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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anybody ever pretended they'd left something in their car and done a runner cos they didn't fancy the person/ people they had met when it got to the shall we go and play stage ?

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By *exyscottishladMan
over a year ago

Glasgow/Ayrshire

Ive done it before. I said I was going to he car for a condom and drove. As fast as I could!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, we always have a social only meet to avoid that happening.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No id just say that I didn't want to play and either stay for a drink and a laugh if we were getting on ok but there was no sexual chemistry or leave nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no but have felt like it a couple of times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, we always have a social only meet to avoid that happening. "

How must the person feel??!! Always a social first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be so insensitive or rude......

Would rather just say outright that we're not feeling the spark so we'll enjoy a drink, a natter then go our separate ways. Just because we don't fancy someone doesn't mean we can't be social for a couple of hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never - always start with a social on the understanding that if we get on, and ALL parties want to play, then we will play on the first date x

A babysitter did have to ring unexpectedly once though

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, we always have a social only meet to avoid that happening.

How must the person feel??!! Always a social first."

Yes I think getting in the car and driving off isn't very kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo ..rather be honest and say ta but no ta...Karmas a bitch ya no...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I should make it clear that it was a couple I'd met and it was in the days of meeting from 'the Loot' so socials were not really done then so much. Mobile phones have made things much better and we can see many pictures now before meeting .

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Had it done to me a couple of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had it done to me a couple of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always just told them they are not for me, you may feel you are saving their feeling but doing a runner must make you feel far worse

you need to man up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had it done to me a couple of times

Trust me she was nowhere near as nice as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive done it before. I said I was going to he car for a condom and drove. As fast as I could!"

That's very grown up of you

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Had it done to me a couple of times

Trust me she was nowhere near as nice as you

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Bet she still felt as bad as I did when it happened though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a guy in a local pub who said he wanted to come back to mine. I went to the toilet, came back out, he'd gone but his half consumed drink was still there so assumed he went to the loo also. A few minutes later, the barman said he'd driven off. I was so embarrassed. Not sure why he felt the need to be so childish but that's life. I would never do that to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had a suddenly sick child a couple times ..

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By *exyscottishladMan
over a year ago

Glasgow/Ayrshire

"Ive done it before. I said I was going to he car for a condom and drove. As fast as I could!

That's very grown up of you "

Well the pic she sent was from about 10 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can say honestly though that I would not have done it and left a woman on her own. It was a couple and he was a bit an arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, we always have a social only meet to avoid that happening. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive done it before. I said I was going to he car for a condom and drove. As fast as I could!

That's very grown up of you

Well the pic she sent was from about 10 years ago."

Is that the one that said she was a size 12 but when you met her you realised it was only her feet that were a size 12 ?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

had a bad situation years ago when I got away from a bloke by getting in a strangers car not as dangerous as staying there told him id got to go to car and fled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said social meet always first. if I'm playing on my own with a couple then it's social meet only first time, play date to be arranged later. When play as a couple with my fb then it's social meet and play if all agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always meet socially with couples first. Then we decide together if they are for us or not.

Had a few meetings now, always nice people which is reassuring about our 'vetting' but not always had the spark so had to say. Would never just leave, we are not that rude or that cowardly.

Guys are different. Mr T arranges those meets and I don't want to know anyone.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, I'd not like it done to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no need to be mean. I can be quite mechanical about sex anyway so as long as they were clean and a nice person id do it anyway. I can even enjoy the lack of anxiety you get when your with super hot ladies. I would let a person i didn't really fancy do things i would never let someone i really fancied do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, no need to be mean. I can be quite mechanical about sex anyway so as long as they were clean and a nice person id do it anyway. I can even enjoy the lack of anxiety you get when your with super hot ladies. I would let a person i didn't really fancy do things i would never let someone i really fancied do."

Your honesty is to be applauded and I suspect that quite a lot of men think the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to say once or twice, damn i've just had a phone call from the school while i was on the way here....

It's worse in a club, when a guy asks to play and i don't feel that 'spark'....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

been on the other end...he came in, got a bj...said he was going for a fag and never came back.

was pissed off at the time but then realised he was a dick and not worth being angry about it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"It's worse in a club, when a guy asks to play and i don't feel that 'spark'...."

Or when they ask to meet you at a club, then bugger off and shag every woman there but you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry but I'm intrigued as to what you would let a woman you don't fancy do that you wouldn't let a woman you did fancy do

ok i admit it in just nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say one must grow up in any case..running away from a meet?..pretty pathetic in my eyes(even if a social wasnt planned!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a social meet first to avoid this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

sorry but I'm intrigued as to what you would let a woman you don't fancy do that you wouldn't let a woman you did fancy do

ok i admit it in just nosey

Must be his washing / hoovering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say one must grow up in any case..running away from a meet?..pretty pathetic in my eyes(even if a social wasnt planned!)."

i agree, if someone has taken the time and effort to meet you the very least they deserve is a simple no thank you, not for you to do a bunk and leave them waiting around

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'd say one must grow up in any case..running away from a meet?..pretty pathetic in my eyes(even if a social wasnt planned!)."

