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Bi Fems - Reality or a myth?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there really any genuine bi fems out there who actually want to meet on a 1-2-1 basis?

There's an awful lot of chat but no real action. Women can really talk a good game but not walk the walk - at least not up here is Scotland it would seem.

Any tips on what I can do differently - and I don't mean plastic surgery lol!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We're like rocking horse shit don't you know!

I have to be in the mood.

I need to have a mental connection with someone.

There needs to be attraction.

Sex should be fun, I want to have a giggle. You need a similar wavelength for that.

I have to be motivated to shave my legs.

Etc.

So definitely not myth, just trickier to find a match.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have... and would again, but only with single females

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Women can really talk a good game but not walk the walk - at least not up here is Scotland it would seem."

Oh, and considering where I'm from and where any females I've met have been from.... This is not the case at all...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're like rocking horse shit don't you know!

I have to be in the mood.

I need to have a mental connection with someone.

There needs to be attraction.

Sex should be fun, I want to have a giggle. You need a similar wavelength for that.

I have to be motivated to shave my legs.

Etc.

So definitely not myth, just trickier to find a match."

Yep, when you put it like that we are a very selective group

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women can really talk a good game but not walk the walk - at least not up here is Scotland it would seem.

Oh, and considering where I'm from and where any females I've met have been from.... This is not the case at all... "

Maybe it's just me then! If that's the case I can live with that lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and for that reason wouldn't want to meet a woman one on one. She doesn't have the parts to satisfy me... So I would only play with a lady as part of a 3sum or more sum. Think that is why one on one us rare as most ladies I talk to are similar x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bi and for that reason wouldn't want to meet a woman one on one. She doesn't have the parts to satisfy me... So I would only play with a lady as part of a 3sum or more sum. Think that is why one on one us rare as most ladies I talk to are similar x "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm bi and for that reason wouldn't want to meet a woman one on one. She doesn't have the parts to satisfy me... So I would only play with a lady as part of a 3sum or more sum. Think that is why one on one us rare as most ladies I talk to are similar x

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Hadn't thought of it like that

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm bi and for that reason wouldn't want to meet a woman one on one. She doesn't have the parts to satisfy me... So I would only play with a lady as part of a 3sum or more sum. Think that is why one on one us rare as most ladies I talk to are similar x "

I think that's probably fairly accurate. I'd never have a relationship with a woman cause I like a cock more but I'd meet on a one to one basis with a girl cause sometimes it's nice just to have that sort of sensual sex that only really happens with girls.

Ideally if I could have a woman's mind and a man's body I think I may reach perfection. Although preferably one without mood swings! Haha... rocking horse shit indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a single bi fem and it is hard

To meet one to one on here

have tried but its like finding a needle

in a haystack

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By *aribbean QueenWoman
over a year ago

leeds

There are some of us on here, although I admit, they are very rare.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im a single bi fem and it is hard

To meet one to one on here

have tried but its like finding a needle

in a haystack "

Glad its not just me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm bi and for that reason wouldn't want to meet a woman one on one. She doesn't have the parts to satisfy me... So I would only play with a lady as part of a 3sum or more sum. Think that is why one on one us rare as most ladies I talk to are similar x

I think that's probably fairly accurate. I'd never have a relationship with a woman cause I like a cock more but I'd meet on a one to one basis with a girl cause sometimes it's nice just to have that sort of sensual sex that only really happens with girls.

Ideally if I could have a woman's mind and a man's body I think I may reach perfection. Although preferably one without mood swings! Haha... rocking horse shit indeed! "

Fair point. I like cock too and am most def bi not lesbian. Maybe I'll change my profile to welcome ladies in for some fun with me and hubby - he'd def approve lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Bi, but a bit greedy want a male there, best of both piggy in the middle sounds slop good

One of my to do on the list.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Bi, but a bit greedy want a male there, best of both piggy in the middle sounds slop good

One of my to do on the list.

Her"
So

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I know a bi lass. Only because see compares every man to her fuckbuddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always play together , whether that be with a guy , a girl or both .

Although I am bi , I wouldn't dream of having a meet with just a girl ( or a guy come to that ) , but happily play with a girl on a meet with no interaction from anyone else .

The pleasure for me is seeing the enjoyment my husband gets from seeing me having fun , just as much as the pleasure from the meet . Without him there I wouldn't enjoy it at all .

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Fair point. I like cock too and am most def bi not lesbian. Maybe I'll change my profile to welcome ladies in for some fun with me and hubby - he'd def approve lol!"

Then you make it even trickier. Stick with it... to find a couple I want to play with is more difficult than finding a single. I'm uber fussy though so probably not entirely the norm. Both parties then have to tick all my boxes. That's not easy.

