FabSwingers.com forum: unrealistic expectations

By *entkev OP Man
over a year ago

Dover

I wonder how many others use this site like a social network as opposed to a realistic meet up site.

Over my time on here I've realised that it can be a very active site for females/couples but the general consensus seems to be that young/hung men are sought after and active whereas the huge majority of men are just chasing their tails.

I'm currently in my comfort zone using fabs to chat with my club friends with the occasional flirting.

But I'm so conscious that half the time messages are not read in the same way they are written.

However I still love the site and live in hope.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats because you have preferences, a lot of men on here dont.

By *entkev OP Man
over a year ago

Dover

"thats because you have preferences, a lot of men on here dont.

Thats probably true, but I just like to be honest.

As you say its a preference, I dont mean anything offensive.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not sure I understand what you're saying.

Is it that you write messages and people take them the wrong way?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who says it's a meet up site?

Who says it's a not a social network site?

The site is what you make of it and what others make of it.

And if you are messaging folk and your messages are going unanswered or unread,then maybe you are contacting the wrong people.

By *entkev OP Man
over a year ago

Dover

"I'm not sure I understand what you're saying.

Is it that you write messages and people take them the wrong way? "

Not often but occasionally you message one thing but you cant control how its read, so every so often you get a negative response due to miss interpretation. Basically you cant replace face to face chat.