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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are dirty messages a turn on or turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose it would depend on the message???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who it's from

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Turn off for me.

I'd rather get to know someone, and save naughty stuff for in person after a social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on who it's from"

Turn on, but depends how dirty and whos sent it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definite turn-off!

Most dirty messages seem to come from guys pretending to be couples/ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on who it's from"

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Depends on who it's from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off mostly I prefer to save it for in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn off mostly I prefer to save it for in person "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the first message received is aggressively vulgar it pretty much guarantees a block never mind a reply.

I don't think we are overly prudish but we prefer something a bit more polite - at least initially

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Depends on who it's from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on who it's from

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100% agree as if its to someone you don't know then complete passion killer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally a Bad Idea to do it to a complete Stranger,

but that said if The recipitant knows you well it good be a good thing maybe? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn off for me.

I'd rather get to know someone, and save naughty stuff for in person after a social meet."

and me. Instant delete.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Depends on who and the classiness of the smut!

I'd happily take a dirty message off someone i've been talking with so long as it didn't cross any boundaries...& before you ask i have no idea what they are till crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a message from someone I've not chatted to before, definitely yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definite turn-off!

Most dirty messages seem to come from guys pretending to be couples/ladies "

Agree with this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the first message received is aggressively vulgar it pretty much guarantees a block never mind a reply.

I don't think we are overly prudish but we prefer something a bit more polite - at least initially"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Received a nice / normal message from a man the other day, but the title of the message was 'Hi slut'. Instant turn off and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off. Much better whispered in my ear.

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By *hristian1981Man
over a year ago

dundee


"Received a nice / normal message from a man the other day, but the title of the message was 'Hi slut'. Instant turn off and block."

wow what a charmer

definitely a turn on but not as a first message as its a waste if your not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know !! Will let yer all know if I ever receive one

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Turn off for me.

I'd rather get to know someone, and save naughty stuff for in person after a social meet."

This for me too

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Don't know !! Will let yer all know if I ever receive one "

Oooooh whip me to death with a kebab heheheh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive turn off, I find it crude and immature so just delete. Much rather be spoken to in a polite respectful way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know !! Will let yer all know if I ever receive one

Oooooh whip me to death with a kebab heheheh "
yep I can now let you all know . I like em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn off for me.

I'd rather get to know someone, and save naughty stuff for in person after a social meet.

This for me too "
looks forward to the nawty stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends how the messages are written and how they come across to the receiver. Nothing wrong with a bit of smug or kinky stuff but on the otherhand you dont want to scare the living daylight out of someone by coming across as some sort of serial rapist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My status relates to this very sort of thing.

I had a random 1st message from a guy who just said, "can I see a pic of your c**t so I can see if your worth fucking?"

I had to think long & hard on the reply. All of 0.5seconds. NO. His profile is hidden. But he's added to the blocked list. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn off. Much better whispered in my ear. "

This

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By *iM4kinkMan
over a year ago

San Antonio

I love dirty messeges, great ice braker and definite turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on who your chatting to and if they are local or live too far away.

I'm not into crude vulgar chats but I do enjoy erotic sensual messages. Much depends on how articulate and interesting they are. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love someone to be very descriptive that is a big turn on

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

As an initial message not for me but from someone I've been flirting with a lot of fun, from someone I/we are planning to meet a huge turn on. From himself positively knicker soaking

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As an initial message not for me but from someone I've been flirting with a lot of fun, from someone I/we are planning to meet a huge turn on. From himself positively knicker soaking

The flirting is very important too. It's really nice to evolve a liking for one another and for me the chat should be erotic rather than dirty.

By the way Ruby you have a really interesting profile. It's nice to see a couple who adore one another yet stretch one another's boundaries and consequent levels of pleasure. Jim

Ruby "

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Thankyou, it's kind of you to say that.

Mwah from me

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As an initial message not for me but from someone I've been flirting with a lot of fun, from someone I/we are planning to meet a huge turn on. From himself positively knicker soaking

Ruby "

I do apologise re my previous message I put my commens in before the end of Ruby's quote. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont get any first time dirty ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who its off x

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Are dirty messages a turn on or turn off"

depends on content and sender, tee hee x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a bad thing if we already know the sender,and the content is related to something we have done or planning to do when we meet

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