FabSwingers.com forum: Why is no one on here looking for a 19 year old?!?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm 19 and I just wanna play with some older couples or even an older woman!!but most of them don't want it! :/ if any couples or sexy single women married or not want a young guy to fuck them, hmu!!!!

)

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

it is difficult for younger guys I'm afraid.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But why?

i at least wanna fuck an older single woman!! :/ I made this thing to get into swinging early! But I haven't had the chance! :/

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is not all about fucking

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"But why?

i at least wanna fuck an older single woman!! :/ I made this thing to get into swinging early! But I haven't had the chance! :/ "

okay... blunt question time...

would you answer your own profile? really????

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But why?

i at least wanna fuck an older single woman!! :/ I made this thing to get into swinging early! But I haven't had the chance! :/ "

It's not just about a fuck, single women young and old are far from desperate here they get their pick of who they fancy. You have to work very hard to get what you want.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately age is a big issue, most dear people aren't interested in anyone the same age as their kids, some for other reasons. Your one line profile implies it's all about you and your satisfaction nothing about what you can offer so unless you improve your profile, I doubt you will find what you want

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"But why?

i at least wanna fuck an older single woman!! :/ I made this thing to get into swinging early! But I haven't had the chance! :/ "

I think you come across as just being in it for what you can get and while some women might be happy with that I don't know many.

There is a very high ratio of women to men on here so you need to make a bit of effort.

What were you hoping it would be like?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Swinging tends to be something that couples get into later in their marriage. Often this happens when their kids have left, or are getting close to that age.

Which often leads to off putting comparisons when they consider their required age ranges.

Obviously there are exceptions to this, but you will find that your pool of potential partners is a lot smaller as a result.

I shouldn't say this, but adding 3 years to your age would probably help, assuming you carry off the improved maturity!

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *iguy39Man
over a year ago

manchester

I'm looking for a 19 year old! But a pretty one who is a girl!

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile comes across very immature, even for it only being two lines

We all know why we're here. You just need to sell yourself better

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Idk! :/ could u guys help me out? Like should i explain what I'm good at? Like, I really love giving oral to women!! Is that something that I should include? I'm really new to this and I don't really know what to put!

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also too many dick picks

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Idk! :/ could u guys help me out? Like should i explain what I'm good at? Like, I really love giving oral to women!! Is that something that I should include? I'm really new to this and I don't really know what to put! "

If you can't even work out what you should write about yourself then maybe reevaluate why you're here.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the fact you are "really new" - obviously at 19 means ladies don't want to have to teach you what to do...they prefer experience most times.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Write in English, not Prince-speak.

Dial back the emoticons.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you're 19

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, say what you like but also what you can give.

Good luck.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does profile text say you are 24?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Go on, shave, wear a wig, Basque, knickers, hold ups, learn how to make up, and walk in heels. I'll fuck you

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 32 WITH a 6pack and its hard for me lol, yes we are just to young

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because you're 19"

His profile says he is 24!!!!

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Why does profile text say you are 24?"

Possibly because earlier on someone suggested he stuck a few years on his age?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Why does profile text say you are 24?"

when in doubt... lie!!!

thats going to help win people over now....

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Because you're 19

His profile says he is 24!!!!"

That's because someone advised him to add some years to his age.

Op women value truth unless their bum really does look.big in it......

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha he lies about his age on profile but his status still says 19.

Fail

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's exactly what it is! I added a few years in hopes of maybe getting my foot in the door!

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG lol

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Swinging tends to be something that couples get into later in their marriage. Often this happens when their kids have left, or are getting close to that age.

Which often leads to off putting comparisons when they consider their required age ranges.

Obviously there are exceptions to this, but you will find that your pool of potential partners is a lot smaller as a result.

I shouldn't say this, but adding 3 years to your age would probably help, assuming you carry off the improved maturity!"

no offence... encouraging people to lie is really disapointing

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does profile text say you are 24?"

I was wondering that to

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't go near little boys

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Being older and mildly jaded has always worked well for me....

