FabSwingers.com forum: Attractive.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, not enough wimen here lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

I know. It's ridiculous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the internet

Probably a combination of things, including the fact that if they find you that attractive (which they should

) you might intimidate them in real life. Men have fragile egos.... except me, I'm frickin' awesome

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

I know. It's ridiculous! "

a woman is a woman no matter what shape or size,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree a lot of guys on here soon forget standards or what they like just to get a quick meet with any one who is available x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a woman not gagging for a shag? I've heard it all now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree a lot of guys on here soon forget standards or what they like just to get a quick meet with any one who is available x"

So what your saying is that those that meet me on here have no standards because I don't pull in real life. Fair point tbf.

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

Can't believe anyone is surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree a lot of guys on here soon forget standards or what they like just to get a quick meet with any one who is available x"

Agreed, they probably fancy you till they cum

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By *urvy_J3Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

I have to agree I get alot of compliments about my body and my face on here but when I go out I get no interest at all however someone once rudely pointed out to me its easy to fuck a fat lass cause they never know when they goung to get it again

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you have a vagina... that's that answered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of men just want sex they dont want to get involved with someone.

if they met you in the street they wouldnt know you were up for anything so they wouldnt be so interested.

and there are more women than men on here of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree a lot of guys on here soon forget standards or what they like just to get a quick meet with any one who is available x

So what your saying is that those that meet me on here have no standards because I don't pull in real life. Fair point tbf.

haha not at all I dont pull on here or real life where does that leave me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My faith in the male species has gone down rapidly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on sites like this yes lol.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"My faith in the male species has gone down rapidly. "

really ? you have been here 8 months and you don't have a handle on this malarky yet ?

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

"a lot of men just want sex they dont want to get involved with someone.

if they met you in the street they wouldnt know you were up for anything so they wouldnt be so interested.

and there are more women than men on here of course."

Yep that's very true - most men really do prefer curves and I bet loads more men notice you and fancy you when you're out and you don't notice them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My faith in the male species has gone down rapidly. "

Only because you let it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My faith in the male species has gone down rapidly.

really ? you have been here 8 months and you don't have a handle on this malarky yet ?"

It was all going fine with no issues until I started thinking about what I was doing. Probably shouldn't have done that!

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

Think the clue is in the name of the site there's plenty other sites for the wining dining dating brigade x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such "

how do you know they wouldn't look twice? Have they said so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such "

depends - sounds like you've not run into the right men

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such "

a lot will say women have it easy on here, I would say easier... your challenge is to wade through the sea of superficiality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see why you are suprised !! You get guys on forums saying how sexy and how they would love to fuck a lady who does not even have a Avatar pic up or any pics on her profile

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

They probably do find you attractive in real life but because it's not out in the open as it is on here as to availability then they don't ask in case they get knocked back. You're bound to get chancers on here due to sheer weight of numbers but to me they're the Fab equivalent of a guy grabbing my arse in a crowded pub and getting a withering look for his efforts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My faith in the male species has gone down rapidly.

really ? you have been here 8 months and you don't have a handle on this malarky yet ?

It was all going fine with no issues until I started thinking about what I was doing. Probably shouldn't have done that!"

when you start thinking about it you realise its not maybe such a good idea.

sometimes we like to kid ourselves about things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't approach you in real life because, to be honest, you're waaaay out of my league.

Real Madrid to my Accrington Stanley.

It's easier to make the first move behind the keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such

how do you know they wouldn't look twice? Have they said so?"

Yes some have. As I'm the opposite to what they always usually go for.

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

"I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such "

You're a good looking lady, I'm sure most will agree.

When you go out, do you actively go out to meet guys?

Are you actually looking for a relationship? If you are, may be put this on the backburner for a while.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

I'm a fat woman. I've been on this site six years and met some lovely men. I always meet socially, been out and about with quite a few.

The last one to one meet I had in November was with a handsome 6ft 1 hunk...we now live together. Sometimes , focus on our "flaws" and assume that's the reason people don't like us.

