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"Please does anyone know where we can buy Bebbe sponges to stop bleed during period its ruining our meets, thanks" i tried them didnt work well for me | |||
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"Please does anyone know where we can buy Bebbe sponges to stop bleed during period its ruining our meets, thanks" They don't stop bleeding, they're just like tampons and absorb the flow while they're in but aren't noticeable to anyone penetrative you | |||
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"Thanks for info so far, are Bebbe sponges 100% reliable and what about Norethistone is that reliable to stop all bleed, and can you have normal sex like oral or taking a big cock lol sorry but need to know" I imagine that a large cock would be able to feel the sponge and I'd be careful because it may push it up beyond the point where you can retrieve it with your fingers, then it's a bugger to get out...oral was fine but I wasn't massively confident about it, more a psychological thing but not swinging for a few days while you're on your period isn't such a great hardship is it? | |||
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"Would you tell your meets if you were on your period and wearing Beppe sponges ? " I think it's only fair to be honest, then they could make a choice whether to go ahead or not. We don't meet when I'm on. Feels too intimate and not such a hardship | |||
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"go to gp and ask for Norethistone " These didn't work for me. Took them as prescribed, even set alarms on my phone. Still bled. Hey ho. X | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ?" Bit drastic just for a role in the hay don't you think? | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Bit drastic just for a role in the hay don't you think? " So is taking drugs so you can | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ?" 
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Bit drastic just for a role in the hay don't you think? " Yes. I do think. | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Bit drastic just for a role in the hay don't you think? So is taking drugs so you can " Agreed. | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ?" Not always | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Not always " Where does the blood come from if the womb no longer exists ? | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Not always Where does the blood come from if the womb no longer exists ?" Cervix. If you have/had endometriosis as well you still bleed. Every month I have about 3 days of light bleeding | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Not always Where does the blood come from if the womb no longer exists ? Cervix. If you have/had endometriosis as well you still bleed. Every month I have about 3 days of light bleeding " Do they leave a cervix if they take the womb ? | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Not always Where does the blood come from if the womb no longer exists ? Cervix. If you have/had endometriosis as well you still bleed. Every month I have about 3 days of light bleeding Do they leave a cervix if they take the womb ?" Sometimes they just do a partial hysterectomy. I don't know why they left mine. I didn't know until my post op appointment. I was told I may have a light bleed now and then which turned out to be 3 days every month | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Bit drastic just for a role in the hay don't you think? So is taking drugs so you can "  I have the Depo injection but it doesn't completely stop periods for me. Personally I'd cancel my meet but we're all different on this site! | |||
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But for those of you with no periods, regular as clockwork periods, or very light periods, spare a thought for those of us who only seem get periods the day before we're due to met a hot bloke. | |||
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"Beppy are great for one the meet, I always tell the person. However they are a bugger to get out." I brought some and tried them at home no good for me and very hard to get out. I only brought them as I never know exactly when my monthly will start but if they had worked I would of used them with someone I saw regular and I would of told them. | |||
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"Beppy are great for one the meet, I always tell the person. However they are a bugger to get out." The wet ones are a better shape to get out. They also have a small hole you can thread some dental floss through to use to pull it out. | |||
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"Beppy are great for one the meet, I always tell the person. However they are a bugger to get out. The wet ones are a better shape to get out. They also have a small hole you can thread some dental floss through to use to pull it out." I used them still had trouble had to use shower in the end  | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Not always Where does the blood come from if the womb no longer exists ? Cervix. If you have/had endometriosis as well you still bleed. Every month I have about 3 days of light bleeding Do they leave a cervix if they take the womb ?" sometimes...it depends on the reason for the op...they initially left my mums ovaries too, so she didn't go through premature menopause, but that meant she still had massive hormonal moods routinely and ovarian pain too... | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ?"  ...ooh Granny! | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Bit drastic just for a role in the hay don't you think? So is taking drugs so you can " It seems some will go to any length to fuck strangers: I can restrain myself...if only I could apply that to Mr Kipling! | |||
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"Can't people just wait !" It appears not! | |||
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"Can't people just wait ! It appears not! "Sometimes women have very erratic and unpredictable bleeds or even spotting every day. | |||
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"We had a meet awhile ago where we had booked the hotel and arranged to meet this couple in Kestrels,then Vixens period came on early. Rather than letting the other couple down we desperately searched for something to just halt it for a while. Lemons, that's what saw some people suggesting and we gave it a try as it was natural and easily available. Vixen, who likes them anyway ate three and it worked, her period stopped with no taste, though we did warn the other couple. All was well until the next morning, we were staying in the terminal five Travelodge, with its usual white sheets (see where we are going?). I woke up and Vixen's bum was sticky and wet,my legs were sticky and wet,the bed was sticky and wet. I turned the lights on and the bed looked like we had used it as a comfy abattoir, it was truly awful. The lemons must of just sort of bunged her up and the floodgates opened in the morning. We scrubbed the sheets and left in a hurry. " I thought the lemon was to shove up her foof..... | |||
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"I thought the lemon was to shove up her foof..... " Me too. I thought 'where is this going?  ' | |||
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"Can't people just wait ! It appears not!
