FabSwingers.com forum: Is there a trick to catching a couple's eye?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Being a single male on here is pretty tricky, especially when trying to stand out amongst the no doubt countless messages that couples must receive.

I've tried the short and sweet method, the long well written and personal method yet they both seem to be as unsuccessful as one another!

Should I post up a full public picture and leave it to attraction alone?

After all, with the best profile or the most eye catching initial message in the world it won't mean diddly squat if they don't find me attractive.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've hit the nail on the head really! It's all about attraction and that's not something you can quantify....

I'd maybe put a little more in your profile, it's just a couple of lines - what exactly are you looking for etc Personally, I won't meet someone who hasn't got a face pic either on public or attached to their message.

But it really is down to the fact that each individual has something completely different in mind. You just need to be patient and keep reading profiles and where you think you fit, send the kind of message you'd like to receive. You'll find a couple who are the right fit one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would spend a bit of time on you’re profile first, although pictures are always a good start, you’re profile doesn’t tell people anything, all it really says to us is you’re bisexual and looking for bisexual experiences, not good if you message a couple with a straight male, not as bad if you’re only targeting bi couples, secondly you cannot accommodate, rightly or wrongly, people will jump to their own conclusions why you cant, and finally the only picture you do have on at the moment is you having bareback sex with someone.

Bear in mind that the majority of people you contact will view you’re profile before they read your message, so having a detailed profile when your actively looking to meet people is highly recommended, it is your shop window after all. Good luck.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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What one couple like, the next one won't, you just have to touch lucky that you are mailing the one who your mail impresses.

I would say the biggest turn off for me (F) is a single man having womens pictures on their profile. I know you might have had permission but for me , it shows a lack of discretion.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Pretty much agree with the other posters. Your profile is very lean to say the least and few people in this hobby will have any interest in your photographic shagging conquests. Face picture with a nice smile and maybe a full body shot is all it needs.

‘Cannot Accommodate’ usual means married

that will loose you a lot of possible contacts but I wouldn’t bother changing and trying to make out you are single if you are married. You will still be discovered at some point, it will just waste more time that’s all. Best thing there is state you are married if you are, and allow others to make an informed decision. If you cannot accommodate for genuine reasons then say what they are but the likes of us will still be wanting your landline number and address

Other than that it can often be a tall order making sex-mates in this hobby so be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im the other way round, i get loads of mail from couples and i dont want to meet them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im the other way round, i get loads of mail from couples and i dont want to meet them lol "

you aswell?and if you say no thanks the can get pretty nasty.I do get the feeling that they think they message you and you have to be grateful to them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say the biggest turn off for me (F) is a single man having womens pictures on their profile."

Glad that's not just me! I always think, I'm not playing with her so what do I care what she looks like. Thought I was being a fussy cow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im the other way round, i get loads of mail from couples and i dont want to meet them lol

you aswell?and if you say no thanks the can get pretty nasty.I do get the feeling that they think they message you and you have to be grateful to them lol"

thats cause they rule the world

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say the biggest turn off for me (F) is a single man having womens pictures on their profile.

Glad that's not just me! I always think, I'm not playing with her so what do I care what she looks like. Thought I was being a fussy cow

a agree with this too, make me laugh when you get single guys profiles and you can see more of a woman than the guy after meeting you, ive questioned men about this before and been told its to show they genuine, how does a pic of a guy fucking a woman show hes genuine? it could be the ex girlfriend, all it shows is hes not a virgin lol

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

"Should I post up a full public picture and leave it to attraction alone?

Post one of you hanging your 13" cock out of the window of your Ferrari, that might help.

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By *ay112Man
over a year ago

northwest

As said its the attraction, ive had mails sorry not my type where when looking at the people they have met

its down to what they prefer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Should I post up a full public picture and leave it to attraction alone?

Post one of you hanging your 13" cock out of the window of your Ferrari, that might help."

Steady on, it's only 12" and it's an Aston Martin, not a Ferrari.

To everyone else who has replied..

I always show a full, clear body pic in my initial email, I just don't want that one out in the public domain and unfortunatley I don't think men do 'sexy, teasing' pics the way that women do!

I'm not sure what else I could write in the profile, it pretty much sums up what I'm after, the chacne to play with a couple with no boundaries which certainly isn't something i would have the opportunity to do in the 'real world'!

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

Steady, if it's an Aston the fucking window won't shut properly again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say the biggest turn off for me (F) is a single man having womens pictures on their profile.

Glad that's not just me! I always think, I'm not playing with her so what do I care what she looks like. Thought I was being a fussy cow

It also shows he prefers bareback as he doesn't have safe sex as one of his interests either.

Another point loser for many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male pictures on a male profile is always a good start along with some description of likes and dislikes. Look at others profile and get ideas but just don't copy as you want to be you.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

I wouldnt want to meet a couple if one of thier eyes were likely to fall out and i have to catch it

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