Some men wouldn't be seen dead with ANY woman on this site whether she looked like Miley Cyrus, Angelina Jolie or Dawn French!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought everyone goal was to bang as many as possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the ego boost but I take it as just that ... as long as my fella fancies me I dont care

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Because there is a massive filter between here and real life

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

Am I missing something...I thought this was a nsa site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "
I think theres a lot of very pretty larger ladies in all walks of life and indeed have large lady friends but as they do nothing for me sexually I wouldnt chat one up or arrange a meet on here but they still lovely people and friends and always have a great laugh together

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such

You're a good looking lady, I'm sure most will agree.

When you go out, do you actively go out to meet guys?

Are you actually looking for a relationship? If you are, may be put this on the backburner for a while.

I do intend to meet guys when I'm out.

It's not that I want a relationship. I'm just trying to understand why on here hundreds want to have a turn. And when I go out it's no one. I just find it odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

Am I missing something...I thought this was a nsa site!"
Me too .. I am on here to chat . Meet and have sex with ladies who I find attractive . Not to habe a relationship . If I wanted that I would go on a dating site

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you think that about guys only looking for slimmer ladies and it irks you...

diet n exercise.

or look for guys happy with ladies of a larger size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the ego boost"

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Put your details on a dating website and compare the market.

I'm sure 99.9999% of people here get offers for sex here and not in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you think that about guys only looking for slimmer ladies and it irks you...

diet n exercise.

or look for guys happy with ladies of a larger size."
bloody hell veiw I hope you have your hard hat on lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"if you think that about guys only looking for slimmer ladies and it irks you...

diet n exercise.

or look for guys happy with ladies of a larger size.bloody hell veiw I hope you have your hard hat on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such

You're a good looking lady, I'm sure most will agree.

When you go out, do you actively go out to meet guys?

Are you actually looking for a relationship? If you are, may be put this on the backburner for a while.

I do intend to meet guys when I'm out.

It's not that I want a relationship. I'm just trying to understand why on here hundreds want to have a turn. And when I go out it's no one. I just find it odd. "

Probably because on here's it a collective audience with most people after a similar goal.

On a Saturday night out in a bar you'd have a mixture of singles looking & singles having fun with their friends.

In ratio I too would meet way more men on here that 'fancy' me than I would on a regular night out.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such "

Have you asked these real life guys of they'd like a no strings night of sex though? Do you walk around with a tshirt on advertising the fact that your looking for NSA?

I bet if the real life guys knew that's what you were after then they would pay attention to you but not a lot of blokes would approach a woman with a 'do you fancy a one night stand' chat up line out of the blue.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"if you think that about guys only looking for slimmer ladies and it irks you...

diet n exercise.

or look for guys happy with ladies of a larger size."

What?!! And lose the opportunity to be righteously indignant?!!

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

I'm sure if you went round town with your photos on a sandwich board you would get loads of offers too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such

You're a good looking lady, I'm sure most will agree.

When you go out, do you actively go out to meet guys?

Are you actually looking for a relationship? If you are, may be put this on the backburner for a while.

I do intend to meet guys when I'm out.

It's not that I want a relationship. I'm just trying to understand why on here hundreds want to have a turn. And when I go out it's no one. I just find it odd. "

There are many reasons, but have you considered you have more competition, on a average Saturday night out in Manchester there are far more attractive women out than there are on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. I think I have learned a lot about the male species and unfortunately as time goes on I like them less and less. It's all about their egos, and ur right they obsess about BBW here, but in reality they wouldn't bring us home to meet their mothers

lol

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

Scotland & London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree. I think I have learned a lot about the male species and unfortunately as time goes on I like them less and less. It's all about their egos, and ur right they obsess about BBW here, but in reality they wouldn't bring us home to meet their mothers

lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest op . It is a lot easier for a guy to chat to you on here . Knowing you are on a sex site and are looking to meet guys then it would be to come up too you on a night out and chat you up .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if you think that about guys only looking for slimmer ladies and it irks you...

diet n exercise.

or look for guys happy with ladies of a larger size.

