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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Priveleged

Got a message from a guy, no pic etc, and he said he MAY be interested in meeting me, how lucky am i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet you answered asap asking where and when .....some men bless um they do try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Priveleged

Got a message from a guy, no pic etc, and he said he MAY be interested in meeting me, how lucky am i "

oh wow you got a 'maybe'. You should feel honoured and privileged! ! I bet it's made your weekend. What you gonna do hun? You dont wanna blow your chances with this one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow think I will have to get in the queue for this guy!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't tell you how jealous I am, you are indeed privileged....

I get the desperate to meet you babe ones who when I say ok then suddenly have an elderly relative to attend to/work/funeral/insert excuse of your choice....

It's all good fun innit?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

You lucky girl... I really hope that didn't automatically make your knickers drop somewhere inconvenient because thats what happens to mine when I get those messages!

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Priveleged

Got a message from a guy, no pic etc, and he said he MAY be interested in meeting me, how lucky am i

oh wow you got a 'maybe'. You should feel honoured and privileged! ! I bet it's made your weekend. What you gonna do hun? You dont wanna blow your chances with this one!"

He wants to know where i live and he may be interested in meeting

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You lucky girl... I really hope that didn't automatically make your knickers drop somewhere inconvenient because thats what happens to mine when I get those messages! "

Yes, of course, what should i do to make sure that maybe turns into a yes he will meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They think their doing you a favour

Her

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"They think their doing you a favour

Her"

I know

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

whats wrong in saying 'may' meet up, surely the exchanging of messages may establish if there is a connection/attraction...

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"whats wrong in saying 'may' meet up, surely the exchanging of messages may establish if there is a connection/attraction..."

Coz i never seemed to have a choice a think it was just a given, IF he decided he was willing

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I got a message like that so I just said

"Sorry I'm washing my hair for the foreseeable future you MAY want to try someone else as that may be a great offer to someone more available"

Think I missed a catch there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a good day for men then lol

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"You lucky girl... I really hope that didn't automatically make your knickers drop somewhere inconvenient because thats what happens to mine when I get those messages!

Yes, of course, what should i do to make sure that maybe turns into a yes he will meet me "

obviously be permanently ready to drop everything when he messages, constantly horny and do whatever he asks, even if its something you don't like.

Oh and fuck like a porn star and deep throat like a blow up doll

Remember to leave him a glowing veri so we can all chase to see if we *MAY* be so lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Priveleged

Got a message from a guy, no pic etc, and he said he MAY be interested in meeting me, how lucky am i "

You'll kick yourself into next week if its Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how my knickers are staying on today! How can I resist with the following messages:

'Wow'

'Nice'

'Mmmmm'

That's not the edited version of the messages. It's three 'whole' separate messages. I feel privileged too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They think their doing you a favour

Her

I know "
Just laugh it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send him this way when you've done

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I got a message yesterday that said "hi" ... I've never felt so excited and horny....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

So he's sent a perfectly polite message with an expression of interest and it's STILL wrong.

What's a man got to do on this site to avoid ridicule?

Speaking as the female half of this couple if a man said he may be interested depending on the answer to certain questions I would think of him as discerning and not ready to fuck the first person that came along.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"So he's sent a perfectly polite message with an expression of interest and it's STILL wrong.

What's a man got to do on this site to avoid ridicule?

Speaking as the female half of this couple if a man said he may be interested depending on the answer to certain questions I would think of him as discerning and not ready to fuck the first person that came along."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Priveleged

Got a message from a guy, no pic etc, and he said he MAY be interested in meeting me, how lucky am i "

Quite honestly you should feel nothing short of honoured that he's decided to consider your application- whether you actually submitted it or not! Don't you know he's got hundreds of women queuing up just to speak to him?

Lily x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I don't see as he's done anything wrong really, nobody messages somebody certain there going to meet them, it's always hoping to get to the meet but something might put one or the other off, so saying maybe seems fair to me,

Unless he said if your lucky then I may meet you, then its a no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So he's sent a perfectly polite message with an expression of interest and it's STILL wrong.

What's a man got to do on this site to avoid ridicule?

Speaking as the female half of this couple if a man said he may be interested depending on the answer to certain questions I would think of him as discerning and not ready to fuck the first person that came along."

Well said

Everyone knows it's the single guys that should feel privileged that we even open their messages

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

What a silly condescending thread !

What other honest declaration could he say . He would have nowhere near enough information to say he wants to meet .seems it's not acceptable to the all powerful female that a man may wish to be considered and particular ? Perhaps the reserved use of maybe has not flattered the ego like fancy a fuck you're gorgeous does or I want to meet you now even though I haven't seen you and know nothing about you.