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately at 19 there's not much in it for us. You can be as eager as you like, you're just not very good. I know, it sucks, but its true.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read the forums for the time being before you message anyone,

Take your time and get to know the person And look at other male profiles for tips on how to make your profile stand out

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"That's exactly what it is! I added a few years in hopes of maybe getting my foot in the door! "

Seriously it is very.difficult for single men and young single men in particular. Be honest and be true to yourself, I don't know if they have socials where you are but if they do go to one. I know you're keen but you do need a lot of patience in this type of thing.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm would I ???

Yup

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and don't lie

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A name like rideme doesn't help either

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you know no one's looking for a 19 year old? Have you read ALL of the profiles?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Unfortunately at 19 there's not much in it for us. You can be as eager as you like, you're just not very good. I know, it sucks, but its true."

Remembering myself at 19....

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3"

You do know this is the internet, don't you?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You accuse people of being rude when you admit your profile is now inaccurate and deceptive.

If people are not interested in teenagers it's for a reason not a personal slight.

Respect the choices of others and do not lie to people

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3"

Showing your age and maturity levels here. You asked for help and advise and got it. Either take it on board like an adult or don't.

People aren't going to tell you what YOU want to here. They will tell you the truth and that's that.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

*hear

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3"

the problem is this.... you have shown in the last few post that you are prepare to say (and lie) about anything to get your leg over than be true to yourself....

so its all well and good lashing out at everyone else... no one forced to listen and change your profile (and lie)

only you know you.... if you can't sell yourself no one is going to be able to do it for you!!!!

i tend to say the same things... time, patience, basic common sense... lieing doesn't full under "basic common sense"

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

When I was in my teens and most of my twenties I was really into shagging older women. They were fantastic, knew what they wanted and how to get it. Now with all the legal stuff that's going down from the seventies and eighties I'm quite relieved that there's little from those days that could come back to bite me in the bum

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*hear"

Another example of immaturity. Can't think of anything decent to say so you result to correcting spelling.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am 32 WITH a 6pack and its hard for me lol, yes we are just to young

When people said in another thread that you tend to mention your six pack a lot, I thought they were Lieing ....

Ha ha ha fuck me, you sure do mention it a tad

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Cut the guy some slack! Youth and inexperience are not crimes and I hope people can learn by example some of the time.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3"

Get used to it hahaha but common your 19 get out there. When your tied down with a busy career then come back.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3

the problem is this.... you have shown in the last few post that you are prepare to say (and lie) about anything to get your leg over than be true to yourself....

so its all well and good lashing out at everyone else... no one forced to listen and change your profile (and lie)

only you know you.... if you can't sell yourself no one is going to be able to do it for you!!!!

i tend to say the same things... time, patience, basic common sense... lieing doesn't full under "basic common sense""

It reminds me of when my daughter was at college and I dropped her off and picked her up for her first interview for a part time job. Me 'How did it go?' Her 'Okay but they asked some strange questions.' Me 'Like what?' Her 'What did I think was my worst feature?' Me 'What did you say?' Her 'Time keeping.' Me 'You haven't got the job.' Her 'Why?' To be honest she went on to get a first with honours at Uni, but she still needs to improve her marketing skills

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ong riderMan
over a year ago

belfast

i had a lot in common with this guy when i was 19 - i was horny - i loved older - i was a total immature clueless knob that hadn't a scrap of understanding about what experience and life was about and how it added to things. Advice: chill out

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i had a lot in common with this guy when i was 19 - i was horny - i loved older - i was a total immature clueless knob that hadn't a scrap of understanding about what experience and life was about and how it added to things. Advice: chill out"

What guy his age didnt i know im on the same boat still am cant risist an sexy mature woman.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey if everyone wants to lead by example and exercise some maturity, simply stop replying to the thread where it's no longer necessary. This isn't going to teach him anything but never to be honest ever again

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3"

My constructive feedback is if you are going to tell fibs about your age its probably not a good idea to advertise it on the forums

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately