top of drawing pins, and Jay is a dice Inspector x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I most definitely am not a prostitute!

For the sake of transparency I'm a school teacher."

You weren't arranging to meet on a strike day were you? :p

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I'm a support teacher x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pisses me off a bit when men message me using their profession as some sort of lure, e.g. Fireman or doctor as if I'm so empty headed I will fall at their feet because of their job. The number of messages I get from "professionals" is huge too. Often turns out that professional just means they wear a shirt and tie to work and haven't studied a prescribed body of knowledge/skill and judged to be fit to be registered with body that regulates their profession

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps I typically try to wash all the carcinogenic crap off my hands before a meet. If I'm feeling fancy I'll even try to get the stuff that causes genetic damage off too

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I get messages all the time asking me what I do for a living. I answer and quite a few feel intimidated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter what we do as long as what we do is legal and with consent of all parties. Those who hide themselves are not usually what they say they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages all the time asking me what I do for a living. I answer and quite a few feel intimidated. "

I'm curious now what is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter what we do as long as what we do is legal and with consent of all parties. Those who hide themselves are not usually what they say they are."

Interesting by your logic prison guards, police and mental health nurses jobs are not ok due to lack of consent from all parties in thier job role.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"I get messages all the time asking me what I do for a living. I answer and quite a few feel intimidated.

I'm curious now what is it?"

I.T Analyst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages all the time asking me what I do for a living. I answer and quite a few feel intimidated.

I'm curious now what is it?

I.T Analyst"

How is that intimidating?

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"I get messages all the time asking me what I do for a living. I answer and quite a few feel intimidated.

I'm curious now what is it?

I.T Analyst

How is that intimidating?"

God knows

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Not sure many firms have bring a swinger to work day so think u be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a dolphin trainer x

I (Juicy) stick the little round colored plastic bits on the top of drawing pins, and Jay is a dice Inspector x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I most definitely am not a prostitute!

For the sake of transparency I'm a school teacher.

You weren't arranging to meet on a strike day were you? :p"

I had a teacher come to us while on strike

Personally I work in a factory making radiators for trucks, trains and oil rigs for minimum wage and my wife stays home with the babies. Dam how dare we be members here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a full time carer for my ill/disabled mum so have ti explain my situation as its nit ideal. I get slated a lot for being on gab. I even had one guy say to me if he actually knew who i was and where i lived he would have reported me to social services for neglecting my mother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am hired by the indian govt to paint all the pink bits in pilau rice. I also have a part time job with kp nuts, farting into the dry roasted bags prior to sealing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages all the time asking me what I do for a living. I answer and quite a few feel intimidated.

I'm curious now what is it?

I.T Analyst

How is that intimidating?

God knows"

The only thing I can think of is that maybe they think you can hack into their account, or use their account to hack into their home computers.

People put so much of their private lives onto their computers then get really paranoid about security lol

That's the only way I can see people being intimidated by what you do.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Are you a professional?

*runs*

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"I most definitely am not a prostitute!

For the sake of transparency I'm a school teacher."

Was the other person Michael Gove?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently got lambasted for my occupation and the fact I am on this site, I must add by a person on here who messaged me who I refused to give my number to.

This topic is raised to show you that it doesn't matter what occupation you have, we are all here for the same thing! Rant over!"

There is something a little adrift if you feel the need to tell people what you do. I am guessing you were trying to impress and it went tits up for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met Doctors, nurses, police officers, forces personel, financial advisers, IT consultants etc

Doesn't matter what you do for a living..... Swinging isn't a job & therefore shouldn't affect your work

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

I work in a condom factory! In reality its no ones business, what we both do , job wise, what cars we drive, family , our financial situation etc etc .... There is socializing and socializing! Mutual respect Yes , but others should respect there is stuff that is totaly irrelevant to NSA sex! We never ask and are much more interested in having mutual , enjoyable sexual fun with others, with no judging on what they do for a living or how much money they have in their pocket

If the attraction & chemistry there ... Does it really matter?

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