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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

can you fuck a friend and still be friends,,or has the relationship gone for good,,and any chat is just being polite, but not interested anymore

has anybody any stories on it,

funny or sad,, prefer funny though.

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By *ethot69Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Yep, I worked in a fast food place whilst at Uni. A girl who worked there got friendly with the both of us. Turned out she was bi, got d*unk with us, ending up showering with T and we had a threesome.

After that, when T was away, she came round and tried to grab me on my own.

Needless to say, friendship terminated, avoided her like the black plague!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

In my younger days i fucked nearly all my male friends. Get the shag out the way then you can concentrate on being friends

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I've had it in reverse when someone I had as a FB has now become a good friend

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Yep, I worked in a fast food place whilst at Uni. A girl who worked there got friendly with the both of us. Turned out she was bi, got d*unk with us, ending up showering with T and we had a threesome.

After that, when T was away, she came round and tried to grab me on my own.

Needless to say, friendship terminated, avoided her like the black plague!"

its amazing how some ppl react after sex,

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

glad to hear some ladies ,, had positive reactions,, after fucking a friend,,

cool,,

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By *ethot69Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Yep, I worked in a fast food place whilst at Uni. A girl who worked there got friendly with the both of us. Turned out she was bi, got d*unk with us, ending up showering with T and we had a threesome.

After that, when T was away, she came round and tried to grab me on my own.

Needless to say, friendship terminated, avoided her like the black plague!

its amazing how some ppl react after sex,

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Yup... I actually thought she acted strange about it afterwards; but the only thing that crossed my mind was that she'd pounce on T, not me!

Looking back she was a screwball. ^^

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

better of with out friends like that then,,

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By *ethot69Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

"better of with out friends like that then,,"

Of course

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

it take,s a special person to be a true friend, and they are very rare indeed,

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have a good friend on here that have known for a few years now and have become very good friends.

We both know alot of aspects of each others lives and support each other as much as we can. We have sat and hugged through tears by one or the other and have fed him and put him to be(no sex) when he just needed that.

We still meet to have sex and it is great as I know the wonderful person he is. We are more friends than anything but certainly dont feel our sexual meets have changed at all.

It is all on the individual, maybe the ones that other people have met have been ok, have had the shag then move on and cant be arsed to be friends anymore.

Only speak form my good experience

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I have a good friend on here that have known for a few years now and have become very good friends.

We both know alot of aspects of each others lives and support each other as much as we can. We have sat and hugged through tears by one or the other and have fed him and put him to be(no sex) when he just needed that.

We still meet to have sex and it is great as I know the wonderful person he is. We are more friends than anything but certainly dont feel our sexual meets have changed at all.

It is all on the individual, maybe the ones that other people have met have been ok, have had the shag then move on and cant be arsed to be friends anymore.

Only speak form my good experience"

its good to read a positive reply

it makes you think of good friends, and what to expect of new one,s

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Hi

I have a few female friends, one we very close and do a fair bit together i gone down clubs with her. But i could never have a shag etc.

She is sexy as hell blondle tall, slim everything i always say am looking for but, No way if i did who could i turn to for advice or help, as i feel i had crossed the line

Ian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met someone on here and he is also a good friend now

we lie in bed afterwards and set the world to rights, discuss our kids and problems we are having with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it take,s a special person to be a true friend, and they are very rare indeed,

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we think if you have known someone for many years & understand the relationship each other have then yes i think having sex with a friend can be fine & better, fun!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

G had a woman friend he'd known socially for several years, and one day she said "we're both wondering what the other is like in bed, let's do it, get sex out of the way and keep being friends". They spend a night together, and after that one occasion haven't done it since. She's still friends with both of us, and her current partner knows she and G have slept together and he's fine about it.

G found out she actually wasn't a very good fuck, she was too shy about her body and only wanted to be done in the missionary position! She certainly wouldn't go swinging!

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

best friends who end up fucking is normally what a relationship/marriage starts from isnt it.

When I met my ex we had sex and were great friends and ended up getting married. So its what every relationship is made from I guess.

But we are talking about a relationship aside from current marriages/relationships...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Many years ago my best mate fooked my then wife and it did nothing for our friendship at all when i broke his nose.

So i would say no dont do it

Steve

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"Many years ago my best mate fooked my then wife and it did nothing for our friendship at all when i broke his nose.

So i would say no dont do it

Steve

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Loving that lol

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

Like Diamond I fucked most of my male friends in my late teens/early twenties. Still friends with most of them more than 25 years later...was invited to almost all their weddings. Since joining Fab have fucked quite a few guys (and a couple of girls) who have now become friends, and one or two I know will be in my life whether I'm swinging or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like Diamond I fucked most of my male friends in my late teens/early twenties. Still friends with most of them more than 25 years later...was invited to almost all their weddings. Since joining Fab have fucked quite a few guys (and a couple of girls) who have now become friends, and one or two I know will be in my life whether I'm swinging or not."

Im the same one of my first ever boyfriends is my best friend in whole wide world and im god mother to his first child. And I love going out for a pint with the boys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can you fuck a friend and still be friends,,or has the relationship gone for good,,and any chat is just being polite, but not interested anymore

has anybody any stories on it,

funny or sad,, prefer funny though."

It all depends upon what your relationship was like before.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I have a friend I've known for many years, who I find incredibly attractive. We were work colleagues at the time, and although I've since moved on to a different company I still stay in touch with her and we still get on great.

We've both been through a lot together over the years, and we've been there for each other when the other person needed some support or a shoulder to cry on.

Even though I've gone through the scenario hundreds of times in my head, I don't think I could actually have sex with her if the opportunity ever arose, simply because I'd be afraid of risking the very close friendship we have.

Bearing in mind that I consider her to be one of the most physically attractive people I've ever met, I'm amazed that I can let my head overrule my dick.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Caramber go for it, if she is a good friend you hopefully can bring up the subject, of maybe why cant more ladies be as lovely as you ouside and in....

For me the sex with the friend came first then friendship after and more sex after that lol.

I have a good frined from school, he is married with 2 lovely kids and we have always been close but the idea of sex with him isnt a good thought. He did wonder many years ago to approach me to ask me out , he spoke with my mum and after discussion decided to keep the friendship level and not change it. I am glad it stayed like that. But have wondered as I dont find him attractive and our personalities are very different so knew it wouldnt have worked.

I guess it depends on the personalities and friendship level.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I have fucked two guys who where friends long before they were fuck-buddies.

I am now godmother to one guy's daughter and just as good a friend with the other one over 10 years later.

If you believe fucking a friend will change the friendship before you do it... then it will change after sex, because you 'believed it would'... you're beliefs will change your actions (you will act like it's change because you believe it will have changed)and the result is... you make the belief real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can you fuck a friend and still be friends,,or has the relationship gone for good,,and any chat is just being polite, but not interested anymore

has anybody any stories on it,

funny or sad,, prefer funny though."

The answer is yes if you both go into it open minded without getting emotionally involved. The big problem is that is one sides sees it as more than it its you get imbalance, emotions get involved and it can lead to the end of a friendship. It depends if you think the fuck is worth the potential risk.

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