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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple don't meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a lady that will pay her way, and babysitter is her duty.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have canned it now ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find a lady that will pay her way, and babysitter is her duty.

Her "

was a couple !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not prostitution if you're not paying for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your choice and your choice only I m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find a lady that will pay her way, and babysitter is her duty.

Her

was a couple !"
then applies the same, don't make yourself into a meal ticket, find someone that don't take liberty with you.

Her

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon.. "

Does sound a bit like taking the pis to me. I once had someone stipulate that I picked them up and that I buy them a bottle of Southern Comfort, I think was nearly £25 when I looked in the Supermarket. I decided to pass on that, I don't mind getting a bottle of wine in but.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like they were making excuses to not meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We d consider it rude if we invited someone to ours for fun if they did nt bring a bottle ffs they take a bottle on come dine with me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like they were making excuses to not meet "

definately meeters... met loads on here ..all seem to involve a lot of drinking in advance...

ive taken the pragmatic _iew & canned it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We d consider it rude if we invited someone to ours for fun if they did nt bring a bottle ffs they take a bottle on come dine with me lol "
#

always bring bottle to someones house always £15+ as well .. invite me xx

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Id be uncomfy with money or things that needed covering being discussed.

Id see it as friends meeting who then might shag.

Ive never met so just guessing really.

As soon as someone said 'I'd need this covering or that' Id hopefully know her background enough to know if this was reasonable/genuine or wether she was pulling a fast one. If I felt she was out to earn it would end there and then, wouldnt give a rats ass to see a post pop up calling me a timewaster either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id be uncomfy with money or things that needed covering being discussed.

Id see it as friends meeting who then might shag.

Ive never met so just guessing really.

As soon as someone said 'I'd need this covering or that' Id hopefully know her background enough to know if this was reasonable/genuine or wether she was pulling a fast one. If I felt she was out to earn it would end there and then, wouldnt give a rats ass to see a post pop up calling me a timewaster either"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like someones having a laugh expecting all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a single mum who you have spoken to for some time who genuinely couldn't afford a sitter then I suppose it's cheaper than going on the town and not necessarily pulling.

However as a couple that's ridiculous, I would never expect someone to cover our baby sitting costs. Nice to have a drink bought for us but never expected

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it was a single mum who you have spoken to for some time who genuinely couldn't afford a sitter then I suppose it's cheaper than going on the town and not necessarily pulling.

However as a couple that's ridiculous, I would never expect someone to cover our baby sitting costs. Nice to have a drink bought for us but never expected "
contact me any time xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon.. "

Sounds like they were looking for reasons why they won't meey you yet you were offering to pay to take those blocks out of the way. The way you have written it, all talk of you paying came from you.

Ok they could have declined but if you are desperate enough to pick someone up, pay for their child care, pay for a cab etc then more fool you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never do it, just a quick shag for me or owt lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like they were making excuses to not meet "

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon.. "

my thought.... you were prepared to go a long way for a potential meet... the title is only valid if you are prepared to pay...

they didn't make demands, you got desperate... and its only when you thought all your effort wasn't going to get rewarded you bailed.....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it happens because some people are daft & desperate enough to pay........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprise they didn't ask for you to pay for their weekly big shop

Some people believe they can get away with taking the piss with single men, and unfortunately the number you will obey far outweigh the ones that say no, so they will prob move onto to a less confident man

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Surprise they didn't ask for you to pay for their weekly big shop

Some people believe they can get away with taking the piss with single men, and unfortunately the number you will obey far outweigh the ones that say no, so they will prob move onto to a less confident man "

They didn't ask...he offered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon.. "

That someone shouldn't have arranged to meet if couldn't get babysitter and/or have a way to get home. Not least because if you were a weirdo (not saying you are btw) surely it's a safety thing to have the means to get home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon.. "

Should be a name and shame chatroom for piss takers like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon..

