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do women like to watch themselves on video,even if they did not know they had been filmed

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By *yke-ite OP   Man
over a year ago

weymouth

Do women like to watch themselves on video. Even if it was filmed with out them knowing? Husband or boyfriend hid a camera.? Not to show anyone.

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By *iceduoCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

isnt that against the law?? id go nuts if a meet filmed me. jen xx

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If he hid a camera without me knowing, he'd not be a boyfriend for much longer.

Massive disregarding of boundaries. But with my knowledge, its fun to be filmed but not so keen on watching it back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To put it very bluntly and excuse my french xx

No they fucking don't!

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

I'd be horrified and hubby would be homeless ! lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm fine watching myself as long as I've agreed to it. Filming without permission is illegal and I probably would be going to the authorities, as thats incredibly creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even begin to fathom why you think they would like this. It is beyond me.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Simply answer.....No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone filmed me without my permission, the only thing they'd be filming after that would be their fecking colon!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can't even begin to fathom why you think they would like this. It is beyond me. "

I was wondering that myself!

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By *yke-ite OP   Man
over a year ago

weymouth

[Removed by poster at 07/07/14 16:44:16]

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"To put it very bluntly and excuse my french xx

No they fucking don't! "

Couldn't have put it in better French.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all.. Even when i have known and the mr has filmed us i hate watching us back and i hate looking at pics of myself too... worst critic in the world!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the forums! They are a wealth of red flags!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well be he regret posted this already lol

I don't think anyone likes to be filmed without their knowledge no matter what they are doing

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By *yke-ite OP   Man
over a year ago

weymouth

I agree with everyone. Someone asked me about it at the weekend. I said no way. If he had done anything to delete and not mention again. He said he thought his wife would be ok with it. I said no way. That is why i put it on here to show him he was wrong to think that. I do not know if he has or not done anything like it. But i have already told him its a no no. Thanks for proving me right.

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By *issLissCouple
over a year ago

south east

Why would anyone like to be disrespected in such a way??

Unless you discussed it before and at some point he was going to film you and that turned you both on.

As for watching back, I don't know about the other ladies, but I'm a perfectionist and would critique my performance to much to enjoy watching!

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Signature of a sneaky bastard and we all know where sneaky bastards stop - they dont

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Totally out of order and definitely very creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy being filmed but only via mobile phone by my hubby.and its on my phone only.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I agree with everyone. Someone asked me about it at the weekend. I said no way. If he had done anything to delete and not mention again. He said he thought his wife would be ok with it. I said no way. That is why i put it on here to show him he was wrong to think that. I do not know if he has or not done anything like it. But i have already told him its a no no. Thanks for proving me right."

Oh right.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fine watching myself as long as I've agreed to it. Filming without permission is illegal and I probably would be going to the authorities, as thats incredibly creepy."

Is it illegal?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm fine watching myself as long as I've agreed to it. Filming without permission is illegal and I probably would be going to the authorities, as thats incredibly creepy.

Is it illegal?"

I have no idea but if it is a lot of CCTV cameras are operating outside of the law.

I suppose if you were filmed without your knowledge in this situation (or indeed with your knowledge) and the person then used it to blackmail or coerce you somehow the law would take a dim view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with everyone. Someone asked me about it at the weekend. I said no way. If he had done anything to delete and not mention again. He said he thought his wife would be ok with it. I said no way. That is why i put it on here to show him he was wrong to think that. I do not know if he has or not done anything like it. But i have already told him its a no no. Thanks for proving me right."

Yeah your "friend" came up with it lol. I think you'll find you're on a lot more block lists now lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I agree with everyone. Someone asked me about it at the weekend. I said no way. If he had done anything to delete and not mention again. He said he thought his wife would be ok with it. I said no way. That is why i put it on here to show him he was wrong to think that. I do not know if he has or not done anything like it. But i have already told him its a no no. Thanks for proving me right.

Oh right......."

Now come on you cynic...It WAS his (imaginary) friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women like to watch themselves on video. Even if it was filmed with out them knowing? Husband or boyfriend hid a camera.? Not to show anyone."

He'd be kicked out of the house if he did that to me!! Not on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't think of any man I would be ok with doing this to me. I wouldn't be happy and he wouldn't see me ever again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with everyone. Someone asked me about it at the weekend. I said no way. If he had done anything to delete and not mention again. He said he thought his wife would be ok with it. I said no way. That is why i put it on here to show him he was wrong to think that. I do not know if he has or not done anything like it. But i have already told him its a no no. Thanks for proving me right.

Yeah your "friend" came up with it lol. I think you'll find you're on a lot more block lists now lol"

BOOM!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fine watching myself as long as I've agreed to it. Filming without permission is illegal and I probably would be going to the authorities, as thats incredibly creepy.

Is it illegal?

I have no idea but if it is a lot of CCTV cameras are operating outside of the law.

I suppose if you were filmed without your knowledge in this situation (or indeed with your knowledge) and the person then used it to blackmail or coerce you somehow the law would take a dim view."

Cctv cameras are not allowed to be pointed into private property. You can be filmed in public by official public Cctv but if you're having sex in their view obviously you're breaking the law.

Interestingly private Cctv such as home security cannot be pointed in a way that it records public space or others private space. There's a bit of leeway ie if a bit of pavement is in that's usualy ok but it's to stop people say point g them at a park and filming that while calling it a security camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done a little research and it's not illegal to film - pretty much anywhere, anytime, anyone.

There are things that may subsequently be illegal related to what was filmed, whether it's published, how it's used etc.

But the filming part is not illegal.

