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Men sexually invisible after 39

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By *lovis OP   Man
over a year ago

Twickenham

Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right then time to start lieing on my profile then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40"

rubbish

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I had better tell Mr B to make the most of the next year or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well yes they are getting on a bit by then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 55 I still haven't lost my allure....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 29 and it's long gone for me. Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said that ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40"

Well this woman thinks that's bollocks.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"well yes they are getting on a bit by then."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's me fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubbish! Typical paper talk etc

Depends so much on the individual!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does someone want to tell George Clooney that he's past it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40"

Im screwed then im 49 :-/

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

And how many women did they talk to and of what age? Statistics! Not worth the screen they're typed on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like bullshit to me, check out pretty much any 'top hundred sexiest men in the world' list, and you'll likely find that more than half of the are guys of 40+.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40"

Haha, a 40 yr old a father figure for a lady like me?? Yea right! No, they just get out of the toyboy bracket when they turn 40!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"That's me fucked "

Or not, as the case may be.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40

Haha, a 40 yr old a father figure for a lady like me?? Yea right! No, they just get out of the toyboy bracket when they turn 40!

"
I am still a toyboy in my local care home

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

The probably become invisible to someone they could be of a fathers age too. As for invisible to anyone or everyone, bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utter balls. Although our age limit tops out at 40 been debating on moving it up for ages.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40

Haha, a 40 yr old a father figure for a lady like me?? Yea right! No, they just get out of the toyboy bracket when they turn 40!

I am still a toyboy in my local care home "

I've told you before, you'll get in trouble hanging round their tv lounge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like bullshit to me, check out pretty much any 'top hundred sexiest men in the world' list, and you'll likely find that more than half of the are guys of 40+."

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By *ountryboy4u2Man
over a year ago

southeast

Guess at almost 48 I'm out of luck

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Since I shag guys as well...

Do I see dead people?

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Men who are 40+ are aware of their health and sexual limitations but make up for it by being more adventurous and caring than the younger male's. Older guys don't suffer from performance anxiety either as they are more comfortable in the presence of others.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Hell no. With age comes experience and I for one do prefer a guy older than me and I'm 35

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

One way to check this...

Anyone fancy a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Utter balls. Although our age limit tops out at 40 been debating on moving it up for ages.

"

Stop debating your wasting valuable alluring time lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"One way to check this...

Anyone fancy a shag? "

Go on then

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"One way to check this...

Anyone fancy a shag?

Go on then "

And there's your scientific proof that this is ballocks

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sounds like the hair centre is simply trying to drum up some new business by praying on some guys insecurities...total bullshit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40"

A couple of points:

The survey was comissioned by a hair clinic, obviously trying to drum up some business from balding guys!

The 48% of women who did not agree is quite a large number!

Before anyone asks, I have a full head of hair....and it's all my own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The father figure at 39 reference makes me think that their market research was based on answers given by woman in their 20's!

For me it depends on the individual ~ I can find 40+ men just as sexy as someone in their 30's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The father figure at 39 reference makes me think that their market research was based on answers given by woman in their 20's!

For me it depends on the individual ~ I can find 40+ men just as sexy as someone in their 30's."

I'm inclined to agree with this....and also the point about 52% not exactly being a huge majority! I've just checked and about half the guys I've met have been over 39 so I must still find them sexually attractive

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40

A couple of points:

The survey was comissioned by a hair clinic, obviously trying to drum up some business from balding guys!

The 48% of women who did not agree is quite a large number!

Before anyone asks, I have a full head of hair....and it's all my own! "

This

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

And there is absolutely no fixed reference point . The survey data and method must be known to extrapolate any meaningful data or conclusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as well im 21 again, again, again, again, again, again, again, again, again, again, again, again, again, again, again, again, again......

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40

Well this woman thinks that's bollocks. "

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At what age do women loose it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40"

They told us Brasil would win the World Cup too, so I wouldn't believe all you read in the papers

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

hmmmm had a lot more and better sex since i turned 40 maybe because i am more comfortable in my body and self image

keith

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By *abybladeCouple
over a year ago

Bacup

Well I'm well and truly fucked at 55. Looks like I'll have to go to the nearest morgue.

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford

Rubbish. Just cover yourself in chocolate. What woman could possibly resist ?

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By *abybladeCouple
over a year ago

Bacup


"Well I'm well and truly fucked at 55. Looks like I'll have to go to the nearest morgue. "

With the missis of coarse. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I better get a move on,

Only 18 months before I disappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what age do women loose it? "

are we talking looks, sanity or underwear ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40

Well this woman thinks that's bollocks. "

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

ahem ... im still here .. dunno bout allure though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I don't know. I only want to hear from guys that are 45 and over!

