FabSwingers.com forum: How do you start the sesh?

By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

So you're in the presence of the person you're meeting... How do you start?

Do you ask if they are ready? Guys, do you shove your cock down their throat? Girls, do you chuck them on the floor and sit on their face?

I've had a few meets, yet I still find the "starting" awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are sitting on a bed I normally take a running jump at them shouting "Your gettin it" as I fly through the air.

Seems to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lady half glides across the bed, floor club etc and starts sucking grabbing kissing.

She's good like that no awkwardness needed.

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By *amanthaSexCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Squat down and unzip their trousers. Always seems to work :- )

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By *asisoffunCouple
over a year ago

nottingham/belfast

"If they are sitting on a bed I normally take a running jump at them shouting "Your gettin it" as I fly through the air.

Seems to work"
love that answer that would be pretty cool lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to get on their knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starts with a simple kiss, nothing complicated

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

We normally fire a starting pistol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming there is an attraction , and Sabrina always knows , she will always start things off .

Either by just simply moving closer and making some contact or simply moving her lips to theirs , and away we go .

It's worked every time , and luckily does away with the awkward shuffling and meaningless chit chat .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are sitting on a bed I normally take a running jump at them shouting "Your gettin it" as I fly through the air.

Seems to work love that answer that would be pretty cool lol "

Haha yes it would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just lie back on the bed, legs akimbo and say 'come and get it big boy'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just lie back on the bed, legs akimbo and say 'come and get it big boy'

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start it with a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming there is an attraction , and Sabrina always knows , she will always start things off .

Either by just simply moving closer and making some contact or simply moving her lips to theirs , and away we go .

It's worked every time , and luckily does away with the awkward shuffling and meaningless chit chat .

Note to self...must make chit chat more meaningless lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a kiss :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make em stand in a line and say "on your marks, get set, go!!!!"

First on in wins a gold medal???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jake gets on his knees and kate unzips some lucky guys pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just lie back on the bed, legs akimbo and say 'come and get it big boy'

It that sends them running for the hills I always call them back and just give them a sweet kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming there is an attraction , and Sabrina always knows , she will always start things off .

Either by just simply moving closer and making some contact or simply moving her lips to theirs , and away we go .

It's worked every time , and luckily does away with the awkward shuffling and meaningless chit chat .

Note to self...must make chit chat more meaningless lol

Oh I dunno .... is that possible

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"We normally fire a starting pistol"

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We have been meeting on and off for 10 years and still find the starting off bit awkward.

I think it's not wanting to come across as pushy and being rubbish at reading signals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start it with a kiss

And now I have a Hot Chocolate song with a similar title stuck in my head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming there is an attraction , and Sabrina always knows , she will always start things off .

Either by just simply moving closer and making some contact or simply moving her lips to theirs , and away we go .

It's worked every time , and luckily does away with the awkward shuffling and meaningless chit chat .

Note to self...must make chit chat more meaningless lol

Oh I dunno .... is that possible

I take it you've been following my posts then lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Start it with a kiss

And now I have a Hot Chocolate song with a similar title stuck in my head! "

Me too....

It started with a kiss in the back row of a classroom.

How could I resist the aroma of your perfume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wait and see what they want to do, sometimes they want to kiss sometimes they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start it with a kiss

And now I have a Hot Chocolate song with a similar title stuck in my head!

Me too....

It started with a kiss in the back row of a classroom.

How could I resist the aroma of your perfume

Thought it was only me that turned comments into songs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stand behind my fb and kiss her neck as my fb eyes up our new play mate and draws her in for a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming there is an attraction , and Sabrina always knows , she will always start things off .

Either by just simply moving closer and making some contact or simply moving her lips to theirs , and away we go .

It's worked every time , and luckily does away with the awkward shuffling and meaningless chit chat .

Note to self...must make chit chat more meaningless lol

Oh I dunno .... is that possible

I take it you've been following my posts then lol

Ha ha !!

I actually think it would be a very interesting time with you as we come from opposite ends of the spectrum so to speak .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We normally fire a starting pistol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you're in the presence of the person you're meeting... How do you start?

Do you ask if they are ready? Guys, do you shove your cock down their throat? Girls, do you chuck them on the floor and sit on their face?

I've had a few meets, yet I still find the "starting" awkward."

