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"read the book and watced the film and have to say its a pile of pants!!" Everyone entitled to their opinion but this is a practical thread so constructive criticism welcomed. | |||
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"Put 50 shades in the bin.....story of O is very sexy. Read it last year on holiday, let's just say I had to take a dip in the pool to cool off on a few occasions. Lol Pity not many Chateau owners on fab..." Were you in France? | |||
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"read the book and watced the film and have to say its a pile of pants!! Everyone entitled to their opinion but this is a practical thread so constructive criticism welcomed." Missed that bit in the rules The whole book is about a woman who has submission thrust upon her. She had no clue what was going to happen when she went to the château, the love of her life gave her away like a possession to a man she initially hated. They forces sex acts upon her, cut her anal sphincter to allow easy anal sex, padlocked her vagina shut etc. On all the BDSM threads we read how submission is given as a gift yet this is supposed to be THE book to read to get into the scene and all it shows is if kept as a slave and forced to fuck random men any woman can.become a sub. I dunno...maybe I read it wrong or something but that was my lasting impression. I have sub tendencies so isn't a case of my mind being closed to the Dom/sub scenario before anyone suggests such. | |||
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"Try First Tango in Paris too!" Is that the prequel to Last Tango in Paris which is a good film for its time? | |||
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"Put 50 shades in the bin.....story of O is very sexy. Read it last year on holiday, let's just say I had to take a dip in the pool to cool off on a few occasions. Lol Pity not many Chateau owners on fab... Were you in France?" Unfortunately not | |||
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"The whole book is about a woman who has submission thrust upon her. She had no clue what was going to happen when she went to the château, the love of her life gave her away like a possession to a man she initially hated. They forces sex acts upon her, cut her anal sphincter to allow easy anal sex, padlocked her vagina shut etc. On all the BDSM threads we read how submission is given as a gift yet this is supposed to be THE book to read to get into the scene and all it shows is if kept as a slave and forced to fuck random men any woman can.become a sub. I dunno...maybe I read it wrong or something but that was my lasting impression. I have sub tendencies so isn't a case of my mind being closed to the Dom/sub scenario before anyone suggests such. " Yes I also think the story is a bit hard on O. In real life I think it will have to be a bit more tame. If I was O I would have the safety word ready but it would be about me challenging myself to be able to take more punishment, to bring myself to a different level of awareness, 'And yet those parts of her body most constantly offended, having become less sensitive, at the same time seemed to her to have become more beautiful and, as it were, ennobled: her mouth closed upon anonymous members, the tips of her breasts constantly fondled by hands, and between her quartered thighs the twin, contiguous paths wantonly ploughed. That she should have been ennobled and gained in dignity through being prostituted was a source of surprise, and yet dignity was indeed from within, and her bearing bespoke calm, while on her face could be detected the serenity and imperceptible smile that one surmises rather than actually sees in the eyes of hermits.' I would enter it as a real experience with my lover and that is what it is all about for me, love. My love and trust will allow my lover to plan all activities, but I would have a safety word but when I use it it would be an admission of failure. | |||
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"They forces sex acts upon her, cut her anal sphincter to allow easy anal sex, padlocked her vagina shut etc" I don't remember that, just checked the text and I can't find anything about her anal sphincter being cut, lots of training though with butt plugs. 'O on her knees humbling receiving Sir Stephen's massive upright sex in her mouth, saw her, prostate, spread her own buttocks with both hands to offer him the after passage.' She is pierced and has a little padlock fitted occasionally which I find ok. I wonder how that would work on a male, with a Prince Albert it would be easy but I don't want one, maybe a cock ring at either end with a chain between them? | |||
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""My poor dear girl, I just couldn't work up the courage to tell you: you're to be branded. Sir Stephen sent me the branding irons two days ago." "Branded?" Yvonne cried, "with a red-hot branding iron?" " As O's lover I would decide what I would want for her and it would be up to her whether to submit to my will/whim etc. | |||
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""My poor dear girl, I just couldn't work up the courage to tell you: you're to be branded. Sir Stephen sent me the branding irons two days ago." "Branded?" Yvonne cried, "with a red-hot branding iron?" " Other girls just receive a tattoo perhaps, but it is O's special privilege to be fully branded... | |||
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"She is pierced and has a little padlock fitted occasionally which I find ok. I wonder how that would work on a male" You could just use a cock cage. | |||
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"I think it's difficult to understand concepts like some in 'o' because of a rather dramatic societal shift since it was first published in '54. Women, for the most part, we more accepting of where men led them at that time. If the events described happened today, like giving her away or taking her to be a slave without her consent, there would be a very different outcome in many women because now we are socially conditioned to say'uh, no. I'm equal and you have no right to do this to me', not to mention kidnapping, human trafficking and various other charges pending against many involved. Ultimately, it's unlikely in the extreme that it could be enacted now in the way it's portrayed in the book. " I think it is a more basic experience if one believes sincerely in equality and love. O could leave at any time she wasnt at Roissy against her will. While its true that she didnt know what she let herself in for that would be an important part of it for me when I go through the experience as O. Also we could have Mistresses as well as masters, it would have to be a bi experience for me | |||
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