Whilst it's rare, it's not impossible to find girls who do the one to one thing. If you have a singles profile and a couples profile then it's a win win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to find a woman that will meet on her own without her man coming along "just to watch"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bi and for that reason wouldn't want to meet a woman one on one. She doesn't have the parts to satisfy me... So I would only play with a lady as part of a 3sum or more sum. Think that is why one on one us rare as most ladies I talk to are similar x "

im the same I meet for mff rather than ff.im not a lesbian so ff dosent float my boat.thats why I call myself bi-sexual because I like both at the same time

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


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im the same I meet for mff rather than ff.im not a lesbian so ff dosent float my boat.thats why I call myself bi-sexual because I like both at the same time "

Haha... that made me giggle!

I'm bisexual but I've always taken that to mean I like girls and boys, not that I have to fuck them at the same time! Having sex with a woman on my own does not make me a lesbian.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I would love to have a 1-2-1 with a woman.. but they are so hard to find, I don't look anymore..

I agree too with the post about missing the cock - so toys would certainly help out a lot but sometimes, I do really miss the smell and taste of another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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im the same I meet for mff rather than ff.im not a lesbian so ff dosent float my boat.thats why I call myself bi-sexual because I like both at the same time

Haha... that made me giggle!

I'm bisexual but I've always taken that to mean I like girls and boys, not that I have to fuck them at the same time! Having sex with a woman on my own does not make me a lesbian. "

it does to me im greedy like sucking a real cock while being fucked with strapon.what else I gonna do with my mouth

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


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im the same I meet for mff rather than ff.im not a lesbian so ff dosent float my boat.thats why I call myself bi-sexual because I like both at the same time

Haha... that made me giggle!

I'm bisexual but I've always taken that to mean I like girls and boys, not that I have to fuck them at the same time! Having sex with a woman on my own does not make me a lesbian.

it does to me im greedy like sucking a real cock while being fucked with strapon.what else I gonna do with my mouth "

So if I meet a woman on my own I'm a lesbian?

Haha! Thanks for making me giggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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im the same I meet for mff rather than ff.im not a lesbian so ff dosent float my boat.thats why I call myself bi-sexual because I like both at the same time

Haha... that made me giggle!

I'm bisexual but I've always taken that to mean I like girls and boys, not that I have to fuck them at the same time! Having sex with a woman on my own does not make me a lesbian. "

Exactly. FF isn't lesbian.

The majority of bi women on here seem to be 'bi' for the men, which (to me) isn't bi.

In reply to the OP, I meet women 1 on 1. Can't find anyone else that does- they all need a guy there too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are an awful lot of women on here who label themselves bi or bi curious to satisfy their male partner or hopefully get more meets because its what turns men on. I would avoid these women like the plague. Give me a genuine bi anyday. Hate the 'oooo can my partner watch?' brigade. 'No he fuckin can't I'm not a performing seal ffs'. Still after my 5 women no men fantasy sigh

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I have... and would again, but only with single females "

And presumably with your G-spot vibrator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi but I wouldn't meet a woman on a 1-1 basis. That's not because I'm bi for him, it's because we do all meets together, whether with a man, woman or couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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im the same I meet for mff rather than ff.im not a lesbian so ff dosent float my boat.thats why I call myself bi-sexual because I like both at the same time

Haha... that made me giggle!

I'm bisexual but I've always taken that to mean I like girls and boys, not that I have to fuck them at the same time! Having sex with a woman on my own does not make me a lesbian.

it does to me im greedy like sucking a real cock while being fucked with strapon.what else I gonna do with my mouth

So if I meet a woman on my own I'm a lesbian?

Haha! Thanks for making me giggle! "

not at all its my opinion I dont want to meet just ladies as I feel its lesbian play.i like to share a woman with a man.i know being bi-sexual means liking both and I like both at same time.many men who are bi prefer to play with a couple rather than alone with a man.no difference really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I suggest to the op is maybe put some more erotic pics on there profile of girlie play x when I had a few on front page it attracted alot of bi fems and bi couples.all mine are private now couldnt handle the bombardment of woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bi but I wouldn't meet a woman on a 1-1 basis. That's not because I'm bi for him, it's because we do all meets together, whether with a man, woman or couple. "

This is exactly how I feel as well I love women more than men but we come as a package even though he has said he would let me play on my own

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"I'm bi but I wouldn't meet a woman on a 1-1 basis. That's not because I'm bi for him, it's because we do all meets together, whether with a man, woman or couple. "

Same here, except we don't meet single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love playing ff, but as you say, difficult to find another single bi woman. Would love a female fb. Girls can play for hours and hours and hours…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are an awful lot of women on here who label themselves bi or bi curious to satisfy their male partner or hopefully get more meets because its what turns men on. I would avoid these women like the plague. Give me a genuine bi anyday. Hate the 'oooo can my partner watch?' brigade. 'No he fuckin can't I'm not a performing seal ffs'. Still after my 5 women no men fantasy sigh "

this and I have a fantasy like that can I join

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Still after my 5 women no men fantasy sigh

this and I have a fantasy like that can I join "

Me too - that makes 3, any more?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there really any genuine bi fems out there who actually want to meet on a 1-2-1 basis?

