FabSwingers.com forum: Dogging etiquette?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was at a dogging location Friday and was watching a couple from my car who were having a little play with the windows open.

As a bit of a novice in the Dogging world I stayed in my car and didnt go over to the car to get as closer look.

I wanted to but was unsure whether them having the windows wide open was a sign for come and have a look or not?

Would they have signalled me over if they wanted me to come closer??? Did i do the right thing staying in the car???

I feel like i may have missed out but I didnt want to feel intrusive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would imagine if the windows were down, then yes you did miss out, you often hear of the flashing lights etc, and it does happen depending where you are, but through experience actually approaching the car in question and conversing usually works the best.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

There are no dogging rules set in stone... other than no means no and be respectful.

They may have had their wondows open because they were hot.

They may have had them open so people could watch or even touch.

They may not make clear signs for you to come over because they don't know if you are a dogger or not.

My advice... approach whilst watching for their reaction. If they stop playing and wind the windows up... leg it! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never understood dogging at all, ive heard people say so many things about what you should and shouldnt do, certain lights on mean this, other light flashing mean that lol i just have no idea, i went dogging with a female friend and neither os us knew what to do, so we drove round till we found some cars, sat there, got out had a walk round, went and stood near the car, looked about and waited......nothing lol so we went home lol

When you get there what do you do? short of standing on the car roof and shouting who wants a fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we go dogging i just get out of car and that usually does the trick lol

Only join in or move closer if you are asked, or if you see the interior lights of the car flashing (a signal to move closer as the couple want voyeurs to watch or perhaps even join in).

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I have never understood dogging at all, ive heard people say so many things about what you should and shouldnt do, certain lights on mean this, other light flashing mean that lol i just have no idea, i went dogging with a female friend and neither os us knew what to do, so we drove round till we found some cars, sat there, got out had a walk round, went and stood near the car, looked about and waited......nothing lol so we went home lol

When you get there what do you do? short of standing on the car roof and shouting who wants a fuck lol"

You probably found a bunch of gay cruisers and confused the hell out of them

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We did research dogging before we went, and it was nothing like what it said on the research !!

We only played in the car and with each other, but we wouldn't beckon people over, they just came to the side of the war and watched. But I know other people who would rather they invited people over to come and watch.

The best thing to do is probably what polo said , walk to the side of the car, if they don't want you there they will tell you, if they want you to watch or play, they will no doubt leave you to watch or wind the window down and ask or show you they want you to play

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"We only played in the car and with each other, but we wouldn't beckon people over, they just came to the side of the war and watched."

I've seen enthusiastic sex before, but I wouldn't describe it as "war"!

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