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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do any other single girls find that couples treat them like escorts girls....thinking they can book you when it suits them and forget that people have friends and commitments away from Fab?

I am finding some people too pushy which is off-putting

Any thoughts?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Set your filters against couples and put a note on your profile that you are looking for couples but will make the approach yourself.

Then only approach those couples who's demeanor and veris suggest you'd get on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK, thanks for the advice.

Does anyone else find this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any other single girls find that couples treat them like escorts girls....thinking they can book you when it suits them and forget that people have friends and commitments away from Fab?

I am finding some people too pushy which is off-putting

Any thoughts?"

You should never be treated like that , it is a 3 way mutual agreement of fun and should never be taken down to that level We have met many single ladies and always treated them with respect as its just as much about them as it is us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... I feel sometimes that they dont want me just anyone to be the toy x

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By *oversforfun2000Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I would honestly hate if anyone thought that of us, would never want to make anyone feel like that!! We always try to be respectful to everyone, we especially like to let a single girl set the pace and take all the time she needs before we meet and usually it's at her suggestion!!

Hope after this ppl might reflect on how they speak to you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A shame as there are some lovely couples on here.... but a few spoil it and appear rather desperate in the process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't just couples, there are plenty of guys message me with 'when are you free/available?' 'can I see you now' 'when can I see you' as if it is a job. Maybe I should just have advertised on an escort site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt this on occasion when I was a single girl swinging.

That's why we go out of our way to ensure the single girl feels comfortable and are happy to have numerous socials first if she prefers to put her at ease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I felt this on occasion when I was a single girl swinging.

That's why we go out of our way to ensure the single girl feels comfortable and are happy to have numerous socials first if she prefers to put her at ease"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It isn't just couples, there are plenty of guys message me with 'when are you free/available?' 'can I see you now' 'when can I see you' as if it is a job. Maybe I should just have advertised on an escort site"

My favourites are "I'm parked up/staying in Norwich tonight and I want a bj/my cock needs draining"

Yes, I've actually, more than once, been told "my cock needs draining".

So not only am I a free sex out-call service at a moment's notice, I'm also a drain

I've found some couples, as Cali says, are looking for a toy and any toy will do but I've found some men are the worst for thinking the women here are some kind of free sex service.

That said, the hoops some women expect men to jump through are equally bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It isn't just couples, there are plenty of guys message me with 'when are you free/available?' 'can I see you now' 'when can I see you' as if it is a job. Maybe I should just have advertised on an escort site"

Yeah i get angry at the "are you free now" statement as if i fuck anyone who dares ask, anytime i am not doing anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never felt like couples have treated me as an escort i have had a lot of bad experiences with them thought which is why i no longer meet them, for all the calling people do of single guys overall i find them far more respectful than couples, of course there are some exceptions to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always tell the girl I am available from 3pm till 1am on most days so she can plan it in her diary

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By *heeriskingMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Every category has rubbish people. I've had fun with couples and most have been amazing, one or two i have been a hard on and they have used it. So much sexier being more than a hard on but that's what needs arranging and discussed up front.

someone annoys you, block and move on to nice people. ??

andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As posts on these forums regularly prove many couples wamt an FFM and expect the single ffemale to be their plaything and view her desires and even enjoyment to be pretty much incidental to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me "

Great reply. You are gorgeous; wish you lived closer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple like that. They seemed lovely, no issues. But she got very huffy when I couldn't meet when they wanted to, especially when I said I was meeting with my guy and didn't have free time on my own for a while.

My life comes first! I told her I wouldn't be meeting them ever again.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Some no doubt do, some no doubt don't. Like with all of these sort of topics, the generalisations are essentially meaningless.

It's what individuals are like that counts, and how one couple or single person is has no bearing on anyone else, really.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Well I have just started a Couples profile with a playmate. We both want to have fun with another lady and I cannot imagine either of us being anything other than courteous.

To pleasure and be pleasured together or apart by a lovely lady like the OP is our ideal and we will be making sure that any approaches we make will be laid back and relaxed.

We have the advantage of both having current experience of single profiles on here. I am happy that anyone looks at our profile whilst she can spot the 'wrong'uns' amongst the mêlée that it is to be a unicorn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the "I want to give hubby/boyfriend a birthday treat" ones that just make me laugh...get him a jumbo tube of smarties sweetie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Some no doubt do, some no doubt don't. Like with all of these sort of topics, the generalisations are essentially meaningless.