There's an awful lot of chat but no real action. Women can really talk a good game but not walk the walk - at least not up here is Scotland it would seem.

Any tips on what I can do differently - and I don't mean plastic surgery lol! "

My wife is genuinely BI she will happily play 1 2 1 with women but only with me as an onlooker. I dont play on our meets at all only she does but she wont meet anybody without me being there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bi and for that reason wouldn't want to meet a woman one on one. She doesn't have the parts to satisfy me... So I would only play with a lady as part of a 3sum or more sum. Think that is why one on one us rare as most ladies I talk to are similar x "

Agree. Depends how the meet goes. Bi in group situations but 1-2-1 doesn't appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are an awful lot of women on here who label themselves bi or bi curious to satisfy their male partner or hopefully get more meets because its what turns men on. I would avoid these women like the plague. Give me a genuine bi anyday. Hate the 'oooo can my partner watch?' brigade. 'No he fuckin can't I'm not a performing seal ffs'. Still after my 5 women no men fantasy sigh "

You know in our case she really IS bi and has had a full lesbian relationship before we met. I have no specific wish to watch her with women as in all honesty I find it a bit boring. Lesbian porn never did anything for me and Id much rather see her in a mff situation. But she wants the occassional ff meet and feels unless Im there it would be cheating hence our never play alone rule. Last time she hd ff I was in the room but watching tv while they played lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there really any genuine bi fems out there who actually want to meet on a 1-2-1 basis?

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Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes its a great idea checking mens profiles..check their verifies and u might see a bi-fem there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fully bi. Don't need a man. I would love to meet more genuine girls 1on1 but most girls who message me don't tend to be real lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met up with a ff couple and single lady friend without 2 wheels being there. Not having any men there changes the dynamic completely and I love it! I don't think 2 wheels gets anything out of it but I definitely came home with heightened levels of horn which lasted for a while!

crystal

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I have had 2 fem profiles at different points and all I found was woman who wanted to play and bring their hubby to join I'm or hubby would be hanging around or he would be upstairs......gave up !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bi and for that reason wouldn't want to meet a woman one on one. She doesn't have the parts to satisfy me... So I would only play with a lady as part of a 3sum or more sum. Think that is why one on one us rare as most ladies I talk to are similar x

I think that's probably fairly accurate. I'd never have a relationship with a woman cause I like a cock more but I'd meet on a one to one basis with a girl cause sometimes it's nice just to have that sort of sensual sex that only really happens with girls.

Ideally if I could have a woman's mind and a man's body I think I may reach perfection. Although preferably one without mood swings! Haha... rocking horse shit indeed! "

You need a bisexual male then. Male body but definitely not a male mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a few on here.....have met some who are genuine in having 1-2-1 with men and also 1-2-1 with other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This really pisses me off! You will note from the replies so far, that those women who say they are "bi" but are part of a couple never meet women 1 to 1....they do it as part of a couple as it titilates them and their other halves!

I am bi...I will do and have met women 1 to 1 ...this does not mean I am a lesbian or that I want a relationship with a woman...just that I am bi!! like others have stated, I find it incredibly hard on here to meet genuine bi women who do not "want their partner there to watch" !

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This really pisses me off! You will note from the replies so far, that those women who say they are "bi" but are part of a couple never meet women 1 to 1....they do it as part of a couple as it titilates them and their other halves!

I am bi...I will do and have met women 1 to 1 ...this does not mean I am a lesbian or that I want a relationship with a woman...just that I am bi!! like others have stated, I find it incredibly hard on here to meet genuine bi women who do not "want their partner there to watch" !

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i were to ever meet alone it would be with a woman - but all my play involves him as we are here as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow - reading all your replies makes me feel as if I'm really from a different planet....

I'm Bi - which means that I like, and have had, relationships with men and with women - and I prefer women! Now I see guys as just fun on the side....

But being Bi doesn't mean that I want both together - I've tried it and it just doesn't satisfy in any way - I only meet 1-on-1 now.

For me, I always say that it's like this: I like a cup of tea, and I like an occasional glass of wine - but mixing them together just doesn't work!

