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By *ishopstipple OP   Man
over a year ago

Purley

Having seen and read lots of threads on this subject.

Why do women want to turn their partner's into cuckholds?

Whats the turn on?

Or is it just a licence to do what ever you want without having to get any agreement from them?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

why brown sauce..

red sauce...

type of music..

favourite restaurant..

etc etc..

tis preference and choices..

nothing else..

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Dont know what you have been reading, but it is usually the man who 'wants' to be a cuckold, but more importantly its a mutually agreed thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surly that's like asking why are you into men? Your choice and must get a kick out of it, despite going against the norm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does this bother you?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Having seen and read lots of threads on this subject.

Why do women want to turn their partner's into cuckholds?

Whats the turn on?

Or is it just a licence to do what ever you want without having to get any agreement from them?"

Daft post.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Dont know what you have been reading, but it is usually the man who 'wants' to be a cuckold, but more importantly its a mutually agreed thing."

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By *ishopstipple OP   Man
over a year ago

Purley


"Why does this bother you?"

Interesting answer: it doesn't bother me.

Im just trying to understand the mind space.

being male ihnfi

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By *ishopstipple OP   Man
over a year ago

Purley


"Daft post.

"

why is this post daft?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Daft post.

why is this post daft? "

Because you've assumed that the woman has decided to do this without consent or input from her partner. Read some of the cuckold stories and you'll see the blokes love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing about submissive sex is that the one submitting is often the one in control. Fetishes are often the sexualisation of fears. A person's first sexual experience can have a huge impact on their preferences. As can all the other sexual experiences they ever have.

By extrapolating the first paragraph of this post, you should be able to answer your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does this bother you?

Interesting answer: it doesn't bother me.

Im just trying to understand the mind space.

being male ihnfi"

That's not really an answer

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Why does this bother you?

Interesting answer: it doesn't bother me.

Im just trying to understand the mind space.

being male ihnfi"

is ihnfi, I have no fucking interest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having seen and read lots of threads on this subject.

Why do women want to turn their partner's into cuckholds?

Whats the turn on?

Or is it just a licence to do what ever you want without having to get any agreement from them?"
why are you on a swingers site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know what you have been reading, but it is usually the man who 'wants' to be a cuckold, but more importantly its a mutually agreed thing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One can't be cuckold without the others agreement and vice versa surely so it has to be a mutual pleasure and not one person making the other do anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you not find, that a lot of these silly threads are posted by single guys?

At least it gives couples something to comment about!

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By *ishopstipple OP   Man
over a year ago

Purley


"Why does this bother you?

Interesting answer: it doesn't bother me.

Im just trying to understand the mind space.

being male ihnfi

is ihnfi, I have no fucking interest?"

no the I is for idea.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Why does this bother you?

Interesting answer: it doesn't bother me.

Im just trying to understand the mind space.

being male ihnfi

is ihnfi, I have no fucking interest?

no the I is for idea. "

ty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been said many times over that you can't be a swinger as a single .

The mindset isn't there , judgement is made , opinions are voiced and posts like this appear .

Singles are great as playmates , but mostly their understanding if the swinging scene is limited .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's the cuckold's choice to be cuckold ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 06/07/14 20:59:56]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually my husband turned me into a hotwife although it was always part of my character so I didn't take much persuading other than it wad something he wanted. ..... It's not Really a decision you make. You either enjoy it or you don't. It's a bit like being gay. It's not something you choose but something you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 06/07/14 20:59:56]"
Agreed...sorry I should have added that not all people with that way of thinking get to fulfil their desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think cuckoldry voyeurism even naturism are some of the fantasies that lead people into swinging in the first place so questioning why makes us think the op is not so much a swinger more looking for a cheap shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And its cuckold. ... Not cuckhold!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is usually the man who 'wants' to be a cuckold, but more importantly its a mutually agreed thing."

So OP your question should be rephrased to "Why do men want to turn themselves into cuckolds/their partners into hotwives? What is the turn-on?"

For the record, hotwives don't do what they what without having to get any agreement from their partners: they already have the ultimate agreement, their partners are egging them on. That's the cuckold lifestyle in a nutshell - you're looking at it from totally the wrong angle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is usually the man who 'wants' to be a cuckold, but more importantly its a mutually agreed thing.

So OP your question should be rephrased to "Why do men want to turn themselves into cuckolds/their partners into hotwives? What is the turn-on?"

For the record, hotwives don't do what they what without having to get any agreement from their partners: they already have the ultimate agreement, their partners are egging them on. That's the cuckold lifestyle in a nutshell - you're looking at it from totally the wrong angle."

basically what I said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having seen and read lots of threads on this subject.

Why do women want to turn their partner's into cuckholds?

Whats the turn on?

Or is it just a licence to do what ever you want without having to get any agreement from them?"

Because we both love it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waste of a thread? Question asked in total reverse of the actual facts....

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By *irimusMan
over a year ago

Burnley


"

Because you've assumed that the woman has decided to do this without consent or input from her partner. "

Wyrdwoman, you're back! Yay! I always enjoy reading your posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Because you've assumed that the woman has decided to do this without consent or input from her partner.

Wyrdwoman, you're back! Yay! I always enjoy reading your posts "

did she go somewhere???

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Daft post.

why is this post daft?