What?!! And lose the opportunity to be righteously indignant?!!

I have already began to make changed to my lifestyle to become healthier etc.

I'm not righteously indignant. I was expressing an opinion of an observation.

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By *illionsandbillionsMan
over a year ago

Gwent

This is what i think...

Men get cold feet asking a lady out in real life, for fear of rejection but on this site we all know why we are here and its more "direct" with a no strings situation more or less guaranteed ( most of the time ) plus its done via email or chat room so makes a no more bearable... An i believe this to be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I for one wouldn't mind meeting you on here or out and about. I prefer some curves to a woman. I think the main reason why people don't approach you when your out and about is there are few people around who are confident enough to stand out from the crowd and admit they like different to the norm especially when its likely their mates judging them.

Do you wait to approach or are you prepared to approach too?

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By *asmin999jmTV/TS
over a year ago

wakefield

I have the same problem lol. - but seriously - you do look very attractive - I tried to contact you just to say that but I am blocked xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

How many men in "real life situations" do you tell that you're a no holes bared bareback lover?

Cause if you start using that as your opening line in real life odds are more will try it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

Men on here message you cause your on a swingers site and after your fanny simples,,,,, they want to shag you,. There,s many women on here Id play with but would never want them as a girlfriend its sex nothing more sad be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that.

How many men in "real life situations" do you tell that you're a no holes bared bareback lover?

Cause if you start using that as your opening line in real life odds are more will try it on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also agree with _illionsandbillions. Much easier to ask someone online than in person

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By *illionsandbillionsMan
over a year ago

Gwent

"I also agree with _illionsandbillions. Much easier to ask someone online than in person"

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such "

in real life men are unsure if sex is what you are looking for and NSA on here

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

lol "

I am kinda the same, but in reverse

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that.

I think that's what some "women" miss. It really doesn't matter how slim, toned, sexy, attractive etc they are. By virtue of being on this site "some" men wouldn't be seen dead with them let alone date them.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

I would imagine alot of us get more attention on her. Know I do...but then I'm not actively looking or encouraging it in normal life.

Of course there are some who will flatter and tell you what they think you want to here in the hope of getting their leg over. Same happens in the real world and they are not difficult to spot or suss out.

However how do you know some of them wouldn't look at you twice or approach you while out normally. You say you dont get much attention in normal circumstances,some people are nervous of getting told to buggar off or are unsure if there is partner lurking nearby. Doesn't mean they haven't noticed you...

I see plenty of curvier women getting male attention. Not sure how you can say they never get chatted up on nights out or while out shopping etc. Otherwise how have some of us got boyfriends/husbands.

Have a bit more confidence in yourself!

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

Scotland & London

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

It's odd indeed but putting things in perspective its a swingers site and the barriers are alledgedly down and is open fun hence the different approach and mentality you should be here for different reasons than normal dating you can't have your cake and eat it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that.

Yeah I kinda get it now after all the responses it just always seemed weird to me. I'm here for much different reasons than normal dating. I was just confused how no one wanted to fuck me outside of here. But I kinda get that they don't know it's being offered. I'd never thought of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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How many men in "real life situations" do you tell that you're a no holes bared bareback lover?

Cause if you start using that as your opening line in real life odds are more will try it on"

I had a theory... but then saw this and it all became clear!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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How many men in "real life situations" do you tell that you're a no holes bared bareback lover?

Cause if you start using that as your opening line in real life odds are more will try it on

I had a theory... but then saw this and it all became clear!!!!"

Meeeooowwww

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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How many men in "real life situations" do you tell that you're a no holes bared bareback lover?

Cause if you start using that as your opening line in real life odds are more will try it on

I had a theory... but then saw this and it all became clear!!!!"

Do tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

Because you are a single woman

You are pretty

You have naked pics

You are on an nsa sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that.

Because you are a single woman

You are pretty

You have naked pics

You are on an nsa sex site

Oh and you want to be filled with cum which seems to be a major fantasy for a huge amount of guys here

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have no problems pulling in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you have a vagina... that's that answered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...