That's only because I tripped you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cowards way out, have a social and have the decency to say, rather than running like a little boy.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have felt that in a meet but I didn't play that much so let the other guys play and just had bjs but I still played as she wanted bigger cocks as the guys where quite small but I'm smallish too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say one must grow up in any case..running away from a meet?..pretty pathetic in my eyes(even if a social wasnt planned!).

That's only because I tripped you up

and jumped on my cock

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'd say one must grow up in any case..running away from a meet?..pretty pathetic in my eyes(even if a social wasnt planned!).

That's only because I tripped you up

and jumped on my cock"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say one must grow up in any case..running away from a meet?..pretty pathetic in my eyes(even if a social wasnt planned!).

That's only because I tripped you up

and jumped on my cock

I mean sat on my cock ffs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel more self conscious with beautiful people so id generally be more permissive with less beautiful people. If they were stupidly hot i wouldn't even approach and would be very reluctant to shoe my body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show (my body) even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel more self conscious with beautiful people so id generally be more permissive with less beautiful people. If they were stupidly hot i wouldn't even approach and would be very reluctant to shoe my body."

in that case id stick to the mingers sounds like you have better sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in that case id stick to the mingers sounds like you have better sex

nobody mentioned mingers. Why would i fuck a minger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, we always have a social only meet to avoid that happening.

How must the person feel??!! Always a social first."

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, we always have a social only meet to avoid that happening.

How must the person feel??!! Always a social first.

Ditto

I tried to run away from u in london..u bloody found me again..or was it edinburgh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in that case id stick to the mingers sounds like you have better sex

nobody mentioned mingers. Why would i fuck a minger?

IT WAS A JOKE

really some people on here are so serious i give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for snapping, think I'm overtired and niggly. I actually registered the

after i bit...soz x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That quite alright you can have a fabulous shag with me later to make up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That quite alright you can have a fabulous shag with me later to make up for it

fuck that am running after seeing ur feet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That quite alright you can have a fabulous shag with me later to make up for it

fuck that am running after seeing ur feet!"

i wasn't offering you one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That quite alright you can have a fabulous shag with me later to make up for it

fuck that am running after seeing ur feet!

i wasn't offering you one

that sorta hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely would too x and your feeet are sexy. The rest is very nice too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That quite alright you can have a fabulous shag with me later to make up for it

fuck that am running after seeing ur feet!

i wasn't offering you one

that sorta hurt

kiss my feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody ever pretended they'd left something in their car and done a runner cos they didn't fancy the person/ people they had met when it got to the shall we go and play stage ?

Never.

Too nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely would too x and your feeet are sexy. The rest is very nice too

do i take that as a compliment or an insult

confused.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely would too x and your feeet are sexy. The rest is very nice too

do i take that as a compliment or an insult

confused.com

compliment all the way

i may be shy till the monkey in me takes over.. You seem pretty fancieable..

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By *urvy_J3Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

I once met a guy he was a total creep really pervy pushy and forward I had to get a friend to ring me so I could make an excuse to leave

Only done it the once tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be pretty difficult for me to just jump in the car and drive off.

They are usually tied up in the Boot anyway.

Gimp

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Does no thank you not work for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple a few years ago, we met for a drink in a pub.

I set me alarm for an hour just in case there was nothing in comon or no atraction.

I get the impression that it was all the male halfs idea and suspected the female was only going along with it because thats what he wanted and she seemed quite awkward about it all.

So when the alarm went off I pretended it was a text and made my excuses and left saying family problems

did not contact them again as dont want to be fucking someone who is not really into it!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I met a couple a few years ago, we met for a drink in a pub.

I set me alarm for an hour just in case there was nothing in comon or no atraction.

I get the impression that it was all the male halfs idea and suspected the female was only going along with it because thats what he wanted and she seemed quite awkward about it all.

So when the alarm went off I pretended it was a text and made my excuses and left saying family problems

did not contact them again as dont want to be fucking someone who is not really into it!"

That's very different to just going to your car and driving off though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a couple a few years ago, we met for a drink in a pub.

I set me alarm for an hour just in case there was nothing in comon or no atraction.

I get the impression that it was all the male halfs idea and suspected the female was only going along with it because thats what he wanted and she seemed quite awkward about it all.

So when the alarm went off I pretended it was a text and made my excuses and left saying family problems

did not contact them again as dont want to be fucking someone who is not really into it!"
I can understand that, but, I think you should of said sorry, it seems a bit half hearted this.

I understand as we have been in the same situation.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody ever pretended they'd left something in their car and done a runner cos they didn't fancy the person/ people they had met when it got to the shall we go and play stage ?

Yep, but in my defence the photos she sent were not of her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never done a runner as it's a little rude. Always chat and socialise first and if there is no attraction either way then it's a nice to have met you and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody ever pretended they'd left something in their car and done a runner cos they didn't fancy the person/ people they had met when it got to the shall we go and play stage ?

Yep, but in my defence the photos she sent were not of her"

i don't get that, if you meet someone and don't like them it can be awkward to say sorry not for me, ive been there myself, but someone sending you fake pics is giving you a get out of jail free card to just say, you lied, I'm off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody ever pretended they'd left something in their car and done a runner cos they didn't fancy the person/ people they had met when it got to the shall we go and play stage ?

Yep, but in my defence the photos she sent were not of her

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

"No, we always have a social only meet to avoid that happening. "

Same!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet first so no problems

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