FabSwingers.com forum: Friend Requests

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi We are fairly new to the site and obviously do not want to upset anyone. Does accepting a 'Friend Invite' indicate that you are willing to meet up and have sex with the sender? Is that an unwritten code? We are friendly people but we are concerned that we may have been inadvertently sending out the wrong message by accepting the invites.

Cheers,

J&D

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it usually means the following well i think anyway.... they want a perve at your pictures!!

most genuine people will send a message first and build up some kind of connection if they are interested in meeting, others just want a perv xx

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

Does it bollox

it means you MIGHT be interested in chatting further. NOTHING you do on this site says you HAVE to meet people. Its your choice to meet people or not

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Hi We are fairly new to the site and obviously do not want to upset anyone. Does accepting a 'Friend Invite' indicate that you are willing to meet up and have sex with the sender? Is that an unwritten code? We are friendly people but we are concerned that we may have been inadvertently sending out the wrong message by accepting the invites.

Cheers,

J&D

xxx"

I wouldn't view them like that myself, it's a way of checking our each others pics primarily, keeping them on a list to keep them in mind - the only way you agree to meet is by actually agreeing to meet and even then you aren't agreeing to have sex! We meet people and don't hit it off therefore sex just doesn't happen - you should never feel under any pressure and if you do - run a mile! Friends invites are just that - an invite to be friendly, chat etc and see where it leads. Good luck. Z

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I agree, it means the person can see your private pics and you see thiers. So any in the private galleries you both can see.

The only thing that means your going to have sex with a person is you actually saying direct to the person I would like to have sex with you or any other variety of that lol.

Alot of people just want to perv your pics.

In my opinion be selective who you give invites to. Only accept a friend invite after you have been chatting and your interested in seeing more pics or are considering meeting them or just want to keep in touch with a view to meet at some point.

Many people will send you a friend invite without even a message first, I delete these as in my opinion its rude.

I would chat via mail first and see a face pics included in a message to you. If they say you can see my face pic on my private gallery(friends accepting) then I always suggest that they put that face pic in an email first on this site to me BEFORE I consider acdepting a friends invite.

No point accepting a friend invite if you dont fancy them and wouldnt consider meeting them. If they send you one, its caus they want to perv you. A meet is only gonna happen if everyone fancies each other.

Be selective honey ok, and you vocalising that you want to fook someone means you do, but then you can always change your mind at any point ok. If someone is pressuring you to meet/have sex then step back and explain how you feel.

You have a choice. So do they. Accept no pressure.

Good luck xxxxx

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

great advise _ruit !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"great advise _ruit !"

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont add anyone who i have not spoken to before and im not intrested in meeting

too many people who pic collect i have found on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont add anyone who i have not spoken to before and im not intrested in meeting

too many people who pic collect i have found on here.

Same as us...

We avoid profiles if they have been members for a while,with big friends lists and no pics of their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont add anyone who i have not spoken to before and im not intrested in meeting

too many people who pic collect i have found on here.

Same as us...

We avoid profiles if they have been members for a while,with big friends lists and no pics of their own."

yeah i do but i havent met that many off here successful meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah a friend invite is a way of saying your interested in someone and you would like to get to know more about them with a view of something happening

but not neccessarly so it can mean that they want to perve pics if no message sent. so read their profile and see if they are looking for the same thing. then take it from there

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

I'm a billy no mates so if anyone wants to send me a friends invite I'd be only to pleased to accept it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone and a big thank you for all the good advice. We may have been a bit 'soft' and just accepted everyone who asked at first not wishing to be rude . As a result we've had a couple of 'mitherers' lol. Still we live and learn. The responses here have reassured us that not only is this a busy, active site compared to others but it is also full of nice, 'ordinary', down to earth, sexy people. Thanks again. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only add People to my friends list I have met

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"not only is this a busy, active site compared to others but it is also full of nice, 'ordinary', down to earth, sexy people"

Ooooooooooooooo thank gawd you never mentioned time-wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it bollox

it means you MIGHT be interested in chatting further. NOTHING you do on this site says you HAVE to meet people. Its your choice to meet people or not

Mmm on the fence with this one then are ya fuss lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to use our friends list,to keep an eye on people we like and are going to meet in the future..

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

You can also use your hotlist for a similar way, to keep an eye on their profile to remind you who they are, so in my opinion isnt the only difference of a friends invite is to label it a "friend" and that you can see all the pics on the profile.

So pretty much the only difference is the pictures.

Alot of people do want to just look at the pictures,and those tend to send a friend invite with no mail to go with it. I just dlete them all lol

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