How many men in "real life situations" do you tell that you're a no holes bared bareback lover?

Cause if you start using that as your opening line in real life odds are more will try it on

I had a theory... but then saw this and it all became clear!!!!

Do tell. "

Apologies OP if my post sounded bitchy as it honestly wasn't meant that way.

My theory is the same as others have said- the internet is faceless and people can be more confident that maybe wouldn't dare speak to you in real life. You are very pretty.

Also it is possible that some guys that love cuddlier women are more confident to mail on here. I have guy friends that love cuddly women but won't date them because their mates take the piss. Sad but true.

However... the fact that your profile states certain facts as per the above post- surely you can see that this would get a lot of men interested?

It reminds me of Mrs Merton saying to Debbie McGee, "what do you like about the Millionnaire Paul Daniels"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you have a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...

How many men in "real life situations" do you tell that you're a no holes bared bareback lover?

Cause if you start using that as your opening line in real life odds are more will try it on

I had a theory... but then saw this and it all became clear!!!!

Do tell.

Apologies OP if my post sounded bitchy as it honestly wasn't meant that way.

My theory is the same as others have said- the internet is faceless and people can be more confident that maybe wouldn't dare speak to you in real life. You are very pretty.

However... the fact that your profile states certain facts as per the above post- surely you can see that this would get a lot of men interested?

It reminds me of Mrs Merton saying to Debbie McGee, "what do you like about the Millionnaire Paul Daniels"...."

Yer this forum are full of internet tough guys/girls, hard as nails on the other side of a computer see them in a club and they shit themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by your pics you look like a lovely woman who would be bags of fun. So I can only think that maybe...in real life...you're just not projecting who you really are behind the mask we all wear out in the 'normal' world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Judging by your pics you look like a lovely woman who would be bags of fun. So I can only think that maybe...in real life...you're just not projecting who you really are behind the mask we all wear out in the 'normal' world

By projecting who you really are they mean " you don't seem up for it"

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By *eeper01Man
over a year ago

weston super mare

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By projecting who you really are they mean " you don't seem up for it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest op . It is a lot easier for a guy to chat to you on here . Knowing you are on a sex site and are looking to meet guys then it would be to come up too you on a night out and chat you up . "

this. I'm a big girl and I'll get chatted up on a night out, but as I'm not looking for anything more than nsa at the moment I find this site is better for meetings as I don't need to explain myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks "

Big girls need love too

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By *entbriMan
over a year ago

medway

I think us men are braver behind a computer screen lol

In real life a blokes opening line is not hi I've seen your pics how about a shag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Crikey!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh my days!!! Who knew ones size determined whether they were a slag or not!

Blimey, there's some shit written on these forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

This wins my 'fucktard of the day's quote hands down

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

What the fuck are you one about man? Jesus Christ, sometimes, some peoples thoughts and attitude's astound me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And one more poor soul falls foul of the block lists :p

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reading your profile, to enable me to form a scientific opinion only

I would say its a combination of your pictures and your words. I'm sure you neither shout in the street that you want men to cum on your face and that your in need of cock and you dont dress out as you do in your profile. I'm afraid your profile probably generates a lot of comments from the 'fancy a fuck' brigade.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"I'm not on about dating tbh.

What I'm saying is. Why do men want to fuck me on here when in real life the same man wouldn't look twice.

Not on about dating and relationships as such

Have you asked these real life guys of they'd like a no strings night of sex though? Do you walk around with a tshirt on advertising the fact that your looking for NSA?

Bullseye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat and attract attention in real life, I just happen to shit myself if they try to get my attention.

That in turn makes me come across as aloof and unapproachable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucking love the forums!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"reading your profile, to enable me to form a scientific opinion only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I fucking love the forums!!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

I fucking love bollocks.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fucking love the forums!!!

Ohh me too

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

And fucking by all accounts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

I fucking love bollocks.....

Choke on mine

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

I fucking love bollocks.....