Because you've assumed that the woman has decided to do this without consent or input from her partner. Read some of the cuckold stories and you'll see the blokes love it."

Exactly!

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

My experience as the male meeting a cuckold couple has been that in every case that couple have been very close and understanding of one another's needs and desires.

Asking why is an easy question but its like asking why we are all different. Enjoy what you enjoy!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"

Because you've assumed that the woman has decided to do this without consent or input from her partner.

Wyrdwoman, you're back! Yay! I always enjoy reading your posts

did she go somewhere???"

Nope. I practically live here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having seen and read lots of threads on this subject.

Why do women want to turn their partner's into cuckholds?

Whats the turn on?

Or is it just a licence to do what ever you want without having to get any agreement from them?"

First of all it's cuckolds...jeezaloo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Because you've assumed that the woman has decided to do this without consent or input from her partner.

Wyrdwoman, you're back! Yay! I always enjoy reading your posts

did she go somewhere???

Nope. I practically live here! "

well that is kinda what I thought

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By *anglefootedMan
over a year ago

northampton


"The thing about submissive sex is that the one submitting is often the one in control. Fetishes are often the sexualisation of fears. A person's first sexual experience can have a huge impact on their preferences. As can all the other sexual experiences they ever have.

By extrapolating the first paragraph of this post, you should be able to answer your question."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree with the ' why woman want to turn their men into cuckholds'

The men want to be one its there choice. I lose count of men asking me if they can be my cuckold.so know its the man who enjoys.im not into it though and tell them that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with the ' why woman want to turn their men into cuckholds'

The men want to be one its there choice. I lose count of men asking me if they can be my cuckold.so know its the man who enjoys.im not into it though and tell them that"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just another male fetish that has bastardised the original meaning of cuckoldry. I wouldn't have classed it as swinging but fetishes seem to play a part in it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just another male fetish that has bastardised the original meaning of cuckoldry. I wouldn't have classed it as swinging but fetishes seem to play a part in it now "

and most on here would probably claim not to be swingers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I a cuckold? I like to clean my wife's lovers cum out of her pussy, I like to taste him on her lips, her breasts, her stomach. I like to feel her used pussy. I like her to tell me how my cock is no use to her, how only black guys can really make her satisfied. I like to suck their and other cocks, I fantasise about being feminised, about being given HRT, about vasectomy, about my wife baring her lovers child. Do I know why? No, who cares?! If I get a chance to fuck another woman do I take it? yes! Am I cuckold? Who the fuck knows! I'm me.

Enjoy.

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By *irimusMan
over a year ago

Burnley


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did she go somewhere???"

Her profile was hidden for a while. Never leave us again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I a cuckold? I like to clean my wife's lovers cum out of her pussy, I like to taste him on her lips, her breasts, her stomach. I like to feel her used pussy. I like her to tell me how my cock is no use to her, how only black guys can really make her satisfied. I like to suck their and other cocks, I fantasise about being feminised, about being given HRT, about vasectomy, about my wife baring her lovers child. Do I know why? No, who cares?! If I get a chance to fuck another woman do I take it? yes! Am I cuckold? Who the fuck knows! I'm me.

Enjoy."

Did you read up on all that and decide you wanted it or was it all original thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just another male fetish that has bastardised the original meaning of cuckoldry. I wouldn't have classed it as swinging but fetishes seem to play a part in it now

and most on here would probably claim not to be swingers...."

That's the attraction of the site. Anyone can use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I a cuckold? I like to clean my wife's lovers cum out of her pussy, I like to taste him on her lips, her breasts, her stomach. I like to feel her used pussy. I like her to tell me how my cock is no use to her, how only black guys can really make her satisfied. I like to suck their and other cocks, I fantasise about being feminised, about being given HRT, about vasectomy, about my wife baring her lovers child. Do I know why? No, who cares?! If I get a chance to fuck another woman do I take it? yes! Am I cuckold? Who the fuck knows! I'm me.

Enjoy.

Did you read up on all that and decide you wanted it or was it all original thoughts? "

I read up on it all just to try and fit in.

Or

No I'm the boy in the bubble, I've had no exposure to anything.

Delete as applicable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just another male fetish that has bastardised the original meaning of cuckoldry. I wouldn't have classed it as swinging but fetishes seem to play a part in it now

and most on here would probably claim not to be swingers....

That's the attraction of the site. Anyone can use it "

that's why I don't really understand your comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I a cuckold? I like to clean my wife's lovers cum out of her pussy, I like to taste him on her lips, her breasts, her stomach. I like to feel her used pussy. I like her to tell me how my cock is no use to her, how only black guys can really make her satisfied. I like to suck their and other cocks, I fantasise about being feminised, about being given HRT, about vasectomy, about my wife baring her lovers child. Do I know why? No, who cares?! If I get a chance to fuck another woman do I take it? yes! Am I cuckold? Who the fuck knows! I'm me.

Enjoy.

Did you read up on all that and decide you wanted it or was it all original thoughts?

I read up on it all just to try and fit in.

Or

No I'm the boy in the bubble, I've had no exposure to anything.

Delete as applicable."

or maybe just ignore both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what ever makes you happy, and don't worry about what other people enjoy. You done have to comment on every thread you read. no one will think worse of you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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