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"No kissing, and no orgasms?! Well, absolutely nothing wrong with it if that's your thing, but it wouldn't be for us, really. "  | |||
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? "no orgasms  | |||
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? no orgasms "smacks of insecurity to me Z | |||
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"Yes 2 many rules with couples lol don't do that do this  "Well you know the answer then | |||
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"Yes 2 many rules with couples lol don't do that do this
Well you know the answer then"Yes I do, sex as one rule lol. | |||
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? no orgasms
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? no orgasms
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How rude."If you feel this is rude then that's your perception - however for us we swing to have fun and part of that is having orgasms - if you can't bear to see your partner being pleasured to orgasm during a swing meet then perhaps this isn't for you? Z | |||
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"Do the men kiss each other and what happens if someone feels an orgasm coming? I'm intrigued as to how this works " yep - me too! Z | |||
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? no orgasms
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How rude.
If you feel this is rude then that's your perception - however for us we swing to have fun and part of that is having orgasms - if you can't bear to see your partner being pleasured to orgasm during a swing meet then perhaps this isn't for you? Z"I don't think its what you said it was how you said it. | |||
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? no orgasms
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How rude.
If you feel this is rude then that's your perception - however for us we swing to have fun and part of that is having orgasms - if you can't bear to see your partner being pleasured to orgasm during a swing meet then perhaps this isn't for you? Z
I don't think its what you said it was how you said it. "aw - sowwy - and that upsetted you?Z | |||
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"It's just rules we set out and everyone we have met seems ok with it. We were just curious what other couples do. We don't cum cause we are more horny afterwards but don't mind if the others do x" can I be nosey and ask if you tell the other couple before hand that neither of you won't orgasm? X | |||
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? no orgasms
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How rude.
If you feel this is rude then that's your perception - however for us we swing to have fun and part of that is having orgasms - if you can't bear to see your partner being pleasured to orgasm during a swing meet then perhaps this isn't for you? Z
I don't think its what you said it was how you said it.
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? no orgasms
smacks of insecurity to me Z"Each person has their own rules, I can hardly see how the op Is insecure if they are prepared to swing in the first place, I agree thats a very rude thing to say.  | |||
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? no orgasms
smacks of insecurity to me Z
How rude.
If you feel this is rude then that's your perception - however for us we swing to have fun and part of that is having orgasms - if you can't bear to see your partner being pleasured to orgasm during a swing meet then perhaps this isn't for you? Z
I don't think its what you said it was how you said it.
aw - sowwy - and that upsetted you?Z
No, why would it?"lol - cos you felt the need to comment?!?! | |||
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? no orgasms
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Each person has their own rules, I can hardly see how the op Is insecure if they are prepared to swing in the first place,
I agree thats a very rude thing to say. "why is it rude as i was voicing my opinion on an open forum and that's what i think. Z | |||
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" smacks of insecurity to me Z How rude. If you feel this is rude then that's your perception - however for us we swing to have fun and part of that is having orgasms - if you can't bear to see your partner being pleasured to orgasm during a swing meet then perhaps this isn't for you? Z I don't think its what you said it was how you said it. aw - sowwy - and that upsetted you?Z No, why would it? lol - cos you felt the need to comment?!?!" I see, I thought that in an open forum comment was allowed. | |||
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"It's just rules we set out and everyone we have met seems ok with it. We were just curious what other couples do. We don't cum cause we are more horny afterwards but don't mind if the others do x" Is it like foreplay for you? How do you keep yourself in check? I think,no,I know I would struggle to not have an orgasm | |||
