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By *riskygaz OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Out of all the meets you may have had, how many times where you disappointed at the meet ? and what disappointed you, Not as attractive as they looked in their pics, a bad attitude / personality, or just turned out to be a crap shag ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of all the meets you may have had, how many times where you disappointed at the meet ? and what disappointed you, Not as attractive as they looked in their pics, a bad attitude / personality, or just turned out to be a crap shag ?"

selfish in bed i would go with

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

None! I choose wisely

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Since I've been on here not had one disappointment but then I'm pretty selective

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I once met a guy who left me with the impression that any hole was a goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are social meets included in this question ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None! I choose wisely "

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not like the pic. describes himself as irish.... but has an essex accent. deluded. n spoke to himself out loud.

lucky it was just s social meet.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

Never had a bad meet. I have enjoyed everyone, socials included unless you count a stalker turning up at your work as a social then it would be 2 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U generally choose well lol but on occasions they have been more intersted in whats going on elsewhere quick cummers and not giving me oral...

So now if i don't get oral to start i walk away ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several .... Usually the description of body . Doesn't matter at all but look in the mirror and be honest with yourself

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By *riskygaz OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Are social meets included in this question ? "
yes we can include social meets to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that draw you in then shit on you when you reslise what they truly like

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops back in just to check if anyone has posted: not naming names, but it was this tranny with big knockers and she was a knob head...

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By *riskygaz OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Out of all the meets you may have had, how many times where you disappointed at the meet ? and what disappointed you, Not as attractive as they looked in their pics, a bad attitude / personality, or just turned out to be a crap shag ?

selfish in bed i would go with "
oh yes that is a bad one, I met a women once and the only thing she was interested in was pleasing herself, she did nothing to put a smile on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been disappointed as I choose carefully and engage with them for a while before the meet, attitude and if we click are far more important than looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of all the meets you may have had, how many times where you disappointed at the meet ? and what disappointed you, Not as attractive as they looked in their pics, a bad attitude / personality, or just turned out to be a crap shag ?

selfish in bed i would go with "
this and had smelly feet or sweaty balls or the most ugly feet!

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

not naming names, but it was this tranny with big knockers and she was a knob head...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U generally choose well lol but on occasions they have been more intersted in whats going on elsewhere quick cummers and not giving me oral...

So now if i don't get oral to start i walk away ... "

I ask them outright now before meets - 'do you enjoy licking pussy?' If the response is less than enthusiastic I don't go there.

Also had a couple of fruitless meets with people who'd lied on their profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once. She was a lot younger than she had claimed to be... Not too bad, but she also acted an awful lot younger. We babysat her most of the night. Whilst she got loudly inebriated. Then threw her in our spare bed. Shame she was pretty yummy.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


" not naming names, but it was this tranny with big knockers and she was a knob head..."

did she ramble on about 'insurance'..?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Hmm, well maybe I am fussy, and maybe I make unwise choices, but I do get disappointing meets. Either people have lied about things in order to persuade me to meet, or despite 'getting on' and feeling attraction, when it came down to it the chemistry disappointed, or they were not as sensual as I like, or didn't kiss like I like - something.

I wish I knew how to eliminate poor meets, I don't want to meet more people than necessary, but short of the Spanish Inquisition I find it hard to predict if I will really click with someone when it gets physical.

When I was doing this in the real world back in the day I had no such problem, I always found the most wonderful lovers. My intuition obviously works better in person.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln


" not naming names, but it was this tranny with big knockers and she was a knob head...

did she ramble on about 'insurance'..?

"

Yeah and shoes and handbags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And not forgetting the idiot who despite saying 'safe sex' was one of his interests, refused to wear a condom!

Hmmm no thanks!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't kiss and tell

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's been something good about every meet, even if it's just meeting someone who's friendly and good to know. You don't have to shag for it to be a good meet.

Not from here, but someone arrived so late and had a later commitment that made the available time almost non-existent.

I think if many of us had gone through with a higher percentage of proposed meets then we would count some disappointments aplenty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U generally choose well lol but on occasions they have been more intersted in whats going on elsewhere quick cummers and not giving me oral...