Choke on mine

If I need would you date me?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

I fucking love bollocks.....

Choke on mine

If I need would you date me?

Did not need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fat and attract attention in real life, I just happen to shit myself if they try to get my attention.

That in turn makes me come across as aloof and unapproachable. "

To be fair it probbaly makes you more smelly than aloof :p

Although the scatological fans may be very happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

I fucking love bollocks.....

Choke on mine

If I need would you date me?

Did not need

Was thinking more of a way to shut you up lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

I fucking love bollocks.....

Choke on mine

If I need would you date me?

Did not need

Was thinking more of a way to shut you up lol "

Charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

I fucking love bollocks.....

Choke on mine

If I need would you date me?

Did not need

Was thinking more of a way to shut you up lol

Charming

Doubt it would work

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

I fucking love bollocks.....

Choke on mine

If I need would you date me?

Did not need

Was thinking more of a way to shut you up lol

Charming

Doubt it would work

Nah it wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

I fucking love bollocks.....

Choke on mine

If I need would you date me?

Did not need

Was thinking more of a way to shut you up lol

Charming

Doubt it would work

Nah it wouldn't

Not that me balls are too small its just your mouth sooo big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Do you know what a slag is?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

I fucking love bollocks.....

Choke on mine

If I need would you date me?

Did not need

Was thinking more of a way to shut you up lol

Charming

Doubt it would work

Nah it wouldn't

Not that me balls are too small its just your mouth sooo big

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are guys in the real world supposed to know what you're into exactly. Maybe they don't approach you because approaching people is hard for them not because they don't find you attractive

Men on here know exactly why you're here, therefore making it easier to strike up a convocation based in mutual interests

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

There are no words..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Do you know what a slag is?

It's the irritating little shit that always ends up in the most important part of your casting.

Remember folks scrape your slag for best results!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

Because they know you're 'up for it' I suspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat and unattractive. I wouldn't complain about attention if I was attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you actually check the girls pics, profile and veris, shes about as good as it gets in my honest opinion. Shame so far away lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bbw and I've never been approached by a guy, chatted up, had a drink bought etc

On here people are full of compliments about how I look - it's a site designed to bring people together for a purpose; honey dipped compliments are standard and par for the course I'm afraid.

Redx

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I find the OP very attractive and would happily see her if matched her requirements, age being my main failing, (being ugly probably wouldn't help either). Her figure is what I would call perfect for her height, her looks are gorgeous and her ideas of fun are fantastic.

If I was suitable I would mail her on here, would I approach her in a bar or club that's quite unlikely. it's been a couple of years since I asked someone out in the real world and the last person I did that was an ex girlfriend who I'd originally met on a regular dating site.

This site and others have made it easier to approach people you're attracted to with no worry about public rejection. On here the worst that can happen is a message back saying "Fuck off you're far too ugly for such a beauty as me, I'm blocking you now.' Whereas if you're out with friends they all know what's happened, I'll do it at fab socials because I know that the people there are of a pretty similar frame of mind. By using this site I've managed to meet quite a lot good looking women who have been into the same sort of fun as me either one and one or group. I can't see me going up to a woman in a pub and saying, "Fancy me for NSA sex, maybe leading to up to us becoming regular fuck buddies and who knows, maybe the odd gang bang?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I think you need to not take yourself too seriously. I get messages full of compliments from people who I know wouldn't look at me twice in a bar or nightclub because I don't fit the mould.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"On here I think you need to not take yourself too seriously. I get messages full of compliments from people who I know wouldn't look at me twice in a bar or nightclub because I don't fit the mould. "

Again my idea of the perfect figure, I guess I just like curvy

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I`m a big lady and I don't question men`s motives, I`m not here for a relationship so if someone likes me and I like them then we arrange to meet.

I would never stop to wonder whether they would take the time to "pull me" in the real world because quite frankly I`m not interested in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

I've always thought men like that only say they like bbws because they think they have low self esteem/confidence means they're an easy shag and it's the only shag a man thinks he can get.