Should be a name and shame chatroom for piss takers like that. "

no there shouldn't, which is why there isn't one!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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Should be a name and shame chatroom for piss takers like that. "

since the OP outed himself since he was the one that offered... how would that work????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in this instance, but it does make me laugh, but a little angry, when you see women / couples asking for things like 'take me out tonight and you might get lucky' or 'sugar daddy wanted to spoil me with nice things', it's just embarrassing adults say things like that....manipulation at best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon.. "

Surely after the 'can't afford a babysitter'. . Your response should have been . . 'Okay maybe another time?'. . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not in this instance, but it does make me laugh, but a little angry, when you see women / couples asking for things like 'take me out tonight and you might get lucky' or 'sugar daddy wanted to spoil me with nice things', it's just embarrassing adults say things like that....manipulation at best!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surprise they didn't ask for you to pay for their weekly big shop

Some people believe they can get away with taking the piss with single men, and unfortunately the number you will obey far outweigh the ones that say no, so they will prob move onto to a less confident man

They didn't ask...he offered! "

Err I felt a bit sob story to start...soon realised they wanted a good night out on me..

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Find a lady that will pay her way, and babysitter is her duty.

Her "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never name and shame...just moved on....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Surprise they didn't ask for you to pay for their weekly big shop

Some people believe they can get away with taking the piss with single men, and unfortunately the number you will obey far outweigh the ones that say no, so they will prob move onto to a less confident man

They didn't ask...he offered!

Err I felt a bit sob story to start...soon realised they wanted a good night out on me.."

But you still offered the money, they never asked (or declined lol) and now your accusing them of prostitution?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people ask for 'gifts', drinks out, hotel rooms, blah blah blah. They convince themselves it's not prostitution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the difference is offering and people expecting

i have a few times paid for hotel rooms by choise but if someone told me i had to pay id tell them to bugger off, when meeting for a drink i have no problem getting the drinks in but if i was told to i wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit.

A couple wanted to meet and we were skint. And did ask for them to bring the protection as I just didnt have the money for them.

But needless to say that both packs got used.

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By *corpiomanMan
over a year ago

harrogate


"arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon.. "

Pay fuck all for her, in fact charge the bitch for fuel!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say the best things in life are free. For the people who have the nerve to ask,or throw subtle hints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon..

Should be a name and shame chatroom for piss takers like that. "

Oh that would work Thank god the site owners see that name and shame never works. If they did im sure most of the single fems names would be on there out of spite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon..

Should be a name and shame chatroom for piss takers like that.

Oh that would work Thank god the site owners see that name and shame never works. If they did im sure most of the single fems names would be on there out of spite."

Agreed, shock horror someone should reply who actually charges guys and doesn't let couples/ fems know they doing this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arranged to meet someone

then ,,cant get there, OK i will pick up, cant afford baby sitter,ok..i'll cover it,then we would like a FEW drinks first, ...ok, then how do we get home IF we play ..ok i will cover a cab........NO wait im being made to look desperate here..

whats everyones thoughts on this..am i being harsh ? .. always happy if i take a lady to a club to drive and pay to get in for us but c'mon.. "

Cor I thought I was poor/cheeky

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

She has not got the guts to tell you she has changed her mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sounds like someones having a laugh expecting all that."

definately taking the piss I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she's making excuses but wants to save her feelings.

For me, if I go to a meet it's no different to if I'm calling round to a friend's house. Generally I'm driving I don't offer to bring any drinks or anything round. I feel a bit tight now reading that some couples expect it as minimum.

Personally I think from the lady's safety point of _iew (I suppose different if meeting a couple) that I don't want her to think I'm trying to get her d*unk and take advantage!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"sounds like someones having a laugh expecting all that.

definately taking the piss I'd say "

But they weren't expecting it....he offered it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had something similar where I was contacted by a female who insisted that the first meet would have to be at a hotel, which is fair enough. But she wanted £10 per hour for her babysitter and the babysitters taxi fare home on top. Her estimate was 4 hours plus £15 for the taxi, total £55 plus the hotel cost.

Tempted as I was at what return was on offer I'm just not that desperate and declined.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Not least because if you were a weirdo (not saying you are btw) surely it's a safety thing to have the means to get home "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a woman who wanted a "gift" of underwear and a hotel paid for where her hubby and her could stay. She seemed a nice woman on the face if it but in the end she was manipulative and probably a ptofessional. Lesson learnt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had something similar where I was contacted by a female who insisted that the first meet would have to be at a hotel, which is fair enough. But she wanted £10 per hour for her babysitter and the babysitters taxi fare home on top. Her estimate was 4 hours plus £15 for the taxi, total £55 plus the hotel cost.

