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That golden first Verification!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I cant explain how great i feel now ive had that first verification (im even happier that the veirifier is as fantastic, sexy and gorgeous as she is!) And now im hoping people will see that and the floodgates will open lol!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Wayheeey!!! Enjoy and sure you will get many more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were waiting a whole 2 weeks for it. Must have been tough.

Just remember, it's just proof that you are a human. It's not a magic leg opener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice, I have one to

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

It's so good! It's still not easy from here on in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's on of them the only one i have is a photo one

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Er, you do realise that most people totally discount webcam veri's for single guys don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly though, you dont really need veris. Nothing changes once you've got a few, with the exception that in the eyes of the Disapproval Gnomes, you will have gone from not having enough to having too many lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly though, you dont really need veris. Nothing changes once you've got a few, with the exception that in the eyes of the Disapproval Gnomes, you will have gone from not having enough to having too many lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly though, you dont really need veris. Nothing changes once you've got a few, with the exception that in the eyes of the Disapproval Gnomes, you will have gone from not having enough to having too many lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it like getting hold of willy wonkas golden ticket?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it like getting hold of willy wonkas golden ticket? "

Is that his pet name for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it like getting hold of willy wonkas golden ticket? "

leave my Wonka alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats lol

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee


"Nice, I have one to "
webcam veris did your 6 pack fit on the screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That takes me back years now! Oh my word!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

congrats on the veri .. may you have many more

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Just a slippery slope now to "I've just been rejected for having too many verifications "

Enjoy it while it lasts...

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By *oeyleicesterMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Hey glad to hear, can't wait for my first one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?

I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.

They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.

My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive

Genuine question

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By *oeyleicesterMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?

I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.

They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.

My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive

Genuine question

"

Well when I look to meet someone I'm only bothered if they have no verification but if they have some I'm not too fussed how many they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a face to face verification, we can all jump on cam to get them if we wanted, and we would all be loaded lol

Her

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By *oeyleicesterMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I prefer a face to face verification, we can all jump on cam to get them if we wanted, and we would all be loaded lol

Her"

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I cant explain how great i feel now ive had that first verification (im even happier that the veirifier is as fantastic, sexy and gorgeous as she is!) And now im hoping people will see that and the floodgates will open lol!

"

I wish veris from members who have left still remained. My first one was awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?

I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.

They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.

My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive

Genuine question

"

Lots of people have on their profiles that they "don't want to shag their way theough the site". They clearly don't understand what swinging is. They won't meet people with more than say 4 veri's. Weird but true.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?

I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.

They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.

My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive

Genuine question

"

A negative verification? No such thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Er, you do realise that most people totally discount webcam veri's for single guys don't you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Er, you do realise that most people totally discount webcam veri's for single guys don't you?"

A webcam veri to me just means you have been on cam nothing else. In fact if someone has only webcam veri's it makes me more suspicious they won't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations, I think it's helps having some, but having veris is not the be all and end all, we've had some terrific times and either haven't mentioned fab or they are not on here or we've forgotten there usernames, but all in all I suppose your first does feel important

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Er, you do realise that most people totally discount webcam veri's for single guys don't you?"

Aww you have just burst his bubble...

But being honest we ignore all webcam veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Er, you do realise that most people totally discount webcam veri's for single guys don't you?

A webcam veri to me just means you have been on cam nothing else. In fact if someone has only webcam veri's it makes me more suspicious they won't meet."

No its because they dont meet thats why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have none so far;)

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By *iscreet corkMan
over a year ago

CORK

Even when you get verified by a lady are couple it is still hard 2 get a meet.i no ladys have 2 think safty at all times but coffee meets are getting hard 2 get

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

All a Webcam veri proves is what sex you are.

Real meet veris either social or otherwise are what counts.

But hopefully your next one will be from a meet... Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just dont get pissed off and delete the account - when you come back got to go through it all again - maybe the thrill of the first might be worth that tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks eveyone, i knew that some people would be fairly sceptical about me but i also understand their reasons why due to the ammount of fake profiles on here.

I know its going to be a long process to gain trust and establish myself as a genuine single male on here.and i accept that patience is the key and chances will be few. But i am genuinely looking for meets so when the opportunitues do arise il grab them with both hands and EVENTUALLY prove myself to the doubters!

and become a huge success on here and the inspiration/ envy of all single males who step foot in the swinging world.....

.... hopefully

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By *lwayshornymanMan
over a year ago

Flintshire

Congrats to you. I must admit its easier to fly a kite indoors tjan get verified on here. I've given up just think those who wont meet without them are loosing out. Have fun mate thats what its all about.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Congrats to you. I must admit its easier to fly a kite indoors tjan get verified on here. I've given up just think those who wont meet without them are loosing out. Have fun mate thats what its all about. "

Sorry, that's just not true. Find a social event, turn up, introduce yourself, sorted.

No social events nearby? Either travel, or organise one.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Flying a kite indoors is so much easier than going to a social?

Are you sure?

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By *lwayshornymanMan
over a year ago

Flintshire

Did social in local area and club met loads of people and had a great time. Not one gave veried. It may be they only give when they receive. To be honest though I just don't care either way. Verified only means people are being polite in my view.

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By *attykitWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?

I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.

They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.

My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive

Genuine question

Lots of people have on their profiles that they "don't want to shag their way theough the site". They clearly don't understand what swinging is. They won't meet people with more than say 4 veri's. Weird but true. "

Which is ridiculous if toy attend socials abs receive 4 or more veri s in one evening!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Did social in local area and club met loads of people and had a great time. Not one gave veried. It may be they only give when they receive. To be honest though I just don't care either way. Verified only means people are being polite in my view.

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Did you actually ask them to verify you?

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By *lwayshornymanMan
over a year ago

Flintshire

I asked quite a few on here after and told them as a non verified member I return the verification once I have been.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" To be honest though I just don't care either way.

"

I can tell...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly though, you dont really need veris. Nothing changes once you've got a few, with the exception that in the eyes of the Disapproval Gnomes, you will have gone from not having enough to having too many lol"
exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?

I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.

They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.

My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive

Genuine question

A negative verification? No such thing."

No we only mention the good bits not their bad points.

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By *af29Man
over a year ago

crewe

still not managed to get my first one yet. seems most women like a verification, so guess i will just have to wait and see what happens, haha

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