Ignore people who have no interest. You're beautiful and if I was that way inclined I'd meet you

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

im very happy to have a larger lady on my arm in vanilla world .. im not sizeist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I`m a big lady and I don't question men`s motives, I`m not here for a relationship so if someone likes me and I like them then we arrange to meet.

I would never stop to wonder whether they would take the time to "pull me" in the real world because quite frankly I`m not interested in that

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Do you know what a slag is?

"
depends what kind of slag ....pit heap variety or my variety......though im a very faithful slag .....bit of an oxymoron there but hey ho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Just when you think you've seen it all........

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Just when you think you've seen it all........

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"you have a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shels a big girl but she gets lots of attention in the real world too, she just flashes her sexy smile. She is the first larger lady I had been with but I couldn't resist her

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

It's just a fact of the site, I think it's similar for most women on here, I get mail off guys telling me how amazing Iam yet I have no face pics on here so I could be a right munter!

Yours lovingly a 'more slaggy' girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

The first line on your profile answers your question perfectly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I`m a big lady and I don't question men`s motives, I`m not here for a relationship so if someone likes me and I like them then we arrange to meet.

I would never stop to wonder whether they would take the time to "pull me" in the real world because quite frankly I`m not interested in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as said earlier don't think you have bumped into the right men..I certainly wouldn't say your not usually the type I go for...you are a very sexy attractive woman who seems to know what she's about and wants...I. sure you will find that perfect guy and how lucky he will be...have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

So would you happily date every man you have shagged from this site? I know I wouldn't so why would I expect any different from them? On here I look for fun or to fulfill a fantasy, on a night out I'm looking to have a laugh with friends not a d*unken fumble.

One of my fbs is a man I have amazing sex with but we haven't got much real life stuff in common so a relationship would never work out. On the other hand I have meet some gorgeous guys but we weren't sexually as compatible so again I wouldn't consider anything in real life with them. That wouldn't change if I was 8 stone lighter... You're the one putting it down your dress size, not necessarily all the guys you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I have seen over my time here, on the outside world, they don't want to be seen with a large lady and get laughed at even though that is their preference

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"It's just a fact of the site, I think it's similar for most women on here, I get mail off guys telling me how amazing Iam yet I have no face pics on here so I could be a right munter!

Yours lovingly a 'more slaggy' girl

Actually ignore this post I hadn't read your profile. Your profile is the reason

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

Don't fool yourself, you get looked at twice,

but guys are insecure and are sacred of public rejection, its the fear of failure that causes so much of this angst.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Absolutely agree! They think us larger women are gagging for a shag! Yet they don't want a relationship with us they want the perfect model woman on their arm! Makes me mad

i would prefer to be in a relationship with a larger girl i think they are sexyer and usually not as much of a slag as thin girls can be just my personal preference

Oh dear god...I've read it all now what a load of fucking bollocks

Big girls need love too

That is bollocks too human beings need love

You like your bollocks girl

I fucking love bollocks.....

"
ahh bollock fest!!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"From what I have seen over my time here, on the outside world, they don't want to be seen with a large lady and get laughed at even though that is their preference"
oh can't say I have ever experienced that...

even at my very biggest I was beating em off with sharp sticks in the 'real' world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sex site so men looking for sex come here and message you asking. Bit like if you wanted to buy a car you'd look on a car website, not go round asking people if they are selling their car today

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Just laugh all the way to the bed.....!!

I would not consider the guys I meet here relationship material anyway, I would not want a date with most - that's a whole different ballgame, a much tougher nut to crack!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From what I have seen over my time here, on the outside world, they don't want to be seen with a large lady and get laughed at even though that is their preference oh can't say I have ever experienced that...

even at my very biggest I was beating em off with sharp sticks in the 'real' world!

Guess you are one of the lucky ones but I was just repeating a comment that was made on here

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By *ent_LifeMan
over a year ago

East Malling

Point black biscotti22 you are absolutely stunningly gorgeous. And would love to spend time with you in a heartbeat. And a very lucky guy should be lucky to have that chance.

