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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a really odd one.

Don't mind "no thanks" or "sorry, not for me" etc.

Just been knocked back because...."you look really great, but I won't play with gold or silver members". When I queried this and asked why I was told "I have my reasons"

Anyone else think this is odd - or can offer other totally ridiculous knock backs?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think guys must be messaging the same woman as this is the third thread I've now read saying the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one from a lady who said 'I was a nice guy and she'd end up liking me. She didn't want that'.

Maybe I should change my attitude??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one who said my wife won't meet you because you have better legs than her ! Yeah right...

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Maybe it's because gold and silver members might actually want to meet up!

[tongue firmly in cheek still]

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

One I got the lady said she didn't mind guys that met a couple of times a year, but anything more than that was just bed hopping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One I got the lady said she didn't mind guys that met a couple of times a year, but anything more than that was just bed hopping."

Ahhh the bed hopping knock back

I forgot us single guys are only allowed 2 meets a year

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"One I got the lady said she didn't mind guys that met a couple of times a year, but anything more than that was just bed hopping.

Ahhh the bed hopping knock back

I forgot us single guys are only allowed 2 meets a year "

Glad someone knows their place!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I've had this reply twice now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wrong with a simple no thanks?

As Knock backs go that's scraping the barrel.

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Years ago I worked in a local authority telephone service centre.

A message from a couple out of the blue made them seem very keen and we exchanged small talk via email for a few days.

After telling them that I worked for the county council. I got the brush off that the male of the couple was a business man with dealings with the council so could not swing with someone who worked there as it might 'jeopardise impartiality.'

'had to laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with a simple no thanks?

As Knock backs go that's scraping the barrel. "

Quite agree just be polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because gold and silver members might actually want to meet up!

[tongue firmly in cheek still] "

I was once knocked back, and the reason was that ..... Get this ..... She didn't fancy me ????

What's that all about hey ????

Well if others are putting their tongues in their cheeks, I'll put my tongue in their cheek too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One I got the lady said she didn't mind guys that met a couple of times a year, but anything more than that was just bed hopping."

Had that a few times.....too successful?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Just had a really odd one.

Don't mind "no thanks" or "sorry, not for me" etc.

Just been knocked back because...."you look really great, but I won't play with gold or silver members". When I queried this and asked why I was told "I have my reasons"

Anyone else think this is odd - or can offer other totally ridiculous knock backs?"

Obviously a Platinum or Diamond member. We have certain standards you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wierdest was 'Sorry, you are in the wrong direction' from a guy who was 40mins away in Chester. How many directions can you go in from Chester I wonder and which would be the right one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd been exchanging messages with a guy off and on for a while and he invited me to a private party with him and his female partner - who was never present when we spoke, although their couples profile had been meet verified and stated she was fine for him to do the talking.

When I politely declined several times to come alone and meet an unknown group of couples, he replied that it probably wouldn't be for me anyway, as everyone there was quite slim and fit.

As you can imagine, I was distraught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd been exchanging messages with a guy off and on for a while and he invited me to a private party with him and his female partner - who was never present when we spoke, although their couples profile had been meet verified and stated she was fine for him to do the talking.

When I politely declined several times to come alone and meet an unknown group of couples, he replied that it probably wouldn't be for me anyway, as everyone there was quite slim and fit.

As you can imagine, I was distraught "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us single guys cant do or say anything just be good little boys until we are deemed worthy.

Weirest knock back.......you are a nice guy but my husband wants an uglier guy to join us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a really odd one.

Don't mind "no thanks" or "sorry, not for me" etc.

Just been knocked back because...."you look really great, but I won't play with gold or silver members". When I queried this and asked why I was told "I have my reasons"

Anyone else think this is odd - or can offer other totally ridiculous knock backs?"

I once got told sorry no thanks because you look like my brother. It was obviously a polite way of saying I don't fancy you lol.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

if i get a no thanks i just leave it at that and dont send a 'why' back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not suffered abuse, we normaly get a no thanks or our mail deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Weirest knock back.......you are a nice guy but my husband wants an uglier guy to join us... "

I've had that a few that a twice, how insecure. I also got refused to a gangbang as the husband wanted to see her with fat guys fucking her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol we checked a single woman that we both play with and hopefully all have fun... Reply was I may be fat and ugly but I have more choice on here than you .. No thanx x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol we checked a single woman that we both play with and hopefully all have fun... Reply was I may be fat and ugly but I have more choice on here than you .. No thanx x "

wow! lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My wierdest was 'Sorry, you are in the wrong direction' from a guy who was 40mins away in Chester. How many directions can you go in from Chester I wonder and which would be the right one?"

North west? Maybe he only fucks mermaids....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A knock back before an offer!! Profile reads can't accommodate , can't travel , won't meet smokers , loves oral anal water sports ... Confused.com .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first started playing we were advised just a polite no thank you was enough and never to make an excuse as this could be a more hurtful rejection. Nowadays we would be just happy to get an answer.