Kiss me sensually for at least five minutes if not longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start undressing and then we kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start it with a kiss

And now I have a Hot Chocolate song with a similar title stuck in my head! "

Does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once we've both decided that we want to proceed from the social side onto actual sex, I always start with a kiss, the rest takes care of itself x

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By *ublicmenaceWoman
over a year ago

portsmouth

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming there is an attraction , and Sabrina always knows , she will always start things off .

Either by just simply moving closer and making some contact or simply moving her lips to theirs , and away we go .

It's worked every time , and luckily does away with the awkward shuffling and meaningless chit chat .

Note to self...must make chit chat more meaningless lol

Oh I dunno .... is that possible

I take it you've been following my posts then lol

Ha ha !!

I actually think it would be a very interesting time with you as we come from opposite ends of the spectrum so to speak .

Oooooooooooooo

Note to self...must flirt with Gloswingers more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask to see her knickers and usually breaks the ice and sets the tone of kink!

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By *untime biatchWoman
over a year ago

ova by ea wales

"If they are sitting on a bed I normally take a running jump at them shouting "Your gettin it" as I fly through the air.

Seems to work"
pmsl love it

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I unzip my flies, pull my cock out, whilst looking longingly into her eyes.

Then I hit the gong (like at the start of Rank films but in much smaller scale) and shout 'Dinners up'.

Break the ice ?

It nearly breaks my cock anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I strip down to my pants and do the worm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure it's old but it is beautiful.........oops wrong sesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I strip down to my pants and do the worm

oh dear

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If they are sitting on a bed I normally take a running jump at them shouting "Your gettin it" as I fly through the air.

Seems to work"

HAHAHA!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No awkwardness when going out for a meal first. Then he can tell me what to devour later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get on my hands and Knees and say. Fuck me then

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Starts with a simple kiss, nothing complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always ask to see her knickers and usually breaks the ice and sets the tone of kink!

that line would never work here the mrs dosen't wear any

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I strip down to my pants and do the worm

Now that I would like to see

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Starts with a simple kiss, nothing complicated

With if its someone with a "no kissing" rule? Yeah - I found it just as awkward

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"We have been meeting on and off for 10 years and still find the starting off bit awkward.

I think it's not wanting to come across as pushy and being rubbish at reading signals.

Yup, sounds like me - not wanting to seem pushy and hrs later while we've had a thoroughly pleasant social meet (on my bed) its time for her to go home, lol.

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

Suppose there are 3 or more variations on this depending if its a MFMF meet...MMF/FFM meet or a One to One...ok the orgy/group sex scenario as well but thats fairly straight forward!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"If they are sitting on a bed I normally take a running jump at them shouting "Your gettin it" as I fly through the air.

Seems to work pmsl love it

(Crosses legs.... worried about crushed nuts!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually start by kissing jools neck and lips, then ask them if they would like to join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I strip down to my pants and do the worm

Now that I would like to see

A few people would me and my big mouth

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Starts with a simple kiss, nothing complicated

This. I spend all my creativity writing messages and being charming on phone, once we're at this stage I'm definitely keeping it simple!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"If they are sitting on a bed I normally take a running jump at them shouting "Your gettin it" as I fly through the air.

Seems to work pmsl love it

(Crosses legs.... worried about crushed nuts!)

Off topic, I was once lying on a sofa (clothed) when my ten year old niece dived dull length at me. I still feel very guilty at the reflex defensive knee that she landed on....

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It depends on the type of meet. If it's one and one It'll normally start with a bit of chat then kissing and stoking, similar with couples. With gang bangs I usually like to discuss it with the person / couple before they arrive. Some people prefer a straight forward stick your cock in a mouth. Others a bit slower, kissing and stroking after a few minutes. It's a good idea to know in advance otherwise there's danger of people talking about the weather for ages.

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By *idsbull1Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

the best starts to a meet is when you turn up late and its already started its a lot more fun

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"We have been meeting on and off for 10 years and still find the starting off bit awkward.

I think it's not wanting to come across as pushy and being rubbish at reading signals.

Yup, sounds like me - not wanting to seem pushy and hrs later while we've had a thoroughly pleasant social meet (on my bed) its time for her to go home, lol."

Me? I prefer to make the first move. Grab and kiss is my signature move.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I strip down to my pants and do the worm

Now that I would like to see

A few people would me and my big mouth

Don't be coy. I am sure you like to be centre of attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are sitting on a bed I normally take a running jump at them shouting "Your gettin it" as I fly through the air.

Seems to work"

Haha love it

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