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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In light of a post I've just read regarding HIV risks, i thought i would through this thought to the room, does anyone think soft swinging is an option mutual masturbation, watching, being watched etc, what are others thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nothing new. There are many couples who only indulge in the soft option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course soft swing is an option, not all play meets have to end with penetrative sex. Lots of couples only do soft swap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its a more secure and less direct way to enter the swinging scene, eg dipping your toe in the water scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can be intense too

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

I have enjoyed several "soft swing" meets with both couples and single ladies.

My experience was that we had a very sensuous, erotic, and sexy time, and enjoyed ourselves very much indeed!

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

We only soft swing with couples. It's not a security thing - it's a preference thing for us.

Give us a bi guy though... no soft play there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its a possible great way of having a very erotic tactile time, without the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a possible great way of having a very erotic tactile time, without the risk"

News flash, there's risk in all sexual contact. The only true safe sex is no sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft play is not for us.

If however absolute safety was our over riding concern then we wouldn't consider swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like mutual masturbation its all good.

and safer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nothing new. There are many couples who only indulge in the soft option"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a possible great way of having a very erotic tactile time, without the risk"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like mutual masturbation its all good.

and safer!"
hmmmm

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Its a possible great way of having a very erotic tactile time, without the risk"

There is risk attached, fingers, tongues, semen. The only safe sex as has been said many, many times before is no sex at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hazard a guess that the vast majority of couples soft swing. Many stay with it...and some allow things to progress onwards with the right people. Soft swing is the norm...full swing is the exception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a possible great way of having a very erotic tactile time, without the risk

There is risk attached, fingers, tongues, semen. The only safe sex as has been said many, many times before is no sex at all. "

There's risk attached to everything... even stepping out of the door. When someone takes up playing the flute you don't hear people warning them not to shove it in their eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a possible great way of having a very erotic tactile time, without the risk

There is risk attached, fingers, tongues, semen. The only safe sex as has been said many, many times before is no sex at all. "

I had a friend years ago who split his foreskin masturbating. Damn near bled out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Its a possible great way of having a very erotic tactile time, without the risk

There is risk attached, fingers, tongues, semen. The only safe sex as has been said many, many times before is no sex at all.

There's risk attached to everything... even stepping out of the door. When someone takes up playing the flute you don't hear people warning them not to shove it in their eye "

Quite! But I feel that thinking there is no risk attached to soft swing might stop someone from getting regularly tested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a possible great way of having a very erotic tactile time, without the risk

There is risk attached, fingers, tongues, semen. The only safe sex as has been said many, many times before is no sex at all.

There's risk attached to everything... even stepping out of the door. When someone takes up playing the flute you don't hear people warning them not to shove it in their eye

Quite! But I feel that thinking there is no risk attached to soft swing might stop someone from getting regularly tested."

Good point

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