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when to hang up your condoms

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By *yber pimp OP   Man
over a year ago

durham area

im curious to find out others opions on this: is there a cut off age for swingers to hang up there condoms and bow out gracefully. or do we keep going till we expire on meets. whats the shelf life of a swinger, best before date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I'm 53 and certainly not ready yet to hang 'em up.

As long as I can "climb aboard" I'll keep on "riding"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooh were feeling quite old for swingers already x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally when you start questioning it

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

As I, male, am 8 years older than A, We suspect it will be when I cant get it up anymore.

Seriously though, I cant see us carrying on into our retirement, but if we,re still having fun, who knows. I suspect for most people it will be when they stop having fun.

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By *yber pimp OP   Man
over a year ago

durham area

im all for 'dying with my boots on', and so long as there meets out there then i guess there is time to continue

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By *yber pimp OP   Man
over a year ago

durham area


"Normally when you start questioning it "
that hurt lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I, male, am 8 years older than A, We suspect it will be when I cant get it up anymore.

Seriously though, I cant see us carrying on into our retirement, but if we,re still having fun, who knows. I suspect for most people it will be when they stop having fun."

Think that sums it up for most of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nearly 51 and only been swinging for a couple of years so hope i have a few years of fun left in me,

And when the time comes and i go on to the big swingers party that i will have a big smile on my face from all the fun i've had lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd say its probably when you stop getting meets, though the clincher must surely be when you get no return meets.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would say its when the body is no longer willing.

Nothing more dissapointing than a meet and the guy can't manage anything but valiantly keeps trying,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi there if any1 would like to come and say hello please feel free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would say its when the body is no longer willing.

Nothing more dissapointing than a meet and the guy can't manage anything but valiantly keeps trying, "

when im older and greyer !!!

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By *yber pimp OP   Man
over a year ago

durham area


"I'm nearly 51 and only been swinging for a couple of years so hope i have a few years of fun left in me,

And when the time comes and i go on to the big swingers party that i will have a big smile on my face from all the fun i've had lol. "
im hoping if im there before you im hosting that party. if you get there before me, reserve my slot, will be hot to trot lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess i will stop when noone wants to meet me any more, tho as a single female im sure you could come on here at 80 and some bugger would still shag you lol

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By *INKKKYMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL/ WIRRAL


"oooh were feeling quite old for swingers already x "
Only stop when you cant pop!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"We'd say its probably when you stop getting meets, though the clincher must surely be when you get no return meets.

XXXX"

Ok, we'll pack up our things and leave now!

Seriously though, you may be right. There is a time when you probably won't be able to meet the sort of people you have a preference for and unless you "move the goalposts" that would be that!

And we have noticed that once Mr reached 50, the mails slowed to a trickle and now I am 52 and Innuendo is 50!... "What? This site has mail???" lol. Still, we don't let it worry us as we get to clubs and naughty holidays.

Actually, that is a good question... Why is age so important on a site like this, but at a club the same people don't seem to care? We have actually played with a couple at a club and when we looked at their profile, it said "definately no one over 45"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok... we`ll collect our gold watches then !! pmsl

Think ya right about the messages slowing down when 50 looms, but hey been there , got the t-shirt etc

.......better than never having tried and regretting xx

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Its when your no longer interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will keep going till people don't want to meet me. I don't think i can get any uglier though lol.

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By *yber pimp OP   Man
over a year ago

durham area

i have to disagree with couples saying hit 50 messages stop. not blowing my own trumpet (theres a wish) i have found an increase in mail from interested parties

long may it go on

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I met a couple and the people they were playing were all a fair bit oder than me so guessing in the 50s plus more.

They were clearly still enjoying it so carry on with it.

If you wondering if there is a time to stop then maybe its when you start asking if there is a time to stop.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

bloody hell we're in our 50's and enjoying life more than ever ....... not hanging anything up yet, not even the condoms! do get funny looks when you ask for condoms at the GUM clinic though, well when you ask for more than one packet anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey we are getting more requests for a meet than before.Although there are some single guys it is mainly couples and believe it or not single ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there is any specific age when you should give up. Provided you are honest with yourself what you can still enjoy, and honest with those you meet, why should your age make any difference?

There are plenty of people out there who like older people for fun (I would never limit myself by the age of the person)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would of thought it would be up to each person to make there own mind up.not everybody will want to go on till they can not get interested anymore.its an individual choice i suppose.

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

It may be when your list of don'ts heavily outweigh your list of do's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

time to retire ,when it stops being fun and the mind is making appointments the body cannot keep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would say its when the body is no longer willing.

Nothing more dissapointing than a meet and the guy can't manage anything but valiantly keeps trying, "

Id agree with that one, age has nothing to do with it. Ive a 60 yr old (59 when i met him at xmas) that last friday came 10 times, he's rock hard no sooner has he come, on the other hand a 52 yr old who came once then struggled and had to admit defeat on his 2nd attempt.

On another note, im 49 and have started gushing, never done it before, like niagara falls

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Bit of news for you all.. We hung up our condoms at the weekend! Fookin place stinks now.

Two questions

1. Are we supposed to have hung up used ones?

2. When can we take em down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of news for you all.. We hung up our condoms at the weekend! Fookin place stinks now.

Two questions

1. Are we supposed to have hung up used ones?

2. When can we take em down?

"

euuggghh!! actually boaked there !!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of news for you all.. We hung up our condoms at the weekend! Fookin place stinks now.

Two questions

1. Are we supposed to have hung up used ones?

2. When can we take em down?

euuggghh!! actually boaked there !!x"

Used half filled condoms pinned to the beadhead with drawing pins! I feel a little sick too!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Bit of news for you all.. We hung up our condoms at the weekend! Fookin place stinks now.

Two questions

1. Are we supposed to have hung up used ones?

2. When can we take em down?

euuggghh!! actually boaked there !!x

Used half filled condoms pinned to the beadhead with drawing pins! I feel a little sick too! "

Half filled??? I wish lol

No pins here, we do at least tie string round em! lol

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By *et_me_take_controlMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Bit of news for you all.. We hung up our condoms at the weekend! Fookin place stinks now.

Two questions

1. Are we supposed to have hung up used ones?

2. When can we take em down?

"

Its like underpants - if you use them then turn them inside out you can get double the useage

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

One of our first full swaps several years ago was with a couple in their mid 60s. They looked a lot younger and the woman was slim and extremely dirty, more exciting for G than many women 20 years younger!

As long as you enjoy it, keep doing it! We certainly will, and want to grow old disgracefully!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always hang upmy condoms next to my socks in my wardrope! lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i always hang upmy condoms next to my socks in my wardrope! lol "

you hang your socks up???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always hang upmy condoms next to my socks in my wardrope! lol

you hang your socks up???"

Oh yes!! i sure do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi there if any1 would like to come and say hello please feel free "

HELLO ,,lol

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