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" smacks of insecurity to me Z How rude. If you feel this is rude then that's your perception - however for us we swing to have fun and part of that is having orgasms - if you can't bear to see your partner being pleasured to orgasm during a swing meet then perhaps this isn't for you? Z I don't think its what you said it was how you said it. aw - sowwy - and that upsetted you?Z No, why would it? lol - cos you felt the need to comment?!?! I see, I thought that in an open forum comment was allowed." of course Z | |||
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" smacks of insecurity to me Z How rude. If you feel this is rude then that's your perception - however for us we swing to have fun and part of that is having orgasms - if you can't bear to see your partner being pleasured to orgasm during a swing meet then perhaps this isn't for you? Z I don't think its what you said it was how you said it. aw - sowwy - and that upsetted you?Z No, why would it? lol - cos you felt the need to comment?!?! I see, I thought that in an open forum comment was allowed. of course Z" Then I have to say I struggle to see your motivation in asking if I was "upsetted" | |||
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" smacks of insecurity to me Z How rude. If you feel this is rude then that's your perception - however for us we swing to have fun and part of that is having orgasms - if you can't bear to see your partner being pleasured to orgasm during a swing meet then perhaps this isn't for you? Z I don't think its what you said it was how you said it. aw - sowwy - and that upsetted you?Z No, why would it? lol - cos you felt the need to comment?!?! I see, I thought that in an open forum comment was allowed. of course Z Then I have to say I struggle to see your motivation in asking if I was "upsetted" " well as you've said yourself - on an open forum most posts are legitimate as long as they aren't abusive - i merely questioned why you were taking me to task over a post that wasn't even directed at you - Z | |||
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"Our only rule is we only have same room fun. If we at a couples and someone needs to stop it's no worry the rest can carry on. If at a club we stay together the whole time even waiting outside toilet for each other. " | |||
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"Ffs get a grip folks !! Not insecure iether of us , come along way from 5 years ago .tried 2 organise an orgy at ours last weekend .. All ment is we fuck and get fucked hard enough we have struggled 2 walk next day.,just tried 2 keep the intimacy part separate.. "ok - i know we're all different and i get that - but if you're trying to keep the intimate bits separate how come kissing with same sexes is allowed? ain't that intimate whatever the sex? Z | |||
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" smacks of insecurity to me Z How rude. If you feel this is rude then that's your perception - however for us we swing to have fun and part of that is having orgasms - if you can't bear to see your partner being pleasured to orgasm during a swing meet then perhaps this isn't for you? Z I don't think its what you said it was how you said it. aw - sowwy - and that upsetted you?Z No, why would it? lol - cos you felt the need to comment?!?! I see, I thought that in an open forum comment was allowed. of course Z Then I have to say I struggle to see your motivation in asking if I was "upsetted" well as you've said yourself - on an open forum most posts are legitimate as long as they aren't abusive - i merely questioned why you were taking me to task over a post that wasn't even directed at you - Z" I see, I was pointing out that I too thought you were being rude, not so much in what you said but in the way you said it. I know that what you said wasn't aimed at me which brings us round full circle to it being an open forum, something on which we both seem to agree. | |||
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"It's just rules we set out and everyone we have met seems ok with it. We were just curious what other couples do. We don't cum cause we are more horny afterwards but don't mind if the others do x Is it like foreplay for you? How do you keep yourself in check? I think,no,I know I would struggle to not have an orgasm" ye like foreplay i suppose and if we feel close 2 coming we stop and the other parts of our bodys are there Eg. Tounge lips and fingers | |||
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"Do the men kiss each other and what happens if someone feels an orgasm coming? I'm intrigued as to how this works yep - me too! Z" And me!
What happens if one of you reaches the point of no return?