Strangest we have had is that we live in the same town!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol we checked a single woman that we both play with and hopefully all have fun... Reply was I may be fat and ugly but I have more choice on here than you .. No thanx x "
a very nasty person think you had a close shave there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not suffered abuse, we normaly get a no thanks or our mail deleted"
same here xx

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Our strangest knock back was from a single guy who said he couldn't go through with the meet as it was be too 'cold and mechanical'.

True to say we didn't promise him a choir of heavenly angels complete with harps - we thought he just wanted sex

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By *omMLMan
over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

Never even had a knock back just no replies. Not sure if that's worse than a knock back. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent a message to a woman a couple of weeks ago with pics attached.

She replied saying she found my message amusing but since I hadn't sent a few pics as requested then she didn't want to talk further.

I explained that if she checked the original message she would find I had attached pics, she replied in an angry manner and blocked me.

Probably dodged a bullet though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Our strangest knock back was from a single guy who said he couldn't go through with the meet as it was be too 'cold and mechanical'.

True to say we didn't promise him a choir of heavenly angels complete with harps - we thought he just wanted sex "

I've had the knock back where the lady said she didn't like when things where "too planned out" and preferred a bit of "spontaneity". Problem was we were in the same hotel across the hall from each other on the day.. I eventually received a "spontaneous" text from her ("I'm horny now" two weeks later at 3am when we were at least 100 miles apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy mail me once to tell me he wouldn't meet me as he didn't like my piercing

err ok glad you felt the need to mail me out the blue to tell me that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fave was when someone was very keen but then withdraw because after checking my veris she noticed I'd met a couple of larger ladies and decided I'd find her too thin!!! Hence why I now don't display veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fave was when someone was very keen but then withdraw because after checking my veris she noticed I'd met a couple of larger ladies and decided I'd find her too thin!!! Hence why I now don't display veris."

haha i do that only the other way round, if a guy mails me and all the women he has met have been slim i worry he wont like me and decline his offer

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I had one who said my wife won't meet you because you have better legs than her ! Yeah right..."

It could be true actually, you certainly do have great legs, your cocks probably better than hers too x

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I sent a message to a woman a couple of weeks ago with pics attached.

She replied saying she found my message amusing but since I hadn't sent a few pics as requested then she didn't want to talk further.

I explained that if she checked the original message she would find I had attached pics, she replied in an angry manner and blocked me.

Probably dodged a bullet though."

Probably not just horny but pissed as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a really odd one.

Don't mind "no thanks" or "sorry, not for me" etc.

Just been knocked back because...."you look really great, but I won't play with gold or silver members". When I queried this and asked why I was told "I have my reasons"

Anyone else think this is odd - or can offer other totally ridiculous knock backs?

I once got told sorry no thanks because you look like my brother. It was obviously a polite way of saying I don't fancy you lol. "

That can be very offputting

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I had a guy mail me once to tell me he wouldn't meet me as he didn't like my piercing

err ok glad you felt the need to mail me out the blue to tell me that "

A very nice piercing in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was knocked back last week, apparently I'm built for speed and she was built for comfort.

That's a first for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a really odd one.

Don't mind "no thanks" or "sorry, not for me" etc.

Just been knocked back because...."you look really great, but I won't play with gold or silver members". When I queried this and asked why I was told "I have my reasons"

Anyone else think this is odd - or can offer other totally ridiculous knock backs?

Obviously a Platinum or Diamond member. We have certain standards you know! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one who said my wife won't meet you because you have better legs than her ! Yeah right...

It could be true actually, you certainly do have great legs, your cocks probably better than hers too x"

Lol thank you baby xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a knock back due to me having dreadlocks, even though my profile states I have dreadlocks!!!

Come on ladies...start reading profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was knocked back last week, apparently I'm built for speed and she was built for comfort.

That's a first for me. "

So she didn't want to go at a comfortable speed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sorry but the head of your cock is to big" . Thought that was a bit of an odd knock back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

messaged someone in which i introduced myself and basically listed my likes or turn-ons. One of which is basically I'd just like to please a woman.

They messaged back something along the lines of "Oh, so i'm just a tool for your enjoyment then? Why don't you try messaging me back and not see me as an object, actually don't. Blocked."

Biggest WTF?! i've ever had on this site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a really odd one.

Don't mind "no thanks" or "sorry, not for me" etc.

Just been knocked back because...."you look really great, but I won't play with gold or silver members". When I queried this and asked why I was told "I have my reasons"

Anyone else think this is odd - or can offer other totally ridiculous knock backs?

I once got told sorry no thanks because you look like my brother. It was obviously a polite way of saying I don't fancy you lol. "

Or it was your sister?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I was knocked back last week, apparently I'm built for speed and she was built for comfort.

That's a first for me.

You dodged a bullet !1! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a really odd one.

Don't mind "no thanks" or "sorry, not for me" etc.

Just been knocked back because...."you look really great, but I won't play with gold or silver members". When I queried this and asked why I was told "I have my reasons"

Anyone else think this is odd - or can offer other totally ridiculous knock backs?

I once got told sorry no thanks because you look like my brother. It was obviously a polite way of saying I don't fancy you lol.

Or it was your sister?"

I think I would recognise my sister. The couple had face pics on their profile. Also I don't have a sister lol.

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