So now if i don't get oral to start i walk away ...

I ask them outright now before meets - 'do you enjoy licking pussy?' If the response is less than enthusiastic I don't go there.

Also had a couple of fruitless meets with people who'd lied on their profiles! "

I learnt hard and quick...men are quick to ask what you into do you squirt etc...not so quick when i ask do you lick pussy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U generally choose well lol but on occasions they have been more intersted in whats going on elsewhere quick cummers and not giving me oral...

So now if i don't get oral to start i walk away ...

I ask them outright now before meets - 'do you enjoy licking pussy?' If the response is less than enthusiastic I don't go there.

Also had a couple of fruitless meets with people who'd lied on their profiles!

I learnt hard and quick...men are quick to ask what you into do you squirt etc...not so quick when i ask do you lick pussy... "

Glad it's not just me who gets the tongue shy men. Fortunately I prefer kissing but nice to be offered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple that had aged about 20 years from the photos they sent! And one gentleman who giggled through every act that I couldn't concentrate and was completely pit off.

I've also been the one to disappoint a meet though...He was very open that I wasn't what he expected! I have full body pics and very open that I'm a big girl with a big mummy tummy, but he had convinced himself that I was more kelly Brook like when he said "never mind we might as well do it now we're here" I knew it was time to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm, well maybe I am fussy, and maybe I make unwise choices, but I do get disappointing meets. Either people have lied about things in order to persuade me to meet, or despite 'getting on' and feeling attraction, when it came down to it the chemistry disappointed, or they were not as sensual as I like, or didn't kiss like I like - something.

I wish I knew how to eliminate poor meets, I don't want to meet more people than necessary, but short of the Spanish Inquisition I find it hard to predict if I will really click with someone when it gets physical.

When I was doing this in the real world back in the day I had no such problem, I always found the most wonderful lovers. My intuition obviously works better in person.

"

What works for me is a fairly rude and obnoxious tongue firmly in cheek profile if someone rejects me because they find my profile weird, offensive or just don't get my humour, then that's all good for me, less time wasted, if they get me and are similar then can move on from that point.

Never turned up to a meet and didn't click as spent loads of time before the meet chatting, not interested in same day meets guys that do that just can't afford escorts lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


" not naming names, but it was this tranny with big knockers and she was a knob head...

did she ramble on about 'insurance'..?

Yeah and shoes and handbags "

Bunch of rotters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are social meets included in this question ? yes we can include social meets to "

Chatting to a guy for ages.. Met him in the pub and had a few drinks and all went fantastic. Then came the goodnight kiss. Washing mechine and ironing board is all I'm saying

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"U generally choose well lol but on occasions they have been more intersted in whats going on elsewhere quick cummers and not giving me oral...

So now if i don't get oral to start i walk away ...

I ask them outright now before meets - 'do you enjoy licking pussy?' If the response is less than enthusiastic I don't go there.

Also had a couple of fruitless meets with people who'd lied on their profiles!

I learnt hard and quick...men are quick to ask what you into do you squirt etc...not so quick when i ask do you lick pussy... "
I love it

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By *riskygaz OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"U generally choose well lol but on occasions they have been more intersted in whats going on elsewhere quick cummers and not giving me oral...

So now if i don't get oral to start i walk away ...

I ask them outright now before meets - 'do you enjoy licking pussy?' If the response is less than enthusiastic I don't go there.

Also had a couple of fruitless meets with people who'd lied on their profiles!

I learnt hard and quick...men are quick to ask what you into do you squirt etc...not so quick when i ask do you lick pussy...

Glad it's not just me who gets the tongue shy men. Fortunately I prefer kissing but nice to be offered "
you cant beat a nice long kiss also nice to lick a yummy looking pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had one, where the female half was only doing it for the male half.

That's why we like contact from both parties, or hopefully a phone call from the female half.

That would of upset me Gimp, being used to keep the male half happy.

We would of Sussed on earlier before anything would of gone to far though.

