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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it that i am messaging people for weeks on here but not one reply us every one blind or just pig ignorent let me knw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Await the onslaught of 'you shouldn't expect replies' on your post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yay, we haven't had an angry post for hours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really !!!!! Oh and bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, another misery laden woe is me thread.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Await the onslaught of 'you shouldn't expect replies' on your post.

But its true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most people (myself included) read profiles before messages if you profile is crap they delete the message without even reading it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that i am messaging people for weeks on here but not one reply us every one blind or just pig ignorent let me knw"

I think it's likely that they're not blind and just aren't interested in you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that i am messaging people for weeks on here but not one reply us every one blind or just pig ignorent let me knw"

Try a spell checker? Some people prefer a message in English that they can read. The forums are full of similar posts to yours and the usual answer applies....you are one of tens of thousands of single guys on here...are you outstanding? Is your profile special?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that i am messaging people for weeks on here but not one reply us every one blind or just pig ignorent let me knw"

Calling other site users pic ignorant and your status is going to work wonders for you!! Read the site rules and you'll see that a no reply is the same as a No thank you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Await the onslaught of 'you shouldn't expect replies' on your post.

But its true."

I know. You'd think pretty sure this is the 2nd or 3rd one today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't exclusive to this site.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Why is it that i am messaging people for weeks on here but not one reply us every one blind or just pig ignorent let me knw"

Why would they be blind???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer? Your profile is poor and lazy! I can only assume your messages are the same.

Same story. Effort in is related to results out.

You have made no effort so what do you expect?

Your status says you are leaving the site...so why would anyone bother to reply? If you really are going then just go....bye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Await the onslaught of 'you shouldn't expect replies' on your post.

But its true."

As is the fact that messages have to be worth replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You describe yourself as happy go lucky, not something that comes across from your thread and status line

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Await the onslaught of 'you shouldn't expect replies' on your post.

But its true.

I know. You'd think pretty sure this is the 2nd or 3rd one today."

I should get a little library of replies to C&P to posts on here. For example, I used this one last night:

Read the FAQs on the site: "No reply means no". You're not entitled to anything on here, whether its a wink, a message, or a meet, and thinking you are shows a level of entitlement that most women would find unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don't feel they should reply to any messages as they get so many or on a rare occasion they say no thank you and get abuse. I try to reply to all mine. After all,if I have my filters open to men I'm going to expect to get messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't really.

A no thank you would be a no thank you, I have no issues with people ignoring messages as we have all done it at some point but if I intend to say thanks but no thanks that it what I say.

Understandable that people don't do this however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pig ignorant as far as you are concerened it would appear as blind would stop them using a screen. Good luck on here.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Why is it that i am messaging people for weeks on here but not one reply us every one blind or just pig ignorent let me knw"

A lot of people choose not to reply to messages for lots of different reasons, doesnt make them blind or pig ignorant.

You cant make other people use the site in the way that you want them to, so the best thing to do is to accept thats it happens and to focus on using the site in the way that works best for you.

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