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By *ungle VIP OP   Man
over a year ago

Weedon

I admit it.

I wink at profiles with cool pics before i read them.

I consider winking a nice ice breaker not lazy.

Sometimes it gets me in trouble but most just ignore it if they don't like it.

I say if your interested when I wink , wink back

Does that make me a bad swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all

It might not make you a successful swinger though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lazy

I don't ever look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winking can work

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By *ungle VIP OP   Man
over a year ago

Weedon

Hmmmm not a great response initially is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to read the profile first.

No point wasting their time or yours by winking blindly.

That's just my opinion.

I do like a wink to.

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By *ungle VIP OP   Man
over a year ago

Weedon

Ladies say no guy says yes. Pattern? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this so annoying. Why would you not read to see if you're what they're looking for first? Otherwise people see your wink and take time to check out your profile, only to find you're not suitable for a reason stated clearly in the profile. Time wasted all round!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why waste your time to wink people whose profiles you have not read? Lazy and not a good approach at all.

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By *ungle VIP OP   Man
over a year ago

Weedon

Yes good point.

Think I'm putting more hope into my winks than thought perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I admit it.

I wink at profiles with cool pics before i read them.

I consider winking a nice ice breaker not lazy.

Sometimes it gets me in trouble but most just ignore it if they don't like it.

I say if your interested when I wink , wink back

Does that make me a bad swinger?"

I wouldn't say bad, but certainly lazy. Winking profiles that you might not be interested and then expecting them to take the time to contact you? To me there's a massive flaw in that logic but if it works for you then all is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question you have to ask yourself does it work for you?

If it does then you have answered your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I admit it.

I wink at profiles with cool pics before i read them.

I consider winking a nice ice breaker not lazy.

Sometimes it gets me in trouble but most just ignore it if they don't like it.

I say if your interested when I wink , wink back

Does that make me a bad swinger?"

We've had some great meets and built good friendships from an exchange of winks...We do see them as an ice breaker and a bit of fun but guess what...only from people who meet what we're looking for...They can usually tell that they do by reading our profile...see how all those things fit together?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I bulk delete all my winks about once a week without even looking at them.

To me they are like a smile in the street, lovely, but a bit meaningless.

Push the boat out and send a message, yeah some will get ignored (quite a few of mine get ignored completely) but the ones that chat back are pretty good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A winker dosent read my profile (I say I dont answer winks)

so they havent a clue what im after, so I would rather answer people who message me and gives me time to do so

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By *ungle VIP OP   Man
over a year ago

Weedon

Thanks guys. All good advice.

I will try harder to not let my lust for a great pic rule my head. Lol.

It doesn't happen all the time honestly.

I still think winks are good for an ititial hi how you doing you caught my eye kinda message but everyone's different I guess.

Happy swinging.

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

Winking can be a nice ice breaker true....but not reading the profile is definitely lazy....in our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lllaaazzzyyy (IMO)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like getting winks but only if you read my profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soz just winking at wimen lool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find this so annoying. Why would you not read to see if you're what they're looking for first? Otherwise people see your wink and take time to check out your profile, only to find you're not suitable for a reason stated clearly in the profile. Time wasted all round! "

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By *igbloke466863Man
over a year ago

Local if im near i may be up for fun

I use a wink or fab of a picture to let them know I'm interested however I normally read the profile first and if they don't want me then I won't wink, I may fab a picture but that's a different story

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By *uy RandomMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Do winks ever work, even when you have read the profile? How many winks do ladies get and therefore not have time to bother about?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Do winks ever work, even when you have read the profile? How many winks do ladies get and therefore not have time to bother about? "

I delete them so they never gonna work with me. One average, I get about 30ish a week - even saying I delete them on my profile and don't pay attention to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met from a wink as initial contact, but still only with people who tick my boxes so I see no issue with winking...but I don't see the point in winking without reading first and seeing if you'd even be interested in them, never mind whether they'd be interested in you

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