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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im always prepared, as can never rely on a guy to have any condoms lately...

Surely its better to both have them?

Discuss....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get cheesed off by blokes who do not bother to bring condoms. I mean, how am I supposed to know what 'fits' them? I have the one's I like and they will just have to lump it

Are they assuming that they will not need them I wonder?

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Surely there shouldn't be much to discuss. As a man I would always take some but sadly I can't remember ever had anyone turn up with their own ever now as a single man or previously when swinging as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have but would be annoyed if the guy didn't have !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shows a lack of respect on the blokes part to me. Better to be prepared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It shows a lack of respect on the blokes part to me. Better to be prepared. "

I totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to take some marigolds just to make sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At least mine are in date .. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It shows a lack of respect on the blokes part to me. Better to be prepared.

I totally agree."

Totally!!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Q: do you have condoms?

A: errrrm no thought you'd have some

Good bye!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have condoms in the car in my shagbag so I don't forget them. Safer sex is Everyones responsibility but as I'm often the person invited, I bring the wine and condoms

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By *eaven and Hell 69Couple
over a year ago

HULL

All we say is NO CONDOMS NO SEX and we stick to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am relaxed about it, sometimes I got condoms or her, pull out before cum, is my fav

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just have one on constantly and chNge it every month

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By *bridge manMan
over a year ago

lanarkshire

i always carry an empty crisp packet with me..but sadly its never a maxi bag.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London


"Q: do you have condoms?

A: errrrm no thought you'd have some

Good bye! "

I totally agree with your stance.

Would a cowboy ride his horse without his saddle. Answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would anyone want to risk there or others life by not wearing one

just shows laziness and a lack of respect, and yes it is the guys responsibility to ensure he take some along that are in date

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Kind've spells something out in most instances when the 'oh i have no condoms' card is played.

Always makes me laugh in moresome situations with cpls. a guy trys that one then gets told to leave or directed the 24hr garage around the corner

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

So many guys ask me if i have condoms...although i always do,it pisses me off...excuses such as 'the misses will find out! havent got my wallet..

Total reliance on somebody else..

I blame the mothers..!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am relaxed about it, sometimes I got condoms or her, pull out before cum, is my fav "

totally missing the point of safe..

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I always prefer to have some, I know they'll fit me properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have some with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have condoms in the car in my shagbag so I don't forget them. Safer sex is Everyones responsibility but as I'm often the person invited, I bring the wine and condoms "

haha shagbag...i call mine my naughty bag of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bollocks to them if they ain't got any no play simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a choice of latex free ones as I have an allergy to latex. I still think it shows respect for the man to have some

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

Condoms? I get mine FREE!

Just ask for some every time you get tested at the clinic!

( you do get yourself tested, don't you? )

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By *ornyforcesMan
over a year ago

elgin

I would suggest to all you women out there if a guy does not bring any with him to end the meet. It's the only way they are going to learn.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I would suggest to all you women out there if a guy does not bring any with him to end the meet. It's the only way they are going to learn."

yep! But do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condoms? I get mine FREE!

Just ask for some every time you get tested at the clinic!

( you do get yourself tested, don't you? ) "

They gave me 6 I mean 6 that got me far....not pfft

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"Q: do you have condoms?

A: errrrm no thought you'd have some

Good bye! "

we have done this if we can get them so can others

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

I've noticed that a lot of guys don't seem to carry them anymore and expect me to provide them. Either that or expect bareback and that's never going to happen. Times are Definitley changing!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It may be a number of 'single' guys don't habitually carry them in case 'her indoors' discovers them and asks awkward questions.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

its very rare a bloke bngs some but I always make sure I have loads of various sizes

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands


"It may be a number of 'single' guys don't habitually carry them in case 'her indoors' discovers them and asks awkward questions."

This. Especially if they're not prepared to spend out on a pack of 15s instead of a pack of 3s.

If a guy turns up without condoms, it suggests he's up for bareback if he's lucky. No condoms, no se sex.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

did have a bloke once turn up with a dozen and asked me if I thought it was enough!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condoms? I get mine FREE!

Just ask for some every time you get tested at the clinic!

( you do get yourself tested, don't you? )

They gave me 6 I mean 6 that got me far....not pfft "

My gp nurse gave me a bag of condoms. must be about 20 in there and some flavoured ones and lube packets. I still have all of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never carry them purely cus chances of me havibg sex are 1000000000/1!! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condoms? I get mine FREE!

Just ask for some every time you get tested at the clinic!

( you do get yourself tested, don't you? )

They gave me 6 I mean 6 that got me far....not pfft

My gp nurse gave me a bag of condoms. must be about 20 in there and some flavoured ones and lube packets. I still have all of them "

They asked if I wanted any I said yes please and that's what they gave me I've um used them and brought more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condoms? I get mine FREE!