Sometimes women have very erratic and unpredictable bleeds or even spotting every day."^ this .wanting to stop your monthly once in a while doesn't mean I want to grab the first bloke I see and fuck.their brains out | |||
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"Can't people just wait !" Different folks , different strokes . Beppy , the wet ones , are great and available on eBay and amazon . We have been to clubs and they have always done the trick . Other times we have just done the glory holes if it's a heavy period . Obviously this isn't an option for a more intimate meet lol ! Judging others by saying they should wait is wrong on every level . Its their business , their life and surely on a site like this one would expect a little more understanding ?  | |||
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"Can't people just wait ! Different folks , different strokes . Beppy , the wet ones , are great and available on eBay and amazon . We have been to clubs and they have always done the trick . Other times we have just done the glory holes if it's a heavy period . Obviously this isn't an option for a more intimate meet lol ! Judging others by saying they should wait is wrong on every level . Its their business , their life and surely on a site like this one would expect a little more understanding ? "Oh please, the forums would die a death if everyone was in agreement. Just because someone has a differing view it doesn't necessarily follow they're being judgemental. | |||
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"Can't people just wait ! Different folks , different strokes . Beppy , the wet ones , are great and available on eBay and amazon . We have been to clubs and they have always done the trick . Other times we have just done the glory holes if it's a heavy period . Obviously this isn't an option for a more intimate meet lol ! Judging others by saying they should wait is wrong on every level . Its their business , their life and surely on a site like this one would expect a little more understanding ?
Oh please, the forums would die a death if everyone was in agreement. Just because someone has a differing view it doesn't necessarily follow they're being judgemental."
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Bit drastic just for a role in the hay don't you think? So is taking drugs so you can " I took them for medical reasons. Not to fit in with this life style. Big difference.... | |||
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"Well you learn something new every day....never heard of those sponge things. .." he lives in a pineapple under the sea! | |||
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"I think hysterectomies stop periods. Am I right anyone ? Bit drastic just for a role in the hay don't you think? So is taking drugs so you can I took them for medical reasons. Not to fit in with this life style. Big difference.... " Indeed there is a very big difference. But that's not what we are discussing | |||
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"Can't people just wait ! Different folks , different strokes . Beppy , the wet ones , are great and available on eBay and amazon . We have been to clubs and they have always done the trick . Other times we have just done the glory holes if it's a heavy period . Obviously this isn't an option for a more intimate meet lol ! Judging others by saying they should wait is wrong on every level . Its their business , their life and surely on a site like this one would expect a little more understanding ? "Why is it wrong for me to say, why can't people wait Messing about with your body just for sex seems a bit wrong to me But that's my opinion | |||
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"Can't people just wait ! Different folks , different strokes . Beppy , the wet ones , are great and available on eBay and amazon . We have been to clubs and they have always done the trick . Other times we have just done the glory holes if it's a heavy period . Obviously this isn't an option for a more intimate meet lol ! Judging others by saying they should wait is wrong on every level . Its their business , their life and surely on a site like this one would expect a little more understanding ?