Suppose it depends on the age of the woman they are looking for!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Sounds like the hair centre is simply trying to drum up some new business by praying on some guys insecurities...total bullshit!"

As obvious as the hair on their head...oooh...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

All that statistic means is that 48% of women do so that suits me.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"That's me fucked "

Or more accurately NOT!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great. That leaves me 8 years. =\

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven


"Sounds like the hair centre is simply trying to drum up some new business by praying on some guys insecurities...total bullshit!"

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

What a pile of pish!

If thats the case the upper half of my age range on here is a waste of me looking... (And for what its worth, thats the range most of my meets come from)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sexy 42 yr old lover is proof that's crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you become 'sexually invisible' does that mean the over forties man can stand and masturbate in ladies changing rooms?

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By *ingersnthumbsMan
over a year ago

London


"If you become 'sexually invisible' does that mean the over forties man can stand and masturbate in ladies changing rooms? "

Pmsfl bring it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

I think the report was in direct reflection to Fabs... on here the women & couple think your past it beyond 39... and unfortunately they have sooooo much to choose from... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not true the older guys I've met have been VERY visible and given lots of pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do men have 'the allure' ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Hair Clinic carried out a sex Survey..Well thats gonna work

Gimp

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

The Evening Standard & a hair clinic.....wow. Don't ya just love independent reporting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40

Well this woman thinks that's bollocks. "

So does this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40

Well this woman thinks that's bollocks.

So does this one "

And this one A 39 yr old man is a toy boy as far as I'm concerned, not a father figure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 52% of women questioned were at the time in MacDonalds on their third burger. The allure is probably lost when obesity takes over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually prefer older men, give me a man older than me any day

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40"

Would those women asked in the survey be young 20 somethings by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I must be the only one to agree as my dads 48 so i cringe at the thought of being with a man over 40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a crock. I prefer older guys. 45+ with some exceptions

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Sounds like bullshit to me, check out pretty much any 'top hundred sexiest men in the world' list, and you'll likely find that more than half of the are guys of 40+."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I must be the only one to agree as my dads 48 so i cringe at the thought of being with a man over 40."

That's because you're in your 20's, like I said earlier ~ so you see men of that age the same way as you see your dad, old lol...

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

I must need the lid screwed down at 62 lol

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

And me 6

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I have a theory why this may be bollocks.

Couples break up after their kids move out = More seasoned meat in market place = lots of shagging.

There's a million holes in this theory, but not letting the facts get in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like the hair centre is simply trying to drum up some new business by praying on some guys insecurities...total bullshit!"

Pretty much!

Lots of women, especially here, like older guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lady only looks for men in their forties to fifties ...... which to me = a toyboy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd still give Liam Neeson one and he's in his sixties.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Leaves those sexy post 40s for me to enjoy then....

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I read that too. I'm 57 very soon, feel 27 to be honest. Hardly get a look in one here, rejected 99% of the time, but love seeing what everybody else is up to!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only 30 and seem invisible on here . Get the violins out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40"

I take it you are panicking after reading it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight's London Evening Standard states a survey by 'The Crown Clinic ' (a hair centre) suggest men become sexy ally invisible to women after 39 as after that they become viewed as fathet figures

52% of the women surveyed said men start to lose their allure at 40

Well this woman thinks that's bollocks. "

I agree I have never had a problem. Anyway how can they tell that you have turned 40?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lower age limit is set at 39 plus for a very good reason...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will say anything to sell a product. How can a 40 year old man be seen as a father figure to a 40 year old woman. Or are they only concerned with young girls opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My lower age limit is set at 39 plus for a very good reason... "

I might have to grow a few inches in a couple of years to stand a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say that most people over 40 tend to give up on being sexually interesting to others. It's really only swingers, actors, musicians, etc who make an effort. In this sense I'd probably agree...most people over 40 out there (not on here) do not really give out sexy vibes. That doesn't mean they wouldn't be sexy if they didn't put in a bit of effort...just that they either can't be bothered (found their mate so why bother) or are just ignorant to how they're coming across.

I'm nearing 40 and somedays, when I'm dressed all dowdy I feel pretty darn invisible...other days, when I dress nicer, I get looks from all kind of ages. Ironically, however, nothing seems to turn Dorset women's heads more than a raincoat lol I guess I must just look that perfect blend of pathetic, in need of some loving attention, and yet sexy underneath all that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utter crap! I was older than that when I joined the site.....never made me invisible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh but nothing, absolutely nothing, compares to the sexual attraction of being a single male pushing a pram with a baby in. If I'd realised that earlier I would've borrowed one off a mate

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Utter crap! I was older than that when I joined the site.....never made me invisible!"

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Utter crap! I was older than that when I joined the site.....never made me invisible!

Who said that? "

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By *pock123Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

That's me fooked!

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