But to reply to the OP - yes, it's as hard as hell to find women on here that want to meet 1-on-1, which is a huge shame....

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

Is a myth just a lady with a lisp?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do? I'm a bi-fem, I meet alone or with G. I've done it a few times now? We both have utter respect and total trust in each other! But some girls are listed as bisexual on here... But seem to only be bi when around their partner? Funny that! That's why on my profile it say it's ME doing the talking, not G. He takes a back seat! It's better that way, less crossed wires! C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single bi-fem. I would have taken a look at your profile but it's hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most MF couples with the woman posing as Bi looking for MF couples or single Bi female, the female is a bait for the man's pleasure. In most profiles they don't meet single males. I know it's their preference. Just saying it as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an interesting one , especially from a couples perspective .

Before anyone gets on their high horse , I can only speak from a couples point if view , so here goes .

There seems a lot of posts suggesting that bi females in couples are doing it for the titillation of their partner . So they can't really be genuine bi females then ?

What nonsense !

As is often stated on here , a couple that play together , stay together . And that statement is just as relevant whether the play is with a fellow bi female or a guy .

Who are we to judge I hear you say ?

Crystal says in her post that wheels probably got nothing from her fff experience , but that she loved it - fair play , and good for for you , but that's not why we swing .

Although I am happy ( as the voyeuristic side floats my boat ) to literally take a back seat on meets , we would never entertain a meet without both of us present , this doesn't mean my wife isn't a real bi female !

Fab has a bi guy site , so why not a bi girl site ?

Or perhaps the bi women in relationships with guys enjoy bi play as an extension of their sex life , and don't see as an option to play alone .

But this doesn't make them any less bi than this who wish to play alone .

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"This is an interesting one , especially from a couples perspective .

Before anyone gets on their high horse , I can only speak from a couples point if view , so here goes .

There seems a lot of posts suggesting that bi females in couples are doing it for the titillation of their partner . So they can't really be genuine bi females then ?

What nonsense !

As is often stated on here , a couple that play together , stay together . And that statement is just as relevant whether the play is with a fellow bi female or a guy .

Who are we to judge I hear you say ?

Crystal says in her post that wheels probably got nothing from her fff experience , but that she loved it - fair play , and good for for you , but that's not why we swing .

Although I am happy ( as the voyeuristic side floats my boat ) to literally take a back seat on meets , we would never entertain a meet without both of us present , this doesn't mean my wife isn't a real bi female !

Fab has a bi guy site , so why not a bi girl site ?

Or perhaps the bi women in relationships with guys enjoy bi play as an extension of their sex life , and don't see as an option to play alone .

But this doesn't make them any less bi than this who wish to play alone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is an interesting one , especially from a couples perspective .

Before anyone gets on their high horse , I can only speak from a couples point if view , so here goes .

There seems a lot of posts suggesting that bi females in couples are doing it for the titillation of their partner . So they can't really be genuine bi females then ?

What nonsense !

As is often stated on here , a couple that play together , stay together . And that statement is just as relevant whether the play is with a fellow bi female or a guy .

Who are we to judge I hear you say ?

Crystal says in her post that wheels probably got nothing from her fff experience , but that she loved it - fair play , and good for for you , but that's not why we swing .

Although I am happy ( as the voyeuristic side floats my boat ) to literally take a back seat on meets , we would never entertain a meet without both of us present , this doesn't mean my wife isn't a real bi female !

Fab has a bi guy site , so why not a bi girl site ?

Or perhaps the bi women in relationships with guys enjoy bi play as an extension of their sex life , and don't see as an option to play alone .

But this doesn't make them any less bi than this who wish to play alone .

"

VERY well said

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm bi and for that reason wouldn't want to meet a woman one on one. She doesn't have the parts to satisfy me... So I would only play with a lady as part of a 3sum or more sum. Think that is why one on one us rare as most ladies I talk to are similar x

I think that's probably fairly accurate. I'd never have a relationship with a woman cause I like a cock more but I'd meet on a one to one basis with a girl cause sometimes it's nice just to have that sort of sensual sex that only really happens with girls.

Ideally if I could have a woman's mind and a man's body I think I may reach perfection. Although preferably one without mood swings! Haha... rocking horse shit indeed!

You need a bisexual male then. Male body but definitely not a male mind. "

What an odd thing to say.... I can't decide if you're trying to be funny or not? I know several bi males and they are all very definitely male in body and in mind... bit of a sweeping generalisation no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi-curious. I'm attracted to women and snogged quite a few in my teens but haven't been any further. I'd like to but I'm shy

I would play alone with the right woman, same as I would with the right man. I'd play with a woman with my husband too if we all were attracted. I wouldn't play with a woman "for" him and I don't think he'd ask me to.

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