FabSwingers.com forum: Why

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are so many men so reluctant to meet in a club?

The local one to us charges a mere £20 with no waiting list or joining fee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worried about competition maybe?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Maybe they don't have £20 to waste on a night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they don't have £20 to waste on a night out. "

But they are happy to pay for a room....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Maybe they don't fancy going to a club

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Maybe they might feel comfy in a club environment.

Does not mean there married, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are so many men so reluctant to meet in a club?

The local one to us charges a mere £20 with no waiting list or joining fee.

Because, from my experience they tend to be crap and over priced for single guys,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are so many men so reluctant to meet in a club?

The local one to us charges a mere £20 with no waiting list or joining fee.

Because, from my experience they tend to be crap and over priced for single guys, "

£20 for a single guy and like she said in pretty woman; I'm a sure thing!

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Are so many men so reluctant to meet in a club?

The local one to us charges a mere £20 with no waiting list or joining fee.

Because, from my experience they tend to be crap and over priced for single guys,

£20 for a single guy and like she said in pretty woman; I'm a sure thing!

Why do you just want to meet in a club?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are so many men so reluctant to meet in a club?

The local one to us charges a mere £20 with no waiting list or joining fee.

Because, from my experience they tend to be crap and over priced for single guys,

£20 for a single guy and like she said in pretty woman; I'm a sure thing!

Why do you just want to meet in a club?? lol"

Exactly my thoughts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they might feel comfy in a club environment.

Does not mean there married, lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Maybe they might feel comfy in a club environment.

Does not mean there married, lol

Now there is some legs I'd follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are so many men so reluctant to meet in a club?

The local one to us charges a mere £20 with no waiting list or joining fee.

Some don't like to provide ID and details I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

I think it's because,like everyone else on this site,they have preferences and are entitled to stick to those preferences.

It doesn't necessarily mean they have something to hide. Maybe they just don't want to go to a club.

Preferences are not exclusive to women and men dressing as women.

Have that !

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Men are not allowed to do anything other than agree with others .... or we are married or hiding something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain "

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Maybe they don't fancy going to a club"

Or the people in them

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!"

On the plus side you look ever so nice over your bed there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!"

How would you know? I have been to clubs and I am entitled to my opinion,

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain "

Can you buy disdain at B&Q? ..is it like Ronseal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

Can you buy disdain at B&Q? ..is it like Ronseal?"

Yeah, it's more expensive and tends to leave you feeling ripped off afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are so many men so reluctant to meet in a club?

The local one to us charges a mere £20 with no waiting list or joining fee.

Because, from my experience they tend to be crap and over priced for single guys,

£20 for a single guy and like she said in pretty woman; I'm a sure thing!

Maybe they want your ass all to themselves, and a club would have lots more competition for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because, in my life, I've been to two clubs and they were the worst, most depressing places I've ever seen.

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

Can you buy disdain at B&Q? ..is it like Ronseal?

Yeah, it's more expensive and tends to leave you feeling ripped off afterwards

Lol..you seem to have survived!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

Can you buy disdain at B&Q? ..is it like Ronseal?

Yeah, it's more expensive and tends to leave you feeling ripped off afterwards

Lol..you seem to have survived!"

Yep, my wallet didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last singles night we went to (to meet a couple) there was only one women all night who we sore that allowed 4 men to grope her after her partner had tied her up she was then followed all night and most of the singles were stood round looking lost and lonley.

knowing what they had paid I'd have been gutted to have spent that sort of money on such a poor night. if I was single I wouldn't use clubs unless it was for a prearranged meet special event or the club had a good reputation for action on a singles night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon the reluctance stems from possibly turning up and being Billy no mates! Or your meet doesn't show, or decides you're not for her and you're out the cash and holding your cock! Also if the guys are not club goers it's another new experience which might scare them.

I've met several times at clubs with people, but then I'm quite a confident guy. In fact I find club meets preferable to hotels! Certainly cheaper and the option to expand your meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!

How would you know? I have been to clubs and I am entitled to my opinion, "

Its an assumption as you haven't been to one as you have said on more than one occasion in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There could be one hundred and one reasons really.

