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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what is best for restraining a partner, for years ive been a fun of real handcuffs but think it may be time to expand my horizons.

what do the rest of you think ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like rope and leather restraints. Metal handcuffs kill my wrists and ankles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i like being restrained with silk scarfs the sensuality that the feel of the silk brings to the experience is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope every time

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

leather cuffs for me, I have been restrained with rope and personally much prefer leather.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

silk scarfs that's makes feel really cheap, i thought using duck take was a bit to posh for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find rope more nawty. Have tried cable ties but can leave marks and cuts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the problem i find with rope is that as i was never a scout so my knots are not that grate and so time they can slip a hand out

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

rope all the way a lot more sensual than cuffs

het some guidance before hand as it is easy to mark/burn if not done safley

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Hate metal handcuffs

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I like both. Rope for boobs, legs, ankles etc. Handcuffs or quickly fastened restraints for wrists. Although I quite fancy being hogtied at some point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

dont know how to rope up boobs, but it is fun to cuff left wrist to right ankle and right wrist to left ankle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the problem i find with rope is that as i was never a scout so my knots are not that grate and so time they can slip a hand out "

I have very flexible wrists and finger joint so handcuff are easy to get out of.

But rope is much harder to escape

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

really ? ive got police cuff so the more the hand struggle the tighter they get, but want type of rope do you use ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me its best to use thin but strong ropes for wrists but for the rest of the body anything a bit rough on the skin is always fun.

uh uh I can still get out of them

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"really ? ive got police cuff so the more the hand struggle the tighter they get, but want type of rope do you use ?

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soft cotton rope can be nice as can silk rope from sex shops we use jute rope which is quite rough and needs to be treated first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"really ? ive got police cuff so the more the hand struggle the tighter they get, but want type of rope do you use ?

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Err police cuffs are specifically designed not to do that. The whole health safety thing of mutilating your prisoner etc

Rope is good be careful you do not use a knot that tightens under force though as you could cut the blood off and cause nerve damage.

Google French bow line with 3 loops it is very sturdy, very comfy to fight against due to large area and will not tighten.

You will need a lot of rope though.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Industrial gaffer tape..... Cant beat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Padded Velcro straps are very good I'd your a novice very safe very secure and very comfy.

Invest in a climbing knife though or just keep a sharp blade near by you always need to be able to remove the restraints (especially if they're rope) as quickly as possible if something goes wrong

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By *ptimum trajectoryCouple
over a year ago

gloucester

Cotton rope for the way it vibrates when pulling it through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever with someone you completely trust!! Leather cuffs. Lovely and soft.

Once your in them though as a woman you feel quite vulnerable. So guys, never do anything dodgy, just to tease!

Metal handcuffs are cold and hard, tie wraps hurt and cut. It's leather cuffs for me!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Rope or leather shackles.

Never been a fan of handcuffs. - I don't like the cold, clanky feel of them and they usually hurt to fight against.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am handy with a length of rope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rope or leather shackles.

Never been a fan of handcuffs. - I don't like the cold, clanky feel of them and they usually hurt to fight against.

- Amy. x"

Haha I still have the scars on my wrists from metal handcuffs.

Once from playing with an ex with a pair of the cheapo metal sex toy ones and she scratched my face (royally hate that) and I snapped them then in my infinite wisdom instead do undoing the unmapped cuff ripped rhat one off too so scared both wrists lol.

Second from the police and having the cuffs put on in front of me and improperly so that they could skin instead do being tightened so they can't rotate around the wrist.

Was sat in the hospital bed merrily spinning my hands ( like doing the maccarina with you wrists cuffs) on so many painkillers did not realise just how bad the friction burns were getting the blisters were horrible the next day.

Leather is awesome though. And speaking of leather restraints has cupids got round to fixing the broken wrist strap on thier Saint Andrews cross yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this post..just a suggestion but youmay want to seek out some bdsm groups hold bondage demo's..shabari techneques, rigging, down to simple breast body rope bondage. Personally l have no patience lol and go for the hogtie leathet restraints you can buy of toy sites..cuffs with steel leg and arms spreader bars are great.

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By *ixenSubminxiveWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I love being restrained with rope, it can be sensual or ouchy!

I like leather handcuffs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cling film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that does the job

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm so much can be achieved with a very long piece of soft stretchy white rope, the sound and feel of it makes me melt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm so much can be achieved with a very long piece of soft stretchy white rope, the sound and feel of it makes me melt "

Hmm crimson sheets and black rope or black sheets and crimson rope.

I'm going to need a series of volunteers for an experiment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"really ? ive got police cuff so the more the hand struggle the tighter they get, but want type of rope do you use ?

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Never in a million years, Police cuffs are actually the easiest to get out of because they are designed not to tighten and have a rigid link, Theres a very simple trick.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are into rope bondage so rope for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been tied up, never had anyone i trust enough to do it, the idea does turn me on though, i like the idea of silk or something similar, i feel quite horny now thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is best for restraining a partner, for years ive been a fun of real handcuffs but think it may be time to expand my horizons.

what do the rest of you think ? "

Bolted cuffs are rather nice as they are so solid with so little movement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both, depending on the location friends what we use. Both have their uses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

More the merrier

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"what is best for restraining a partner, for years ive been a fun of real handcuffs but think it may be time to expand my horizons.

what do the rest of you think ? "

I have only had rope used on me a couple of times but loved the feel of it.

Like leather cuffs but prefer metal ones as I feel far more restricted and like the digging in and clanking noise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is best for restraining a partner, for years ive been a fun of real handcuffs but think it may be time to expand my horizons.

what do the rest of you think ? "

Silk ties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like rope.. it just seems more creative and flexible. I got some purple rope at the BBB last month and it looks stunning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The minute the leather cuffs go on my wrists and ankles I know

Add rope and chains to it and I'm a very happy bunny

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Why not use a combination of different restaurants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used a man's work ties. He liked going to work wearing them after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any love the idea of being tied up

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"what is best for restraining a partner, for years ive been a fun of real handcuffs but think it may be time to expand my horizons.

what do the rest of you think ? "

concrete filled wellies try runing in them .

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Depends on if they are being retrained to anything, French polishers are so expensive these days...

However, I have noticed that metal clamps do appear to be more effective if stored in the freezer for awhile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope for me. Handcuffs leave undeniable marks and the kids ask too many questions!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Definitely rope! Depending on the knots, they can leave some interesting marks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope and not just as hand cuffs nothing sexier than a woman wearing nothing but rope

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Rope and not just as hand cuffs nothing sexier than a woman wearing nothing but rope "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leather Cuffs are our restraint of choice but therese plenty of room for metal and rope in our repertoire too!

Bondage tape and cling film are great to play with too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"really ? ive got police cuff so the more the hand struggle the tighter they get, but want type of rope do you use ?

Never in a million years, Police cuffs are actually the easiest to get out of because they are designed not to tighten and have a rigid link, Theres a very simple trick."

My hands can quite suddenly become smaller than my wrists meaning that cuffs are easily escaped

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