I can understand the no kissing rule (though it's not for us) but to meet a couple where both are potentially holding back really doesn't appeal in the slightest
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"It's just rules we set out and everyone we have met seems ok with it. We were just curious what other couples do. We don't cum cause we are more horny afterwards but don't mind if the others do x Is it like foreplay for you? How do you keep yourself in check? I think,no,I know I would struggle to not have an orgasmye like foreplay i suppose and if we feel close 2 coming we stop and the other parts of our bodys are there Eg. Tounge lips and fingers "Would it be fair to say that you not being willing to orgasm and a willingness to slow down play to ensure that you don't could be quite frustratng for people you play with | |||
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"It's just rules we set out and everyone we have met seems ok with it. We were just curious what other couples do. We don't cum cause we are more horny afterwards but don't mind if the others do x Is it like foreplay for you? How do you keep yourself in check? I think,no,I know I would struggle to not have an orgasmye like foreplay i suppose and if we feel close 2 coming we stop and the other parts of our bodys are there Eg. Tounge lips and fingers
Would it be fair to say that you not being willing to orgasm and a willingness to slow down play to ensure that you don't could be quite frustratng for people you play with"totaly hmmmm yup thats why when i slowed down and used other ways to pleasure her she came again are some of you folk 4 real?? Honestly get out from up your own arses | |||
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"Nor me. Being turned on by kissing someone is a must. Each to their own I guess... " | |||
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" are some of you folk 4 real?? Honestly get out from up your own arses "Who is up their own arses? And why? As most people have acknowledged we all set our own boundaries and there is no problem with that. But you have started a thread about your own limits and invited comment and discussion about them so why get abusive? | |||
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"No kissing, and no orgasms?! Well, absolutely nothing wrong with it if that's your thing, but it wouldn't be for us, really. " same here - we are very kissy and wont meet non kissers but get that some people like to keep that personal - as for no orgasm - jees how can you not - mine just pounce on me one after the other - not going without that | |||
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"We don't play with couples that often as we've found it's too confusing. Very often they seem unsure how far they are allowed to go and if they start enjoying it too much they might get the silent treatment later! Single guys are so much easier- exactly what it says on the tin! "not confusing at all - we talk before hand - chat boundaries and we have no awkward times at all - all just great horny fun - | |||
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"What would happen if either of you were to have an orgasm? Personally I can't imagine having fun, getting so close and then saying 'right thats it I'm done'." | |||
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"What would happen if either of you were to have an orgasm? Personally I can't imagine having fun, getting so close and then saying 'right thats it I'm done'. "leave me frustrated to the nth degree | |||
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"No kissing, and no orgasms?! Well, absolutely nothing wrong with it if that's your thing, but it wouldn't be for us, really. " | |||
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"It's just rules we set out and everyone we have met seems ok with it. We were just curious what other couples do. We don't cum cause we are more horny afterwards but don't mind if the others do x Is it like foreplay for you? How do you keep yourself in check? I think,no,I know I would struggle to not have an orgasmye like foreplay i suppose and if we feel close 2 coming we stop and the other parts of our bodys are there Eg. Tounge lips and fingers "Well it works for you and that's what matters | |||
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" are some of you folk 4 real?? Honestly get out from up your own arses
Who is up their own arses? And why? As most people have acknowledged we all set our own boundaries and there is no problem with that. But you have started a thread about your own limits and invited comment and discussion about them so why get abusive?
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i find it strange setting so many rules. but we are all different.
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"Look guys if u need to kiss to get turned on so you can have the best fun thats up to you guys! Dont give us a hard time cos we dont feel the need... Me ian, i have had multiple or the longest orgasm ever once we got down to playing alone, chatting bout meet and futre meets ....and dozens like it...abusive ok but then again feel if we posted black over white ??? U get the point... "I don;t get the point?
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"Look guys if u need to kiss to get turned on so you can have the best fun thats up to you guys! Dont give us a hard time cos we dont feel the need... Me ian, i have had multiple or the longest orgasm ever once we got down to playing alone, chatting bout meet and futre meets ....and dozens like it...abusive ok but then again feel if we posted black over white ??? U get the point...
I don;t get the point?
But to be blunt that post makes it sounds like involving other people is effectively just a form of foreplay for you,"Nothing wrong with that. We are all consenting adults, I'm sure some people will want to socialize all the way up to a polyamourous marriage. Some just wanna fuck and not even know your name. If we were someone's foreplay I find that quite a compliment. | |||
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? no orgasms
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How rude.
