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"as bisexual myself how could i have any problem anyone else being bisexual ?" | |||
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"I don't have an issue with a man being bi - the fantasy I have failed to fulfill is me and two bi men. The only issue is the usual one - it depends on the man and if they appeal to me and me to them. " in total agreement with all of this | |||
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"Maybe I'm a hypocrite then - bi guys do nothing for me - 2 men playing together wouldn't turn me on. I've watched it in the past, and to be honest, it left me disinterested (and never played with either) I don't play with bi men for many reasons, and I do ask and check." I don't think you're a hypocrite. You like what and who you like. No need to justify anything to anyone. Saying bi men and bi women are the same thing is ridiculous. It's the same as saying a straight woman should like women... because straight men and straight women are the same...! | |||
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"Had a single fem message me back once saying she don't meet bi guys as she has a teenage son. I'm bi not a rapist. Some people eh?" | |||
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"I don't choose to meet bi guys....can't really say why, there isn't a specific reason. I think it might be because in my head they would be constantly comparing me to a guy or something like that. I'd never do a mmf either with bi guys as I'm greedy & like all the attention on me, I don't want to be sat in the corner with a book whilst they are enjoying each other." I can promise you that's never happened anywhere that I've been playing | |||
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"Had a single fem message me back once saying she don't meet bi guys as she has a teenage son. I'm bi not a rapist. Some people eh?" What you don't want to 'convert' every teenage boy you meet, how strange | |||
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"I personally love them, my partner is bi and I find the idea of him with another guy a huge turn on " Exactly this for me! Her x | |||
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"Maybe I'm a hypocrite then - bi guys do nothing for me - 2 men playing together wouldn't turn me on. I've watched it in the past, and to be honest, it left me disinterested (and never played with either) I don't play with bi men for many reasons, and I do ask and check." Same here. There are numerous previous posts that asked the same question. | |||
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"I _ove bi guys. I find two guys together very horny and generally enjoy people who have a wide sense of sexual adventure and like to push boundaries! Red " love it love it love mrs crazy | |||
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"_ove bi guys they make a mmf so much more fun " Oh yes they certainly do | |||
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"Maybe I'm a hypocrite then - bi guys do nothing for me - 2 men playing together wouldn't turn me on. I've watched it in the past, and to be honest, it left me disinterested (and never played with either) I don't play with bi men for many reasons, and I do ask and check." same 2 guys does nothing for me Auds | |||
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"I _ove bi guys. What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf. " Why not? I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing | |||
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"I _ove bi guys. What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf. Why not? I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing " Call yourself what you like.... I get rather aroused to be dominated like you describe | |||
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"I'm not sure there are very many straight men at all on here " | |||
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"I _ove bi guys. What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf. Why not? I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing " Every now and then you read something that raises your temperature a little and sets your heart racing | |||
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"I _ove bi guys. What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf. Why not? I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing Every now and then you read something that raises your temperature a little and sets your heart racing " That's what I thought. I was imagining I was right there | |||
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"I _ove bi guys. What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf. Why not? I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing " They don't like liars or those not comfortable with their own sexuality perhap?!! | |||
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"I _ove bi guys. What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf. Why not? I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing They don't like liars or those not comfortable with their own sexuality perhap?!!" I'm neither lying nor uncomfortable with my sexuality. And with regards to those who put straight, it's understandable. This site is hard for single guys and many don't want to put off single women. And most who look for bi guys are happy I think to meet a guy that says straight on the profile, as long as they explain to them that they are happy with guys. I don't see a problem and I completely understand why guys will do that. Each to their own but in my view calling a guy a "liar" because he isn't open about is sexuality is like calling a gay guy - who is comfortable with himself - a liar simply cos he feels his life is easier whilst he hasn't come out. | |||
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"I _ove bi guys. What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf. Why not? I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing They don't like liars or those not comfortable with their own sexuality perhap?!! I'm neither lying nor uncomfortable with my sexuality. And with regards to those who put straight, it's understandable. This site is hard for single guys and many don't want to put off single women. And most who look for bi guys are happy I think to meet a guy that says straight on the profile, as long as they explain to them that they are happy with guys. I don't see a problem and I completely understand why guys will do that. Each to their own but in my view calling a guy a "liar" because he isn't open about is sexuality is like calling a gay guy - who is comfortable with himself - a liar simply cos he feels his life is easier whilst he hasn't come out." Note the question mark. You asked "why not?" hence my suggestions as to why: it was a general comment not personal, you've chosen to make it so. If a person finds themselves on an adult site seeking hedonistic pleasure and unable to actually state what they want among fellow deviants then I think they are lying to themselves and uncomfortable with their sexuality. NONE of us will ever have universal appeal so why people don't "market" themselves to find what they want instead of trying to be all things to all men is something that puzzles me: but hey ho, it's all good! | |||