Her

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By *riskygaz OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Are social meets included in this question ? yes we can include social meets to

Chatting to a guy for ages.. Met him in the pub and had a few drinks and all went fantastic. Then came the goodnight kiss. Washing mechine and ironing board is all I'm saying "
lol I am getting the feeling you where not over come with lustful thoughts of dragging him into the nearest bed ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must say I have only had one bad meeting because the womans husband was very aggressive and to my mind not very sociable. It was not a case of he did not want to watch the fun he was just plain aggressive which was not helpful in the erection front lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 3 crap meets. Selfish, arrogant, came way to quick. (less that 5mins of me giving bj)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had 3 crap meets. Selfish, arrogant, came way to quick. (less that 5mins of me giving bj) "

I wish

Never cum from a BJ even with 2 girls doing it! I get to a certain point and can not go any further....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a few bad meets, men who had long fingernails, talked about other women on here, no good at foreplay, kept going soft, took too long to cum, or expected me to cum more than once.

too serious, too grumpy, too selfish.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"None! I choose wisely

Same here! "

Same here too! None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few guys I've met who have been a bit selfish in the sack, just after a blow job and a fuck and not really bothered about giving anything back, strangely this seem to happen more on guys I re meet than first meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a meet?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


" not naming names, but it was this tranny with big knockers and she was a knob head...

did she ramble on about 'insurance'..?

Yeah and shoes and handbags

Bunch of rotters "

mwah..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What makes me laugh about this thread is there are people on this thread talking negatively about meets that where laying into a guy the other day for doing the same thing

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have yet to be disappointed in a meet. One guy was late because he lost his shoe but that was so endearingly in character it helped dissipate my nerves waiting for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually it's me who's been invited over for a meet. And i've gone to all my meets. Although once i ended up in another town than the one i was meant to go to lol.

That was a good laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes me laugh about this thread is there are people on this thread talking negatively about meets that where laying into a guy the other day for doing the same thing "

Kerchinnnnng

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here I am

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met on couple. They had a busy day at an event and wanted to meet us before they few out next day. We turned up. She was ages coming down. I was making good with her man. Simon sat. She came down and Simon was hard and ready lol. I was getting a taste of her guy and a ride. She let Simon warm her up. Then she sat watching us and wanked Simon off. That was the end really.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Here I am

Her"
lol there's more than one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes me laugh about this thread is there are people on this thread talking negatively about meets that where laying into a guy the other day for doing the same thing "

You are not suggesting people have dual standards? *Gasps*

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"What makes me laugh about this thread is there are people on this thread talking negatively about meets that where laying into a guy the other day for doing the same thing

You are not suggesting people have dual standards? *Gasps* "
no just hypercrites

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By *riskygaz OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"I must say I have only had one bad meeting because the womans husband was very aggressive and to my mind not very sociable. It was not a case of he did not want to watch the fun he was just plain aggressive which was not helpful in the erection front lol "
my worst meet years ago and not of this site, was with a couple I had done all the talking with the guy, he told me how much his girlfriend was up for it, I went to their house and within a very short time, it was very clear that the guy had talked her into it and she really did not want to do it, I felt very uncomfortable and sorry for the women, then would you believe a couple of months latter he got back in touch saying I have a new girlfriend who is really much more up for it than his X, I thought god you must have the gift of the gab, to be able to talked these women into this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 1 earlier, looked alrite in his pic, he came over and I was like not sure, thought i would go ahead got bored of him plus he smell horribly and b4 it went me further I stopped and made an excuse

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By *riskygaz OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"I had 1 earlier, looked alrite in his pic, he came over and I was like not sure, thought i would go ahead got bored of him plus he smell horribly and b4 it went me further I stopped and made an excuse"
I guess you cant win them all hope you have better luck next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the only crap meet I've had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wouldn't lick pussy!! Oral sex is one of the best fore play...

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By *iles3659Man
over a year ago

Stafford

Everyone I have ever met has been much larger than their picture.

Could be something to do with my screen size I suppose .....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I had a few ropey meets when I first started years ago but you soon learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few ropey meets when I first started years ago but you soon learn "

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

ive liked everyone ive met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the trouble is sometimes when you are on here, you feel like meeting someone only on the actual day you are going to meet them you may not feel like it or be in the mood for it.

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