If you feel this is rude then that's your perception - however for us we swing to have fun and part of that is having orgasms - if you can't bear to see your partner being pleasured to orgasm during a swing meet then perhaps this isn't for you? Z"And if you are so disrespectful that you think 'your way' is the only way to swing... | |||
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"It's just rules we set out and everyone we have met seems ok with it. We were just curious what other couples do. We don't cum cause we are more horny afterwards but don't mind if the others do x Is it like foreplay for you? How do you keep yourself in check? I think,no,I know I would struggle to not have an orgasmye like foreplay i suppose and if we feel close 2 coming we stop and the other parts of our bodys are there Eg. Tounge lips and fingers "I understand what you're saying. It's almost like a mix of soft and full swap. I think everyone else thinks you just literally stop when you get close to orgasm. As in you sit there arms folded...! I assume you just move positions (to prevent the orgasm) but carry on playing- fingers, tongues etc. Is that right? Sounds like fun, and like you say it will make it even more fun when you get home. | |||
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"It's just rules we set out and everyone we have met seems ok with it. We were just curious what other couples do. We don't cum cause we are more horny afterwards but don't mind if the others do x Is it like foreplay for you? How do you keep yourself in check? I think,no,I know I would struggle to not have an orgasmye like foreplay i suppose and if we feel close 2 coming we stop and the other parts of our bodys are there Eg. Tounge lips and fingers
I understand what you're saying. It's almost like a mix of soft and full swap. I think everyone else thinks you just literally stop when you get close to orgasm. As in you sit there arms folded...!
I assume you just move positions (to prevent the orgasm) but carry on playing- fingers, tongues etc. Is that right? Sounds like fun, and like you say it will make it even more fun when you get home. "I agree and everyone else is being closed minded to the possibilities of other ways to play apart from their own. Sheesh! | |||
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"Look guys if u need to kiss to get turned on so you can have the best fun thats up to you guys! Dont give us a hard time cos we dont feel the need... Me ian, i have had multiple or the longest orgasm ever once we got down to playing alone, chatting bout meet and futre meets ....and dozens like it...abusive ok but then again feel if we posted black over white ??? U get the point...
I don;t get the point?
But to be blunt that post makes it sounds like involving other people is effectively just a form of foreplay for you," black??? Point being .....its straight sharp and pointy  honestly!!! I like to think peeps on here a bit like a camper van , sit in the same spot all year round then come out for a weekend and think there down with it pmsl most profiles set to private, jugdmental ffs read " couldnt meet a guy with bad spelling on his profile/message...wow didnt realise an english exam was required to meet the exlusive ..well going 2 bed to fuck lyn and come oves her  oh ye that the person who married me and i put 1st above euery person on here shock horror we all cool | |||
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"If you aren't kissing and you aren't having any orgasms, is it really sex? " i suppose when u put it like that no and when im kissing my wife and holding her as i make her come i suppose im not making love to her iether Will you teach me your ways master | |||
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"We try to have fun and kissing and having orgasms for us is the norm - we have 'rules' but hope that commom sense would prevail if soemone fell ill or wasn't happy Z" this.. | |||
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"A meet for us without kissing would be like cheese without crackers... Morecambe without wise. You get the just. Kissing for me can break or make a meet. It's a massive turn on. " I love kissing, I love cheese, I love cheese on crackers. So much win in that post. | |||
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"A meet for us without kissing would be like cheese without crackers... Morecambe without wise. You get the just. Kissing for me can break or make a meet. It's a massive turn on. I love kissing, I love cheese, I love cheese on crackers. So much win in that post. "Ooo can i join in love love cheese | |||
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"A meet for us without kissing would be like cheese without crackers... Morecambe without wise. You get the just. Kissing for me can break or make a meet. It's a massive turn on. " yup like not wearing protection! Fuckin hate condoms but wear them as per do and dont of the couple we are meeting! But respect them and what there rules are ...  any1 had a pog at that ? | |||
