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Bareback in clubs - etiquette

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Just a query as to the etiquette in clubs really......

I like the idea of having sex in the big open room at our local club with multiple participants. I'm concerned that there are potential situations when a stranger nips in from behind that they may try to take advantage of having no condom on. This is totally against my swinging rule.

What's the etiquette? Should they pop a rubber on just out of some general standard or just for H&S?

Help...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a partner or friend at the back checking to ensure the condom law is respected.

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By *leasuresharerMan
over a year ago

southampton

You are in charge no exceptions, but maybe worth having someone on condom watch, anyone violating your rules will be escorted off the premises at most clubs

Just be clear that no bb under any circumstances

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Pop up a sign

Only kidding, but if you want to relax and take on all comers without having to check them first.

Ie have a cock slip inbetween your legs whilst your busy sucking someone else, you are probably best having a partner doing the admin duties.

Of course it could be a couple you trust, who can entertain each other and keep an eye on you.

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Pop up a sign

Only kidding, but if you want to relax and take on all comers without having to check them first.

Ie have a cock slip inbetween your legs whilst your busy sucking someone else, you are probably best having a partner doing the admin duties.

Of course it could be a couple you trust, who can entertain each other and keep an eye on you."

Wonder what i could pin the sign too

Good ideas xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is something else to consider from the Julian Assange extradition for rape case.

I quote the President of the Queens Bench Division "It would plainly be open to a jury to hold that if (the woman) had made clear that she would only consent to sexual intercourse if (The Man) used a condom, then there would be no consent if, without her consent, he did not use a condom, or removed or tore the condom ..... His conduct in having sexual intercourse without a condom in circumstances where she had made clear she would only have sexual intercourse if he used a condom would therefore amount to an offence under the Sexual Offences Act 2003...."

So sneaky bare-backers be aware - Sexual Offences Act 2003 awaits!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Have a partner or friend at the back checking to ensure the condom law is respected."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make a sing and stick to your body, "I use condom".. on my sticker "bareback" lol.

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By *ampopotwoCouple
over a year ago

southampton

I always keep an eye on proceedings when S is entertaining multiple guys, have told a couple to sling their hook when they've tried to go bareback.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Have a partner or friend at the back checking to ensure the condom law is respected. "

Agreed

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By *r FacilitatorMan
over a year ago

funky town

I took my ex to a club and she had 5 guys - all covered and I kept watch although I think it was a club rule no bb even if anyone wanted too

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

It is extremely unlikely that any guy will try to play bareback in a group sex situation in a club, especially if it is in an open space as you'd like.

Contrary to what some may like to believe, it will be very rare for that to happen.

But it is best to err on the side of caution, so as some have already suggested, have a male partner keep watch. If you can't get one, then I'll suggest you pick the guys you want to play with, tell them to avoid any doubt that it is safe sex only, and then tell them also that you're giving them the responsibility not to let anyone else join. If they let anyone else join, or anyone tries to play bareback, it will be play over for everyone.

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"It is extremely unlikely that any guy will try to play bareback in a group sex situation in a club, especially if it is in an open space as you'd like.

Contrary to what some may like to believe, it will be very rare for that to happen.

But it is best to err on the side of caution, so as some have already suggested, have a male partner keep watch. If you can't get one, then I'll suggest you pick the guys you want to play with, tell them to avoid any doubt that it is safe sex only, and then tell them also that you're giving them the responsibility not to let anyone else join. If they let anyone else join, or anyone tries to play bareback, it will be play over for everyone."

I like that suggestion, thank you x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have seen guys try to join in be but the ladies husband ensured they covered up.

I would say if it asituatiin where you don't mind others joining I. Without a prior chat be sure to have someone you trust ensuring they are all safe.... Don't rely on people being safe for etiquette sake as they may not know or adhere to yours it's unless pointed out... And yousy be otherwise engaged and not be free for a little chat!

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By *ampopotwoCouple
over a year ago

southampton


"It is extremely unlikely that any guy will try to play bareback in a group sex situation in a club, especially if it is in an open space as you'd like.

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We've had it happen a couple of times and we only go to a club once every few months.

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By *w33tCh33ks91TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

I always have a trick... I put the cock in me, that way I can feel if they wear a condom. No need for a friend to condom watch... Just have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to take a friend of mine to Chams when she felt like "getting banged"(her words).

I went with her to ride shotgun as it were to ensure condoms where always used. We always remained in physical contact (usually her head on my shoulder etc).

We found most guys very respectful - asking my permission to participate (she had previously given me a heads up on who was/wasn't acceptable to her). It was easy for me to make sure all sex was protected.

It also meant I was more comfortable later, because we, as regular partners, did not use a condom...but did go to the GUM clinic together every month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a query as to the etiquette in clubs really......

I like the idea of having sex in the big open room at our local club with multiple participants. I'm concerned that there are potential situations when a stranger nips in from behind that they may try to take advantage of having no condom on. This is totally against my swinging rule.

What's the etiquette? Should they pop a rubber on just out of some general standard or just for H&S?

Help..."

when a guy trys to entre me from behind i always put my hand between my legs as if to guide him in but really I'm having a feel for a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is something else to consider from the Julian Assange extradition for rape case.

I quote the President of the Queens Bench Division "It would plainly be open to a jury to hold that if (the woman) had made clear that she would only consent to sexual intercourse if (The Man) used a condom, then there would be no consent if, without her consent, he did not use a condom, or removed or tore the condom ..... His conduct in having sexual intercourse without a condom in circumstances where she had made clear she would only have sexual intercourse if he used a condom would therefore amount to an offence under the Sexual Offences Act 2003...."

So sneaky bare-backers be aware - Sexual Offences Act 2003 awaits!"

I knew some guy who had a bj at a glory hole, sadly the other guy replaced his mouth with his ass...very naughty

a bj un a gay saunas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife always keeps watch to ensure I'm safe. I like giving head and feeling a stranger take me without me seeing who. If she wasn't watching I couldn't do this.

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester


"There is something else to consider from the Julian Assange extradition for rape case.

I quote the President of the Queens Bench Division "It would plainly be open to a jury to hold that if (the woman) had made clear that she would only consent to sexual intercourse if (The Man) used a condom, then there would be no consent if, without her consent, he did not use a condom, or removed or tore the condom ..... His conduct in having sexual intercourse without a condom in circumstances where she had made clear she would only have sexual intercourse if he used a condom would therefore amount to an offence under the Sexual Offences Act 2003...."

So sneaky bare-backers be aware - Sexual Offences Act 2003 awaits!

I knew some guy who had a bj at a glory hole, sadly the other guy replaced his mouth with his ass...very naughty

a bj un a gay saunas."

God thats terrible,poor you !

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By *nIMidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Rugeley

Jen all ways put the cock in her with her hand that way she can feel if they r wearing a condom and have seen a lot of females do that too

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