Tempted as I was at what return was on offer I'm just not that desperate and declined.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've had something similar where I was contacted by a female who insisted that the first meet would have to be at a hotel, which is fair enough. But she wanted £10 per hour for her babysitter and the babysitters taxi fare home on top. Her estimate was 4 hours plus £15 for the taxi, total £55 plus the hotel cost.

Tempted as I was at what return was on offer I'm just not that desperate and declined.

"

Fairly cheap cheap for three to four hours with a prostitute is she was a looker. Over ten years ago my ex was charging £350 for three hours. Either she drove herself to bookings, if she thought she might have a drink I drove. If the guy had a hotel that was down to him however we had a separate apartment that she could see punters at, no extra charge. I hate the mixing of games, swinging is swinging is swinging, nothing wrong with that. Prostitution is prostitution, nothing wrong with that either. I know swingers who are prostitutes and prostitutes, some come to one hobby from a job, some come to one job from a hobby.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

As a gentle man.when meeting woman at home. Is good to bring a bottle of champagne or wine.if possible a pack of cigarette when you know she smoke.If she keep asking for more stuff.to me.that is prostitution by (proxy) period. Use your tongue to count your teeth and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind going for a meet or a few drinks as part of a meet, it can be a good way to get to know each other and I have had some very good meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a gentle man.when meeting woman at home. Is good to bring a bottle of champagne or wine.if possible a pack of cigarette when you know she smoke.If she keep asking for more stuff.to me.that is prostitution by (proxy) period. Use your tongue to count your teeth and leave."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody once bought fem a bottle of perfume which was nice and we ve remained friends and met again

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"As a gentle man.when meeting woman at home. Is good to bring a bottle of champagne or wine.if possible a pack of cigarette when you know she smoke.If she keep asking for more stuff.to me.that is prostitution by (proxy) period. Use your tongue to count your teeth and leave."

Free fags??

Fuck me! Have you seen the price of them these days? And if it's someone you've never met before how do you know what brand to buy her?

You might get shown the door if she's a Virginia Slim girl and you rock up with a packet of Chesterfield Menthol!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't ask for someone to pay for anything however from our perspective there is a different twist to this.

We get lots of mails from guys asking to meet Bev, we like to meet guys who can accommodate, however some either cant or don't live locally.

Our first reply is no wont meet for the above reasons, they then say what about hotel, our blunt answer to this is, we wont pay for hotels as we can meet guys at their home for nothing, so why would we pay to meet you.

if they then say they are willing to pay for hotel, we will let them as it's their choice and suggestion, but we never place further financial demands on them and never asked them to pay for hotel anyway, its their choice. Don't see anything wrong with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work door to door so this sounds like objections to meeting and they're probably relieved now that you've given up. I wouldnt call it prositution seeing you offered to do these things for them and certainly wouldn't have offered to get a couple a child minder.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

All I expect is for a guy to turn up on time. Anything else is a bonus. I've had the odd bottle of wine (which I don't drink) and chocolates. But to ASK for someone to bring something? I couldn't be that hard faced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't ask for anything but if someone nice offers to bring me something then im more likely to want to see him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never take anything to meets and I would feel very uncomfortable if someone turned up with something for me. Even if it was a bottle of wine. It just seems very very odd to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ask for anything but if someone nice offers to bring me something then im more likely to want to see him."

Your more likely to want to meet someone if they bring you something?Sounds a little shallow to me.

I'm only interested in the people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ask for anything but if someone nice offers to bring me something then im more likely to want to see him.

Your more likely to want to meet someone if they bring you something?Sounds a little shallow to me.

I'm only interested in the people."

only I was talking to a man on the phone I wasn't sure about him because he was foreign then he said he would bring me some cake so I thought that's nice of him, he bought me sherry instead which we both drank, then after he had gone my hubby said oh, no cake, was looking forward to that.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"All I expect is for a guy to turn up on time. Anything else is a bonus. I've had the odd bottle of wine (which I don't drink) and chocolates. But to ASK for someone to bring something? I couldn't be that hard faced. "

I think that's the difference.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I wouldn't ask for anything but if someone nice offers to bring me something then im more likely to want to see him.