Why is it wrong for me to say, why can't people wait
Messing about with your body just for sex seems a bit wrong to me
But that's my opinion"Which is why a sponge tampon which is designed to be used during sex is a good option, no chemical interference involved. | |||
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"I kin of sympathise with the OP. I have very erratic periods and its nigh on impossible to arrange meets now. No point in saying 'wait til your period finishes' when you don't even know when it will start! I have tried the drug and it does work but, as said above, turns me into a hormonal wreck afterwards. Might have to try Beppy
But for those of you with no periods, regular as clockwork periods, or very light periods, spare a thought for those of us who only seem get periods the day before we're due to met a hot bloke."Took Norethisterone for our wedding honeymoon etc. which worked fine then took it a couple of times when we went away on the odd weekend. Later found out they completely wrecked my hormones my ovaries were telling my womb i was due and visa versa both had gone into over drive.  | |||
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"Nothing wrong with an opinion at all . Just that when someone asks for help on a particular matter , it's often just help that's required , not an opinion . But if you wish to have your say , it's an open forum , and of course you are entitled . "I think I may have been the first to suggest waiting...It wasn't an opinion, it was a suggested alternative to either the sponges or the hormones...I don't care either way what she does so have no opinion on her choices... | |||
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"go to gp and ask for Norethistone " This is great. I use them when it's at an inconvenient time. | |||
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"go to gp and ask for Norethistone " tried this once and it worked i think - took about 5 days after for period to start but no adverse effects at all - see what happens for next month - not sure if cycle resets itself or carries on from where it left off | |||
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"Can't people just wait !" normally id say yes - but this was a meet that had taken a lot of arranging - i was due about the day after but im a bit inconsistant and just wanted to make sure this one time so used noristherone | |||
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"Please does anyone know where we can buy Bebbe sponges to stop bleed during period its ruining our meets, thanks" any type of sponge will do, break a piece off and push up as far as | |||
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"Beppy or gynotex are available on Amazon and other online stores. Opt for the wet ones as they are easier to use." I find the gynotex ones actually better... easier to put in and more importantly, easier to remove. I have bad monthlies and can last weeks... so these are a god send and no one has noticed as yet. | |||
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"Beppy are great for one the meet, I always tell the person. However they are a bugger to get out." I have used these with a couple of regular partners who are both on the larger side... First time I thought I was gonna have to go to a&e to get the bugger out but I found a forum for working girls in the states somehow (the wonders of Google!) where many women had posted simple tips like waiting a few hours afterwards for when the vagina tightens back up as it naturally gets pushed to a more reachable depth, and slight use of a shower head as the wetter it is the heavier it is so it's easier to remove. I haven't tried the wet ones though so might invest in those next time... Although the forum also suggested using lube on the dry ones for easier insertion and removal but I haven't tried that yet. I don't think I'd use them on any meet though, just with the couple of guys I feel completely at ease with as I don't think I'd feel as uncomfortable with them if there were any leakages | |||
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"Please does anyone know where we can buy Bebbe sponges to stop bleed during period its ruining our meets, thanksany type of sponge will do, break a piece off and push up as far as "You do realise that sponges shed? Break a piece off and shake it over a piece of white paper and you'll see the little fibres. And then there's the fact that it has it may have been knocking about under the sink for ages and have all kinds of mould spores in and possibly bacteria too. Add in the fact that you can break a piece off and it would make for fun retrieval - every time you pull it it would break! Then what do you say to A & E when you need to get assistance removing it so you can avoid toxic shock? A sponge tampon is designed and shaped for purpose, manufactured and packed in a clean environment and if you ever needed assistance to remove one then it would be the same principle as getting assistance with a traditional tampon that had lost it's thread. | |||
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"go to gp and ask for Norethistone " Ooo bet me to it I was going to say that! | |||
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