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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone contacted you saying they would like to meet again only you hadnt heard from them for about 4 years at all, would you want to meet them?

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By *amplemeMan
over a year ago

Working here.

Dora,

If it was you contacting me I'd jump at the chance.. And you know why. xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Copied my answer from the other thread..

Depends on if I liked them, the first time round...

Sometimes for whatever reason you lose contact with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we could remember whether they were worth another meet , yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Copied my answer from the other thread..

Depends on if I liked them, the first time round...

Sometimes for whatever reason you lose contact with people."

I agree with that but i think if they were that interested then they would have contacted you before even to just say hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how good they were the firsttime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how good they were the firsttime"

Nobodys that good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common decency cost nowt unless he's been in a coma for the last 4 years!! He's no excuse for not even dropping by to say hi and ask how your doing.

Sounds to me like a wham bam thankyou next! And he's run out of resource's lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Common decency cost nowt unless he's been in a coma for the last 4 years!! He's no excuse for not even dropping by to say hi and ask how your doing.

Sounds to me like a wham bam thankyou next! And he's run out of resource's lol "

Yes thats what i was thinking too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Common decency cost nowt unless he's been in a coma for the last 4 years!! He's no excuse for not even dropping by to say hi and ask how your doing.

Sounds to me like a wham bam thankyou next! And he's run out of resource's lol

Yes thats what i was thinking too. "

Plenty more fish int see there's no shortage of dudes on hear that's for sure haha good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prison???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Common decency cost nowt unless he's been in a coma for the last 4 years!! He's no excuse for not even dropping by to say hi and ask how your doing.

Sounds to me like a wham bam thankyou next! And he's run out of resource's lol "

I partly agree with this but there could be a perfectly reasonable explanation, perhaps he has been in an exclusive relationship and not been meeting.

If that isn't the case then, no, I would tell them to sling their hook....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he'd left the site for a relationship, or even just a break from the scene then possibly... If his luck with meets had just dried up and he was just after an up to date veri then probably not! To be honest though it would probably all come down to how fit he was and how good the sex had been when we had met...I may have principals but I do enjoy a good hard shag with a fitty too

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I was seeing a lovely woman about four years ago but we lost touch,if she rang I could not get there quick enough,she was beauty full,really wish we were still intouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i liked them yes, this is a swinging site, i don't expect people to stay in touch with me, they have a life and if meeting me again for a few years does not fit into their life so be it, maybe he's been in a relationship that's now ended so he's catching up, if you liked them the first time why not meet them again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he'd left the site for a relationship, or even just a break from the scene then possibly... If his luck with meets had just dried up and he was just after an up to date veri then probably not! To be honest though it would probably all come down to how fit he was and how good the sex had been when we had met...I may have principals but I do enjoy a good hard shag with a fitty too "

This!! As have met people after leaving this site and others for a relationship in the past, then come back swinging etc and its all about if you liked them in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all just speculation he may be a genuine guy who's been out of the lifestyle for a while for moral honest reasons who knows

Orrrrrr he could be a giant douche haha

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Copied my answer from the other thread..

Depends on if I liked them, the first time round...

Sometimes for whatever reason you lose contact with people.

I agree with that but i think if they were that interested then they would have contacted you before even to just say hi."

I see what you are saying but then you could of easily have contacted them too to say hi, if you wanted to meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if the first meet was any good.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"If i liked them yes, this is a swinging site, i don't expect people to stay in touch with me, they have a life and if meeting me again for a few years does not fit into their life so be it, maybe he's been in a relationship that's now ended so he's catching up, if you liked them the first time why not meet them again?"

You put it far better than me NN.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt if they hadnt bothered to stay in touch or had the courtesy to say why they were not in touch

Plenty more fish in the sea .. like me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This goes both ways doesn't it? If that person hasn't contacted you in four years, then clearly you made no effort either. There must be a reason why neither of you bothered with each other. Unless they had done something bad I don't see why or why not to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i liked them yes, this is a swinging site, i don't expect people to stay in touch with me, they have a life and if meeting me again for a few years does not fit into their life so be it, maybe he's been in a relationship that's now ended so he's catching up, if you liked them the first time why not meet them again?"

Absolutely...a fuck does not an obligation make...If I fancied fucking them again, I'd base my decision on that only...

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I stopped meeting for quite a few years and once I started again I heard from a guy I hadn't seen for about 6 years, we met and it was still good as the first time

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"If i liked them yes, this is a swinging site, i don't expect people to stay in touch with me, they have a life and if meeting me again for a few years does not fit into their life so be it, maybe he's been in a relationship that's now ended so he's catching up, if you liked them the first time why not meet them again?"

Exactly. This is all about having a bit of sexy fun, nothing more, so why not?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

yes i would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Common decency cost nowt unless he's been in a coma for the last 4 years!! He's no excuse for not even dropping by to say hi and ask how your doing.

Sounds to me like a wham bam thankyou next! And he's run out of resource's lol

Yes thats what i was thinking too.

Plenty more fish int see there's no shortage of dudes on hear that's for sure haha good luck "

Takes 2 to tango....why is it the responsibility of the man to keep in touch?

I've met men years apart if I liked them enough.

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