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"I _ove bi guys. What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf. Why not? I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing They don't like liars or those not comfortable with their own sexuality perhap?!! I'm neither lying nor uncomfortable with my sexuality. And with regards to those who put straight, it's understandable. This site is hard for single guys and many don't want to put off single women. And most who look for bi guys are happy I think to meet a guy that says straight on the profile, as long as they explain to them that they are happy with guys. I don't see a problem and I completely understand why guys will do that. Each to their own but in my view calling a guy a "liar" because he isn't open about is sexuality is like calling a gay guy - who is comfortable with himself - a liar simply cos he feels his life is easier whilst he hasn't come out. Note the question mark. You asked "why not?" hence my suggestions as to why: it was a general comment not personal, you've chosen to make it so. If a person finds themselves on an adult site seeking hedonistic pleasure and unable to actually state what they want among fellow deviants then I think they are lying to themselves and uncomfortable with their sexuality. NONE of us will ever have universal appeal so why people don't "market" themselves to find what they want instead of trying to be all things to all men is something that puzzles me: but hey ho, it's all good!" The why not was rhetorical, but that doesn't come across lol I don't say you don't have a valid point of view, it's just that I see it differently. I don't think it means they are uncomfortable with it, simple fact is it will put some women off so they hedge bets. Your opinion is as equally valid and true as mine | |||
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"I _ove bi guys. What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf. Why not? I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing " you like bi guys ...but your straight..... | |||
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"I _ove bi guys. What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf. Why not? I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing you like bi guys ...but your straight..... " | |||
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three. If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi? " no....it makes you bi...a straight guy has no interest in the same sex....getting really silly this now...... | |||
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three. If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi? no....it makes you bi...a straight guy has no interest in the same sex....getting really silly this now......" | |||
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"What do you reckon the word straight actually means?" I call myself straight because I don't want to attract gay and bi women. I'm a little bit wibbly though because a couple of times I've dared to touch a woman,just for the hell of it. When I go to lunch with her I don't fantasise about her sexually | |||
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three. If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi? " I'd say so. If you're not looking for guys no need to put bi. | |||
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"As a bi guy, I often find that girls have a reaction to that fact which I don't always understand. I never feel comfortable to ask but I'd like to understand even if it won't change their reactions. I know people's opinion vary, but it'll be good to hear anyone's honest opinion." No problem with them at all, at all! | |||
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three. If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi? no....it makes you bi...a straight guy has no interest in the same sex....getting really silly this now......" Well occasionally I tinker with cars, but I'm not a mechanic! | |||
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"Yep. I would have no issues saying otherwise at all. I'm straight. I consider that to be bi I need to have some sort of physical attraction. I don't have one for men. I find nothing sexual about the way they look. I find the circumstances and situations sexual. There's a very big difference " the only difference is in YOUR head....your in denial.. | |||
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"Yep. I would have no issues saying otherwise at all. I'm straight. I consider that to be bi I need to have some sort of physical attraction. I don't have one for men. I find nothing sexual about the way they look. I find the circumstances and situations sexual. There's a very big difference " | |||
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three. If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi? no....it makes you bi...a straight guy has no interest in the same sex....getting really silly this now......" Yeah, it's getting really silly that people insist that sexuality is so black and white. It's a spectrum. It's not a choice of three rigid boundaries. | |||
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse " Even though it could have been up a woman's arse too | |||
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse Even though it could have been up a woman's arse too " It's daft how many people think anal only happens between men! And not all gay men even practice anal sex. | |||
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse Even though it could have been up a woman's arse too It's daft how many people think anal only happens between men! And not all gay men even practice anal sex. " Women take facefuls of semen which can infect through the eyes during gang bangs and bukkake events. Noone knows how careful anyone is during sex | |||
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse " All though I have fucked plenty of TGirls I tend to be more into having my cock sucked. TGirls are normally so good at cock sucking | |||
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse Even though it could have been up a woman's arse too It's daft how many people think anal only happens between men! And not all gay men even practice anal sex. Women take facefuls of semen which can infect through the eyes during gang bangs and bukkake events. Noone knows how careful anyone is during sex " | |||
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse Even though it could have been up a woman's arse too " My question exactly.. So are you saying it's ok to have been up a women's arse (that has probably been seen to a lot more) than a guys arse??? | |||
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three. If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi? no....it makes you bi...a straight guy has no interest in the same sex....getting really silly this now...... Yeah, it's getting really silly that people insist that sexuality is so black and white. It's a spectrum. It's not a choice of three rigid boundaries." it is...though not in your and many others heads...words have meanings for a reason...you can't just twist them to what you WANT them to mean...try googling 'Hetersexual'...i guarantee it will tell you everything you DON'T want to hear..... | |||
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