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"If you aren't kissing and you aren't having any orgasms, is it really sex? " hi wife here. Can I just say we have had quite a few couples and always talk first and say what our preferences are and none of them have had a problem with it so far. We have even met couples more than once believe it or not. We don't stop others from cuming if they want to it's just our preference not to. We had a couple round last night and had rampant sex which was very enjoyable so yes it is still sex. Nice tatts by the way xx | |||
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"Personally I'd rather have sex, sensuality and fun in a meet. I might find the mood spoiled by constantly having to check the rule book, or maybe they're listed on a poster on the bedroom wall? I must say I prefer a bit of go with the flow and spontaneity in my meets. I suppose some people even use stop watches so they know when to go onto the next part of the evening's fun? Whatever floats your boat." your boat has sunk lol.. Again bullshit rule book,list on bed wall i think ur wife is calling? for a divorce | |||
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"Do the men kiss each other and what happens if someone feels an orgasm coming? I'm intrigued as to how this works " I am curious as to that too... How would you stop it... I'm not saying its wrong and I have had meets where I haven't orgasmed... But I if playing as a foursome love to watch my play partner kiss and have had it a few times where the ladies kiss him and orgasm but their partners aren't allowed to do the same with me... And it puts me off a bit x | |||
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"Personally I'd rather have sex, sensuality and fun in a meet. I might find the mood spoiled by constantly having to check the rule book, or maybe they're listed on a poster on the bedroom wall? I must say I prefer a bit of go with the flow and spontaneity in my meets. I suppose some people even use stop watches so they know when to go onto the next part of the evening's fun? Whatever floats your boat.your boat has sunk lol.. Again bullshit rule book,list on bed wall i think ur wife is calling? for a divorce "Divorced over ten years thanks. My boats still floating, looking forward to tonight's adventures | |||
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"our rules are pretty simple.... no poo,pee or pain ( it hurts does pain) no anal (got to keep something for just us ) and relax and enjoy yourselves "no anal? Really ?lol im kidding we had some1 last sat and wanted to fuck lyn up the bum! Another eh no thats our thing 2 ...she loves it x | |||
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"Do the men kiss each other and what happens if someone feels an orgasm coming? I'm intrigued as to how this works I am curious as to that too... How would you stop it... I'm not saying its wrong and I have had meets where I haven't orgasmed... But I if playing as a foursome love to watch my play partner kiss and have had it a few times where the ladies kiss him and orgasm but their partners aren't allowed to do the same with me... And it puts me off a bit x" we get really turned on watching out partner having fun with the other ones, and it makes us really horny thinking about it when we are on out own again. We've both been told to stop when the other is feeling they are about to cum so it is probably just a self control thing it's not about cuming for us we just enjoy the experience of having fun with other people when we are both there and able to watch each other. Hope that makes sense x | |||
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"Do the men kiss each other and what happens if someone feels an orgasm coming? I'm intrigued as to how this works I am curious as to that too... How would you stop it... I'm not saying its wrong and I have had meets where I haven't orgasmed... But I if playing as a foursome love to watch my play partner kiss and have had it a few times where the ladies kiss him and orgasm but their partners aren't allowed to do the same with me... And it puts me off a bit xwe get really turned on watching out partner having fun with the other ones, and it makes us really horny thinking about it when we are on out own again. We've both been told to stop when the other is feeling they are about to cum so it is probably just a self control thing it's not about cuming for us we just enjoy the experience of having fun with other people when we are both there and able to watch each other. Hope that makes sense x" what my good lady said | |||
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"No one's rules are ever wrong though and I think that constant communication is key to working xx Two years ago I did not kiss or allow oral on me and still had a good time but as I grew more confident in myself and my boundaries were pushed.. I have found new avenues of perversions to enjoy.. As long as it works for those involved and everyone knows where they stand then there will be someone for everyone " gr8 post like us growing with confidence and setting new goals and limits x | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 03/08/14 02:17:52] Whatever rules people have when playing, there are still rules on the forum