It's what individuals are like that counts, and how one couple or single person is has no bearing on anyone else, really."
agree

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"It's the "I want to give hubby/boyfriend a birthday treat" ones that just make me laugh...get him a jumbo tube of smarties sweetie..."
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple and wouldn't treat anyone like that. But I amber, do get lots of messages like that. They totally ignore we are a couple and tell me to meet them at so and so place now. I always message back with "sorry mate, I'm straight" . Makes me chuckle anyway

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

There are all sorts of people on here that treat other people like shit in the pursuit of what they want, women, men, couples none are immune to having absolute wankers within their numbers.

We have had guys from couples get utterly obsessed, we have had aggressive over the top women and our fair share of the same in men.

I'm afraid its just a human nature thing, possibly exasperated by the nature of the site and the silly ratio of single women to everything else.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We're quite happy to meet socially, in a club, pub, bar or whatever. We would very much enjoy having a girlfriend we can meet socially and have fun with whenever the urge strikes for anyone involved. Exploring her fantasies and ours that fit together...

We've played a number of times with single women in clubs and a couple of times through here.

We have always struggled to show how we are through the Internet and a message system though. Find it much easier face to face. Not so easy when you can't see the dynamic in a relationship.

However convincing single girls that are concerned with their own security and facing yet more grief from couples (and rightly so) is not so easy lol.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We treat anyone we meet as the guest, as per our veris x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're a glass half full couple and couldn't imagine being anything other than super chilled, respectful, warm and friendly with anyone who was open minded enough to let us into their secret world and who were attracted to us enough to want to come and join us in ours

If all we get from Fab is a roll around in the hay with a sexy someone we'd consider all the effort worthwhile. Anything more than that would be a major boner...sorry I meant major bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the "I want to give hubby/boyfriend a birthday treat" ones that just make me laugh...get him a jumbo tube of smarties sweetie..."

Is it wrong that I'd prefer that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me "

Ahh we'll adopt you darling... Can we keep you under the stairs?

In all honesty, we usually find if the single ladies are interested, they will find us, they are treated on very much equal terms. It's called a threesome, because there are 3 equally involved, or should be... We have met a few. I can understand it could be quite daunting for a single lady, to meet an established couple. Therefore we usually let her call the shots.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me

Ahh we'll adopt you darling... Can we keep you under the stairs?

In all honesty, we usually find if the single ladies are interested, they will find us, they are treated on very much equal terms. It's called a threesome, because there are 3 equally involved, or should be... We have met a few. I can understand it could be quite daunting for a single lady, to meet an established couple. Therefore we usually let her call the shots. "

Agree with this 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the "I want to give hubby/boyfriend a birthday treat" ones that just make me laugh...get him a jumbo tube of smarties sweetie..."

Id take anything chocolate related haha!

(Her)

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By *ilthydirtyfuckersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Like everything there are nice people on here and not so nice. Don't let the stupid messages put you off , just delete and block. Filters are great but it might stop THE ONES from getting in touch with you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me

Ahh we'll adopt you darling... Can we keep you under the stairs?

In all honesty, we usually find if the single ladies are interested, they will find us, they are treated on very much equal terms. It's called a threesome, because there are 3 equally involved, or should be... We have met a few. I can understand it could be quite daunting for a single lady, to meet an established couple. Therefore we usually let her call the shots. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me

Ahh we'll adopt you darling... Can we keep you under the stairs?

In all honesty, we usually find if the single ladies are interested, they will find us, they are treated on very much equal terms. It's called a threesome, because there are 3 equally involved, or should be... We have met a few. I can understand it could be quite daunting for a single lady, to meet an established couple. Therefore we usually let her call the shots. "

Did you not know I've been living under your stairs for 3 bloody weeks now. Not so much as a scrap of bread and water

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

This whole thing is a couples game...

It's far more interesting if your part of a couple, the singles get some good sex out of it, but the couples get the real physiological thrills.

You get a few come round nows, but I don't think there is any harm in asking.

