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By *p.For.Fun.81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling

Does it really matter what a guy says in his first mail to a woman, or do most women just look at the your pics and decide whether to mail back or not? What does everyone think?

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

It matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the profile/look at the pics before i read the message.

I then look at the message.

Crap profile means the message really has to have something about it. Great profile means as long as the message is polite then I'll read with interest.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Does it really matter what a guy says in his first mail to a woman, or do most women just look at the your pics and decide whether to mail back or not? What does everyone think? "

I think so. But even the 'best' message often gets deleted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The message means everything! Send me a great message and I'll barely pay attention to a photo! A good looking picture means nothing if your message is disrespectful or dull!!

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Yes it matters very much. I look at profiles before I open the message. If the profile doesn't appeal to me then I seldom even read it I just delete.

If the profile shows interests like me I read it. If it is a message that is personal to me and not just hi how are you then I will reply.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

maybe im silly but id expect a coffee invite would be a cue to reading my profile .. then deciding if im interesting enough to meet

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By *p.For.Fun.81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling

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By *p.For.Fun.81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling

Thanks for the feedback. Do most women view profiles incognito?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Thanks for the feedback. Do most women view profiles incognito?

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a lot do

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It matters... But personally the profile matters first...

When I get mail... I check the profile first. If there's nothing interesting in the profile I wont even open the mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the feedback. Do most women view profiles incognito?

"

Nope, I'm open when viewing people.

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