Seems like a reasonable defensive polite first message to me and a self centered world revolves around me rant ?

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What a silly condescending thread !

What other honest declaration could he say . He would have nowhere near enough information to say he wants to meet .seems it's not acceptable to the all powerful female that a man may wish to be considered and particular ? Perhaps the reserved use of maybe has not flattered the ego like fancy a fuck you're gorgeous does or I want to meet you now even though I haven't seen you and know nothing about you.

Seems like a reasonable defensive polite first message to me and a self centered world revolves around me rant ? "

The point is

He wanted to know where i lived that was the only question he had with regards to his maybe, and it didnt seem like i had a choice, and where in this post have i had a "rant"??

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"So he's sent a perfectly polite message with an expression of interest and it's STILL wrong.

What's a man got to do on this site to avoid ridicule?

Speaking as the female half of this couple if a man said he may be interested depending on the answer to certain questions I would think of him as discerning and not ready to fuck the first person that came along."

This

Plus the fact our face pics are not on public display.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

To me, it read as I may as if its all up to him...

I prefer I'd like to get to know you, chat and see where it goes. No presumption

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"To me, it read as I may as if its all up to him...

I prefer I'd like to get to know you, chat and see where it goes. No presumption "

To be truthful I prefer it if I send a private message the contents remain private and not held up for public ridicule. This guy can easily identify himself from this but hey it's images a man he deserved it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

That should have read it's the internet, he's a man....

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Honestly, I see nothing in the OP that would identify who it is.

I've had way too many of that kind of message, and yes they do get tedious, and not only from single guys.

When you get loads of crap messages all the time, it does get wearing. And I don't think anyone deserves to be singled out, but as this is a very generic type of message its not like naming and shaming, but thats just my opinion.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Honestly, I see nothing in the OP that would identify who it is.

I've had way too many of that kind of message, and yes they do get tedious, and not only from single guys.

When you get loads of crap messages all the time, it does get wearing. And I don't think anyone deserves to be singled out, but as this is a very generic type of message its not like naming and shaming, but thats just my opinion."

I don't see these types of threads as a name and shame either, I see them as having the last poke at a person who may have blocked or been blocked.

Not suggesting the OP did in this case but you see many threads spewing out indignation at someone for saying this or that, a large chuck of those I would suggest, are petty & trying to have the last word in the hope that a certain someone reads it....

that how I see them anyway... and it comes from men & couples as well.

Indignation reeks out of here at times.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Honestly, I see nothing in the OP that would identify who it is.

I've had way too many of that kind of message, and yes they do get tedious, and not only from single guys.

When you get loads of crap messages all the time, it does get wearing. And I don't think anyone deserves to be singled out, but as this is a very generic type of message its not like naming and shaming, but thats just my opinion.

I don't see these types of threads as a name and shame either, I see them as having the last poke at a person who may have blocked or been blocked.

Not suggesting the OP did in this case but you see many threads spewing out indignation at someone for saying this or that, a large chuck of those I would suggest, are petty & trying to have the last word in the hope that a certain someone reads it....

that how I see them anyway... and it comes from men & couples as well.

Indignation reeks out of here at times."

Wrong!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Priveleged

Got a message from a guy, no pic etc, and he said he MAY be interested in meeting me, how lucky am i "

wow snap him up he must be a "catch" lol

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Looking forward to his next message already

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"What a silly condescending thread !

What other honest declaration could he say . He would have nowhere near enough information to say he wants to meet .seems it's not acceptable to the all powerful female that a man may wish to be considered and particular ? Perhaps the reserved use of maybe has not flattered the ego like fancy a fuck you're gorgeous does or I want to meet you now even though I haven't seen you and know nothing about you.

Seems like a reasonable defensive polite first message to me and a self centered world revolves around me rant ? "

it is definately one of those "if this had been started by a man" thread which would have gone in a different direction... probably roasted to high heaven

by hey.....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Honestly, I see nothing in the OP that would identify who it is.

I've had way too many of that kind of message, and yes they do get tedious, and not only from single guys.

When you get loads of crap messages all the time, it does get wearing. And I don't think anyone deserves to be singled out, but as this is a very generic type of message its not like naming and shaming, but thats just my opinion.

I don't see these types of threads as a name and shame either, I see them as having the last poke at a person who may have blocked or been blocked.

Not suggesting the OP did in this case but you see many threads spewing out indignation at someone for saying this or that, a large chuck of those I would suggest, are petty & trying to have the last word in the hope that a certain someone reads it....

that how I see them anyway... and it comes from men & couples as well.

Indignation reeks out of here at times.

Wrong!"

Cool

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I posted cos I couldn't bear the thought of View getting the last word in.

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