In the end, to make a situation/group/scene better, it takes the quality few to rise above the negativity, not entertain it and not to get too cynical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that's how we are, we've met a few single ladies, we met a lovely lady at chams Saturday she came back and stayed at our hotel she isn't on here I think she may join but in wasn't arranged it just happened. Gilly is going our with a single fem Friday night in dropping them off and picking them up but she is just our friend don't know if anything is going to happen it has in the past but I'm expecting nothing we don't treat single ladies any different to anybody else we either make connections with people or we don't and if something happens it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me

Ahh we'll adopt you darling... Can we keep you under the stairs?

In all honesty, we usually find if the single ladies are interested, they will find us, they are treated on very much equal terms. It's called a threesome, because there are 3 equally involved, or should be... We have met a few. I can understand it could be quite daunting for a single lady, to meet an established couple. Therefore we usually let her call the shots.

Did you not know I've been living under your stairs for 3 bloody weeks now. Not so much as a scrap of bread and water "

Oh dear god I wondered what that scratching noise was ? I told him to feed you, when I went to work! God damn it! Want a job doing properly, do it yourself. Ill be home later darling... Ill feed you. May even let you out to stretch your legs! If your a good girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me

Ahh we'll adopt you darling... Can we keep you under the stairs?

In all honesty, we usually find if the single ladies are interested, they will find us, they are treated on very much equal terms. It's called a threesome, because there are 3 equally involved, or should be... We have met a few. I can understand it could be quite daunting for a single lady, to meet an established couple. Therefore we usually let her call the shots.

"

Hello Scarlet darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me

Ahh we'll adopt you darling... Can we keep you under the stairs?

In all honesty, we usually find if the single ladies are interested, they will find us, they are treated on very much equal terms. It's called a threesome, because there are 3 equally involved, or should be... We have met a few. I can understand it could be quite daunting for a single lady, to meet an established couple. Therefore we usually let her call the shots.

Did you not know I've been living under your stairs for 3 bloody weeks now. Not so much as a scrap of bread and water

Oh dear god I wondered what that scratching noise was ? I told him to feed you, when I went to work! God damn it! Want a job doing properly, do it yourself. Ill be home later darling... Ill feed you. May even let you out to stretch your legs! If your a good girl "

Too late I've pissed on the floor

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By *FlackoxCouple
over a year ago

London


"Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me "

Definitely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me

Ahh we'll adopt you darling... Can we keep you under the stairs?

In all honesty, we usually find if the single ladies are interested, they will find us, they are treated on very much equal terms. It's called a threesome, because there are 3 equally involved, or should be... We have met a few. I can understand it could be quite daunting for a single lady, to meet an established couple. Therefore we usually let her call the shots.

Did you not know I've been living under your stairs for 3 bloody weeks now. Not so much as a scrap of bread and water

Oh dear god I wondered what that scratching noise was ? I told him to feed you, when I went to work! God damn it! Want a job doing properly, do it yourself. Ill be home later darling... Ill feed you. May even let you out to stretch your legs! If your a good girl

Too late I've pissed on the floor "

Your a very naughty girl. You need punishing! your an out of control hussy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id only meet couples in a club. Like to see the dynamic of their relationship first as well as whether there is the mutual attraction all round. This may involve some social meets. Any doubt no play. For some inexperienced couples the fantasy of bringing a 3rd person into their relationship is v different from the reality. Jealousy from either partner, insecurity and other issues. I dont want being displayed in a locked bedroom door thanks. So my search continues for a couple to adopt me

Ahh we'll adopt you darling... Can we keep you under the stairs?

In all honesty, we usually find if the single ladies are interested, they will find us, they are treated on very much equal terms. It's called a threesome, because there are 3 equally involved, or should be... We have met a few. I can understand it could be quite daunting for a single lady, to meet an established couple. Therefore we usually let her call the shots.

Did you not know I've been living under your stairs for 3 bloody weeks now. Not so much as a scrap of bread and water

Oh dear god I wondered what that scratching noise was ? I told him to feed you, when I went to work! God damn it! Want a job doing properly, do it yourself. Ill be home later darling... Ill feed you. May even let you out to stretch your legs! If your a good girl

Too late I've pissed on the floor

Your a very naughty girl. You need punishing! your an out of control hussy x"

and you say that like it's a bad thing

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