crystal"and on the public roads why? Someone will always have 2 drive ! | |||
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"Way to many rules it takes the swing out of swinging" do you choose not to post your verifications then ? | |||
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"so.... if there's no orgasms when playing with others do you (female)fake it? cos quite often the guys get more excited if they know u are about to cum! "pmsl | |||
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"No Kissing. No Touching. No loosening of clothing. No Talking. Safe sex at all times (Separate Counties) Gimp "lol Can I sit close or would you prefer me in the other room? | |||
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"I think that's why I prefer to meet singles, never met a single with any do's and don't, met a few who hadn't tried but open to new things, when you meet people with a list of do's and don'ts I find it hard to relax as i'm scared of getting carried away in the heat of the moment and upsetting someone, heaven forbid I may want a kiss or want to cum "My only rule is no couples | |||
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"No kidding n no orgasms? Makes it seem a rather pointless meet IMHO... Unless you are just talking social." We definitely have a no orgasms rule at socials lol | |||
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"We have a brightly coloured hat we call the 'sex hat'. Only the person wearing the sex hat can have any sex, orgasms, kisses or fun. You can only get the sex hat after wearing the lederhosen of foreplay for twenty minutes of closely scripted teasing." | |||
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"No kissing, and no orgasms?! Well, absolutely nothing wrong with it if that's your thing, but it wouldn't be for us, really. " Us too x | |||
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"We think no kissing is a silly rule as cant imagine having sex with another person if i couldnt kiss them . We had a meet once with a couple who didnt kiss and it was weird x " We are a no kissing couple and have never had a problem on any of the meets we have had over the past 3 years. There's probably people who think rules that you have are silly as well. That's the thing with fab there are so many variants | |||
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Whilst I would probably find it difficult to refrain from kissing (to be honest I'd be worried about doing it accidentally the whole time so it'd probably put me off)... I think the no orgasm rule wouldn't last me baring my orgasmically gorgeous chest lol | |||
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? "Hang on.. no kissing and no orgasms?? But,.. the foundations of sex, intimacy and passion were built on kissing as the precursor and orgasms as the climax: without that, I'd might as well be shagging a fleshlight! | |||
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"I think some people are being quite rude just because a couple has rules. Come on, rule books, lists on the walls. If someone can't remember a few rules then I don't know how you've made it this far in life. I've noticed it generally seems to be singles that don't get the need/want to have rules. Rules are there because the couple have decided that these few things are to be kept for them and why shouldn't couples keep things for themselves. There relationship will possibly be the most important thing to them and it seems natural to safeguard anything that is important in your life. When me and juicy have sex it is an intimate act as there are deep feelings between us both and the way we express our love is through kissing. We kiss when we part each other to go out and when we get back home. We also don't do every sexual act under the sun when we have sex and I guarantee no one else does on here so what does it matter if a rule excludes a certain act. If you don't like the rules and can't find mutual ground then move on to the next person and hopefully your wants/needs will be compatible. But there is no need to slate someone elses rules and make assumptions about there relationship." | |||
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"We try to have fun and kissing and having orgasms for us is the norm - we have 'rules' but hope that commom sense would prevail if soemone fell ill or wasn't happy Z" | |||
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"Although they will vary vastly,what roughly would folk class as the norm? We don't kiss the opposite sex ! We stop if someone has to leave the room unless they consent to all carying on ! If one person begins to feel unwell or has to stop everyone stops ! No pain ! We don't orgasm at meets, a private thing for us Shortest meet to date was 2 and a half hours , longest 5-7 hours and we try to start the fun as soon as ? "Really | |||
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