As for whether I'd like it... No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with everyone. Someone asked me about it at the weekend. I said no way. If he had done anything to delete and not mention again. He said he thought his wife would be ok with it. I said no way. That is why i put it on here to show him he was wrong to think that. I do not know if he has or not done anything like it. But i have already told him its a no no. Thanks for proving me right.

Yeah your "friend" came up with it lol. I think you'll find you're on a lot more block lists now lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching it back with hubbie but have to try hard not to critique myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about people who are in other's pics on here. Do they need permission to show them if the face isn't showing and tattoos covered?

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Do women like to watch themselves on video. Even if it was filmed with out them knowing? Husband or boyfriend hid a camera.? Not to show anyone."

Even a partner should get permission!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I agree with everyone. Someone asked me about it at the weekend. I said no way. If he had done anything to delete and not mention again. He said he thought his wife would be ok with it. I said no way. That is why i put it on here to show him he was wrong to think that. I do not know if he has or not done anything like it. But i have already told him its a no no. Thanks for proving me right.

Oh right......."

this..

the sight of someone back tracking hastily springs to mind..

on the original 'question', totally out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO NO NO i would be wearing my nuts as ear rings if i did that ( not that i would as i got to much love n respect for the better half )

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"What about people who are in other's pics on here. Do they need permission to show them if the face isn't showing and tattoos covered? "

From Pic Rules:

Others in your photo OK so long as faces are obscured and you have permission. You can have other people in your photos too (to clarify, you must also be in the photo) so long as you have their permission to upload to your account on here AND their faces are obscured (face pixellated or blacked out; just blacking out the eyes is NOT ok).

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By *untobewithUsCouple
over a year ago

Anglesey

Who would film someone without their permission!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Who would film someone without their permission!!"

because they're a sneaky rat or they know permission wouldn't be given or both

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Who would film someone without their permission!!

because they're a sneaky rat or they know permission wouldn't be given or both"

and you said who not why sorry substitute some who is for because they're

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about people who are in other's pics on here. Do they need permission to show them if the face isn't showing and tattoos covered?

From Pic Rules:

Others in your photo OK so long as faces are obscured and you have permission. You can have other people in your photos too (to clarify, you must also be in the photo) so long as you have their permission to upload to your account on here AND their faces are obscured (face pixellated or blacked out; just blacking out the eyes is NOT ok)."

How does admin confirm you have their permission? I'm assuming they have to be on the site too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I've hated it. Even though agreed to the ones that have been taken, its just wierd

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I would assume its the responsibility of the person uploading the pics as the rules say 'so long as you have their permission to upload to your account'.

If someone hasnt given permission for their pics to be uploaded I guess Admin would deal with it when they are informed that the one uploading the pics didnt have their permission.

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester


"I agree with everyone. Someone asked me about it at the weekend. I said no way. If he had done anything to delete and not mention again. He said he thought his wife would be ok with it. I said no way. That is why i put it on here to show him he was wrong to think that. I do not know if he has or not done anything like it. But i have already told him its a no no. Thanks for proving me right."

You should enter the tour de France ,but start in Paris and finish in Leeds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about people who are in other's pics on here. Do they need permission to show them if the face isn't showing and tattoos covered?

From Pic Rules:

Others in your photo OK so long as faces are obscured and you have permission. You can have other people in your photos too (to clarify, you must also be in the photo) so long as you have their permission to upload to your account on here AND their faces are obscured (face pixellated or blacked out; just blacking out the eyes is NOT ok).

How does admin confirm you have their permission? I'm assuming they have to be on the site too? "

Clearly the admins aren't as ontop of this as they state. I've had several guys message me with faces of chicks on their dicks as profile pics. When i've asked if they have permission from the girl they promptly remove it. All you have to do is look at your timeline and you'll see loads of them. It's just another red flag for me to block someone as they clearly have no respect for the women they sleep with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"isnt that against the law?? id go nuts if a meet filmed me. jen xx"

Haha yes it is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"isnt that against the law?? id go nuts if a meet filmed me. jen xx

Haha yes it is!!"

No it isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LLF did the OP imagine what a shit storm this would generate. (a) its immoral (b) its illegal (c) its downright wrong (d) it breaks all elements of trust) (E) all of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copyright of a video is the one that made it and no law is broken if its made on your own premises and being filmed having sex is your word against theirs and it would cost a fortune suing someone in court remember there is a ton of amature porn available online and some looks like its been from a static cam and sadly if you was filmed chances are you might not even find it but someone you know might , I've seen sex sites actually wanting photos and videos of wife gfs sharing and loads do , disgraceful if its done without the other persons permission but its in high demand its a risk we all take when trusting a partner or playmate

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"isnt that against the law?? id go nuts if a meet filmed me. jen xx

Haha yes it is!!

No it isn't."

Surely consent is required at time of filming if in private otherwise it is illegal. Deception like that is wrong regardless

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover


"Why would anyone like to be disrespected in such a way??

Unless you discussed it before and at some point he was going to film you and that turned you both on.

As for watching back, I don't know about the other ladies, but I'm a perfectionist and would critique my performance to much to enjoy watching! "

Miss I was patrolling bluewater.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"isnt that against the law?? id go nuts if a meet filmed me. jen xx

Haha yes it is!!

No it isn't."

Yes it is you cannot film someone on private property without their consent especially naked.

People have gone to prison for it before.

http://www.standard.co.uk/news/bbc-man-who-secretly-filmed-himself-having-sex-with-lovers-is-jailed-6732316.html

"

Wilkins, of Brixton, pleaded guilty to 11 charges of voyeurism between January 2005 and July 2008. Sentencing at Inner London crown court, Judge Roger Chapple said he was punishing Wilkins "not for your sexual appetite or morals, but the trust you calculatedly betrayed". He added: "It's a cruel, selfish and serious betrayal of the trust [the women] had placed in you.""

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