Never been before

Not sire what to expect

Have no idea of the protocols involved when visiting

Might want to protect there personal information

The list goes on, might just be easy to ask the said gentleman what there concerns are

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Are so many men so reluctant to meet in a club?

The local one to us charges a mere £20 with no waiting list or joining fee.

Because, from my experience they tend to be crap and over priced for single guys,

£20 for a single guy and like she said in pretty woman; I'm a sure thing!

Why do you just want to meet in a club?? lol"

I only meet in clubs.

It is easier if I'm feeling greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!

How would you know? I have been to clubs and I am entitled to my opinion,

Its an assumption as you haven't been to one as you have said on more than one occasion in the past."

No I haven't,

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Are so many men so reluctant to meet in a club?

The local one to us charges a mere £20 with no waiting list or joining fee.

Because, from my experience they tend to be crap and over priced for single guys,

£20 for a single guy and like she said in pretty woman; I'm a sure thing!

Why do you just want to meet in a club?? lol

I only meet in clubs.

It is easier if I'm feeling greedy

Which is fair enough. different people find different things easier.

Not a bad thing being a greedy girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some clubs charge lots and that puts men off but the main problem that many seem to have is sharing. Even in clubs I find a lot of men want one to one rather than group, it just seems to be the mindset of many. Most of the men who message me are after one to one, in private. I guess they are shy or, as has been suggested, are afraid of the competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!

How would you know? I have been to clubs and I am entitled to my opinion,

Its an assumption as you haven't been to one as you have said on more than one occasion in the past.

No I haven't,

You have on more than one occasion

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By *iscreetguy62Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

If this is new to them its the fear factor of the unknown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If this is new to them its the fear factor of the unknown "

Thats the same for everyone though so working on that the clubs would all be empty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!

How would you know? I have been to clubs and I am entitled to my opinion,

Its an assumption as you haven't been to one as you have said on more than one occasion in the past.

No I haven't,

You have on more than one occasion

Again, no I haven't, where is your proof

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By *iscreetguy62Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Its not though couples who are first timers have each other to lean on and i know quite a few single girls who always go together but wont go on their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!

How would you know? I have been to clubs and I am entitled to my opinion,

Its an assumption as you haven't been to one as you have said on more than one occasion in the past.

No I haven't,

You have on more than one occasion

Dont feed him you could be there all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!

How would you know? I have been to clubs and I am entitled to my opinion,

Its an assumption as you haven't been to one as you have said on more than one occasion in the past.

No I haven't,

You have on more than one occasion

Dont feed him you could be there all day

Have we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only in your dreams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only in your dreams

I see, you seem to know a lot about me, are yiu a stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!

How would you know? I have been to clubs and I am entitled to my opinion,

Its an assumption as you haven't been to one as you have said on more than one occasion in the past.

No I haven't,

You have on more than one occasion

Dont feed him you could be there all day

I don't aim to its just funny how some lie and contradict themselves at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!

How would you know? I have been to clubs and I am entitled to my opinion,

Its an assumption as you haven't been to one as you have said on more than one occasion in the past.

No I haven't,

You have on more than one occasion

Dont feed him you could be there all day

I don't aim to its just funny how some lie and contradict themselves at times.

Another stalker,

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By *ss.motMan
over a year ago

fife/edinburgh

Have only been once and was bi night it was fun my fuck buddy loved it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm back after a short ban!

That'll teach me to give an honest answer to why I like the safety of clubs rather than the dangerous one on one hotel meet!

Read between the lines folks. Clubs are much safer. Play safe always

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"they can be very unwelcoming for single guys on his own.

I agree, we pay the most and are treated with disdain

But you don't go to clubs you have said on more than one occasion you don't and wouldn't so how would you know!

How would you know? I have been to clubs and I am entitled to my opinion,

Its an assumption as you haven't been to one as you have said on more than one occasion in the past.

No I haven't,

you have said that you havent been to clubs on many occasions, so unless you have been recently think you may be telling porky pies, and anytime we have been to clubs we have never seen single guys treated with disdain, quite the opposite, and we have been on all manner of nights.

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