Your more likely to want to meet someone if they bring you something?Sounds a little shallow to me.

I'm only interested in the people.

only I was talking to a man on the phone I wasn't sure about him because he was foreign then he said he would bring me some cake so I thought that's nice of him, he bought me sherry instead which we both drank, then after he had gone my hubby said oh, no cake, was looking forward to that. "

Is your husband Homer Simpson?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"All I expect is for a guy to turn up on time. Anything else is a bonus. I've had the odd bottle of wine (which I don't drink) and chocolates. But to ASK for someone to bring something? I couldn't be that hard faced. "

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

Any costs 50/50 or I don't meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ponsing ..simple

Her

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I always have some sweets in my handbag, but then I don't think you should go anywhere without sweets. If someone thinks 2-3 blackjacks or Fruitsalads is a good reason to meet me, then they really need their head looking at

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

The amount of times fems have offered to pick me up buy me beer have fun at hers then she drops me back at mine with a box of chocs. Oh wait never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always have some sweets in my handbag, but then I don't think you should go anywhere without sweets. If someone thinks 2-3 blackjacks or Fruitsalads is a good reason to meet me, then they really need their head looking at "

Yes I think they would too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A well intentioned gift is nice as long as it's given in the right manner !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always have some sweets in my handbag, but then I don't think you should go anywhere without sweets. If someone thinks 2-3 blackjacks or Fruitsalads is a good reason to meet me, then they really need their head looking at "

Oh Tina you have never offered me sweeties.... Ohhhh the pain

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Hinting for expenses or a payment is not what Admin want for the site so I would report just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got lucky a couple of times, one man bought me chocolates and 3 bottles of Russian vodka. and another one bought me bunch of roses and bottle of wine. Not everyones a tight wad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"got lucky a couple of times, one man bought me chocolates and 3 bottles of Russian vodka. and another one bought me bunch of roses and bottle of wine. Not everyones a tight wad. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin will only take notice if you re asking for gifts which we never would !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never expect anything but its a nice surprise if I do get something.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am not sure I would be comfortable with gifts of any kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have brought wine and things to gang bangs which seems off, I am offered money all the time, for sex, underwear, shoes,,, maybe they got the same, but to be fair you offered to pay, I think they were making excuses x

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

My thoughts on the OP? She didn't want to meet and was giving excuses that you were countering with offers to address. I don't know what this person looks like, but most people would have knocked it on the head after the first or second excuse.

That being said, the question of who is spending more or who is bringing gifts depends on circumstances.

I would never meet anyone who demands a gift as a condition of meeting.., unless of course you're Halle Berry, Marilyn Monroe & Whitney Houston (the resurrected), or a Nurse Gladys Emmanuel that appears through a time machine.

However there are situations when it is a nice-to-do, within reason, and when it isn't asked for.

If a couple invites me to their home for an all night meet, I'll take a bottle with me. Just as I would if a friend invites me for dinner at their home.

If I'm invited to a hotel room that has been paid for and we're having drinks at the bar first, I'll be happy to get a few rounds in.

As long as it is within reason and not beyond the bounds of piss taking, it's fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My thoughts on the OP? She didn't want to meet and was giving excuses that you were countering with offers to address. I don't know what this person looks like, but most people would have knocked it on the head after the first or second excuse.

That being said, the question of who is spending more or who is bringing gifts depends on circumstances.

I would never meet anyone who demands a gift as a condition of meeting.., unless of course you're Halle Berry, Marilyn Monroe & Whitney Houston (the resurrected), or a Nurse Gladys Emmanuel that appears through a time machine.

However there are situations when it is a nice-to-do, within reason, and when it isn't asked for.

If a couple invites me to their home for an all night meet, I'll take a bottle with me. Just as I would if a friend invites me for dinner at their home.

If I'm invited to a hotel room that has been paid for and we're having drinks at the bar first, I'll be happy to get a few rounds in.

As long as it is within reason and not beyond the bounds of piss taking, it's fine."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone offers to pay me into a club i decline UNLESS they are a trusted friend who we sometimes go as friends

i would ever accept gifts or ask for anything

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