People don't approach people as often in person because when you have a metaphorical mask to hide behind such as a computer screen or an alias you have more confidence / are able to say things without fear of sticking consequences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

Personally I find you really attractive and would date you if we got on well enough in personal terms. I dated a girl who was a larger lady, had no shame. You want that woman, be proud of her and walk round with her and treat her the way she deserves. I've seen lads stop holding hands with their girlfriends to get a better chance at girls in public. Really annoys me! Anyways if I ever see you on a night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a really beautiful girl. I think men in real life will be intimidated by your beauty and will be too scared to approach you. As for your size, dont think any1 can really tell what your size is. Not that it matters, cos to me its all about the face. And u have a really beautiful face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your a really beautiful girl. I think men in real life will be intimidated by your beauty and will be too scared to approach you. As for your size, dont think any1 can really tell what your size is. Not that it matters, cos to me its all about the face. And u have a really beautiful face

Would you like a tissue?

You've got a little something on your nose there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd certainly pay attention to you if I saw you outside of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

basically because some men will shag anything that moves and they will say to you what they feel will best help them get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that.

basically because some men will shag anything that moves and they will say to you what they feel will best help them get it "

Bingo we have a winner!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to get more interest outside fabs, but I love the social side of this much better.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you like a tissue?

You've got a little something on your nose there."

as i said above......

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By *moSexGeeksCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

That's because you are attractive.

I really have no idea why people wouldn't take interest in real life.

Simply the reason women get alot of attention is simply because men can hit on girls when they are behind a screen. However in your case I think it's your good looks

It's a real shame you blocked couples, would have loved a chat about your fantasies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is attractive. I would try and chat you up if i run into you on the street. You should be confident you are cute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do love the "angle" on a look at me thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do love the "angle" on a look at me thread

Hardly a look at me thread. I was asking a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you say so

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you say so

I get plenty of looks on here without having to resort to that thank you very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a tshirt printed saying I want fucked I like anal and I do bareback and I like married men I'm sure a couple of men will chat you up.

Sorry to say most people are on here for sex and your profile ticks a lot of boxes and yes many men wouldn't pick up the bigger girl when out with his pals watching they really want the hotty with the fit body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a tshirt printed saying I want fucked I like anal and I do bareback and I like married men I'm sure a couple of men will chat you up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

Try to have more confidence in yourself.

Ignore the negative comments here and remember looks are not everything!

That said you are a pretty girl but please don't overthink it.

Relax and enjoy life. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bigger women and I'm not shy to be out with a bigger girl nothing better the me than stuffing a big bird lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs and the real world (for lack of of a better term) are different and separate. There's a level of confidence that people have here that that they may not have normal. You're more open here than you are normally as well. If you can't acknowledge the difference then you'll only upset or frustrate yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

your pretty with big titts and a nice figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a shag site. People shag people they wouldn't go out with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little question.

Why do men find me so attractive on this website and harrass me for meets 24/7, when in 'real life' situations men don't even acknowledge my existence?

Is it because if they meet me on here they don't have to be seen out in public with a curvier lass?

The amount of men on here that prefer bbw etc. yet you never see anyone pulling those types on a night out.

What the shit is up with that. "

A lot of guys worry about their own image, and being seen with a stereotypical 'gorgeous' girl all goes to massage their precious,misguided egos. When one realises that content is more important than image, they become less desirable. Those of us who have known this all along have always looked past size and more at character.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a shag site. People shag people they wouldn't go out with "

I'm not on about going out with people. I'm on about being found attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're attractive, and You know that... women and their games

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"This is a shag site. People shag people they wouldn't go out with

I'm not on about going out with people. I'm on about being found attractive "

I wouldn't shag anyone I wouldn't be seen in public with !

The Op is a pretty lady !

(Before anyone accuses me of wanting to shag her; I am far too old for her; but it doesn't mean I cant appreciate she is a pretty lady).

as for other people on here; loads are all talk no action; and some will say anything to get a shag ... (or am I being cynical ?).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're attractive, and You know that... women and their games

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