Just ask for some every time you get tested at the clinic!

( you do get yourself tested, don't you? )

They gave me 6 I mean 6 that got me far....not pfft

My gp nurse gave me a bag of condoms. must be about 20 in there and some flavoured ones and lube packets. I still have all of them

They asked if I wanted any I said yes please and that's what they gave me I've um used them and brought more "

I think the practice nurse was generous to me but a bit ambitious. Im not going to use them. Id give them to you but think the royal mail might pinch the parcel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condoms? I get mine FREE!

Just ask for some every time you get tested at the clinic!

( you do get yourself tested, don't you? )

They gave me 6 I mean 6 that got me far....not pfft

My gp nurse gave me a bag of condoms. must be about 20 in there and some flavoured ones and lube packets. I still have all of them

They asked if I wanted any I said yes please and that's what they gave me I've um used them and brought more

I think the practice nurse was generous to me but a bit ambitious. Im not going to use them. Id give them to you but think the royal mail might pinch the parcel x"

Aww bless ya ....you will get to use them xx

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I have my own too. I know the nurses in the clinic so they sometimes give me 2 bags......lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condoms? I get mine FREE!

Just ask for some every time you get tested at the clinic!

( you do get yourself tested, don't you? )

They gave me 6 I mean 6 that got me far....not pfft

My gp nurse gave me a bag of condoms. must be about 20 in there and some flavoured ones and lube packets. I still have all of them

They asked if I wanted any I said yes please and that's what they gave me I've um used them and brought more

I think the practice nurse was generous to me but a bit ambitious. Im not going to use them. Id give them to you but think the royal mail might pinch the parcel x

Aww bless ya ....you will get to use them xx"

Maybe in two weeks. But do i have to wait that long

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

Walk in centre in Derby has little gift wrapped packs of about 8 plus lube and including flavours. They are all in a big box in reception and you can help yourself. I never run out and would always take some with me it's just good manners. I think all the women I've met have also had their own too. Shows we're on the same page.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I get free non latex pasante ones from the GUM clinic and I buy my own regular and large mates skyns non latex too. I carry them in various bags and my club shag bag, so I'm never without.

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By *ingersnthumbsMan
over a year ago

London

I always double bag in case hers falls off! "Goggles eyes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's fair to turn someone away because they didn't bring condoms. What if they genuinely forget? I forget stuff all the time.

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By *ingersnthumbsMan
over a year ago

London


"I don't think it's fair to turn someone away because they didn't bring condoms. What if they genuinely forget? I forget stuff all the time. "

Sorry what was we talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That reminds me. I need to buy some. Went through a whole box last time. Haven't met up with anyone since then.

...a trip to Boots booked.

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By *ecca9269Woman
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Always pop a couple down my bra, that way if he hasn't come prepared he's going to come across them at some point and take the hint

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

I always take my lucky condom which I was and re use fir every meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take about a dozen with me. It'd help if more men were prepared, but I do take my own. If what I have doesn't fit, and he doesn't provide ones that do, the meet will stop. Only once have I been tempted to take a guy bare and I didn't give into temptation. It's just not worth my health.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We always carry condoms but if a guy dont have them, we never meet them again.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We always carry condoms but if a guy dont have them, we never meet them again.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

We always have our own anyway (we know our's are in date and haven't been tampered with) but unless it was pre-agreed that we would supply them, it's off-putting when ANYONE turns up without them.

Trying their luck? Genuinely forgot? Expecting everything to be supplied for them or just straight up not thinking, all would kill the mood for us a little bit.

And if our's aren't suitable for them and they won't go out and buy them, obviously they're going to be shown the door. x

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Q: do you have condoms?

A: errrrm no thought you'd have some

Good bye! "

+1

I will always have them... but it's bye bye if they don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make a point of saying, please bring protection. If they "forget", they will have to use one of mine! It's that simple.

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By *edonistic needsWoman
over a year ago

sexton


"Condoms? I get mine FREE!

Just ask for some every time you get tested at the clinic!

( you do get yourself tested, don't you? )

They gave me 6 I mean 6 that got me far....not pfft "

OMG !! That s pathetic!! i get 2 bags of them each time so 24 tho did get told to go each time i change partners lol ill cya next week then lol

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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk/Norfolk border

We went to Chams & went to a room, the guy then said he couldn't get condoms to fit him as he was too big - rubbish!! So he was expecting to bareback!! We opened the door & let him out.

Went to the clinic in Great Yarmouth, very unfriendly, have separate waiting rooms for men & women, had to go to the men's waiting room as I was with my partner. Wasn't made to feel that it was a good thing I was getting checked, & they didn't say I should get check regularly because of my lifestyle!!! Very bad.

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