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"lots of women arent put off at all, but i am." Could I ask why ? | |||
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"lots of women arent put off at all, but i am. Could I ask why ? " Some are some aren't just concentrate on the ones that aren't | |||
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"probably because every time i visit the GUM clinic they ask me if i have had sex with any bi men." This .... | |||
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"So am I supposed to be worried about meeting bi woman?? In the same way " Nope because bisexual women are not in a high risk sex category. I do not play with anyone who is on the high risk categories as giving blood is an important thing in my life. This is the list from the NHS about giving blood... You should not donate blood for 12 months after having sex with: a prostitute someone who has injected drugs someone who has haemophilia (a condition that stops your blood from clotting normally) someone who has been sexually active in parts of the world where AIDS and HIV are common, such as sub-Saharan Africa a man who has had oral or anal sex with another man (if you are female) a man (if you are male) As of November 2011, a man who has sex with men can donate blood provided they have not had anal or oral sex with a man during the past 12 months (even with a condom). Previously, men who had sex with men were not allowed to donate blood. | |||
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"So am I supposed to be worried about meeting bi woman?? In the same way " This is either naive or plain daft | |||
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"probably because every time i visit the GUM clinic they ask me if i have had sex with any bi men." I did ask the clinic about this and they explained that statistically bi guys are at a greater risk than straight guys. However, swingers are at a greater risk in their opinion but they don't have statistical data for them (us). It was suggested that I was at more risk from female swingers than bi men. | |||
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"I have never been asked the same question at the clinic just re anal and or unprotected sex male or female? " Me either and I go at least 4 times a year. I fail to see the difference between a bi guy having anal sex with another man and a straight guy having anal sex with a woman. Seems a little bit judgemental to me. As for the original question, some people just don't like the idea, some do. Personally it doesn't bother me even though I'm straight I'd still play with a bi couple. | |||
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"So am I supposed to be worried about meeting bi woman?? In the same way This is either naive or plain daft " | |||
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"I have a thing for playing MMF with bi guys. Lots of fun " Totally agree, so much more fun than with straight guys | |||
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"So am I supposed to be worried about meeting bi woman?? In the same way Nope because bisexual women are not in a high risk sex category. I do not play with anyone who is on the high risk categories as giving blood is an important thing in my life. This is the list from the NHS about giving blood... You should not donate blood for 12 months after having sex with: a prostitute someone who has injected drugs someone who has haemophilia (a condition that stops your blood from clotting normally) someone who has been sexually active in parts of the world where AIDS and HIV are common, such as sub-Saharan Africa a man who has had oral or anal sex with another man (if you are female) a man (if you are male) As of November 2011, a man who has sex with men can donate blood provided they have not had anal or oral sex with a man during the past 12 months (even with a condom). Previously, men who had sex with men were not allowed to donate blood." Very interesting to know thanks. | |||
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"They say bi men are more of a sexual health risk due to sticking their cocks up another guys ass unprotected. But again same as straight, some have unprotected vaginal sex again risks associated with it. " loads of bi men don't do anal | |||
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"I have a thing for playing MMF with bi guys. Lots of fun Totally agree, so much more fun than with straight guys " agree too, i don't do 3sums with straight guy as in comparison i find them boring, you cant beat sharing a cock with another guy | |||
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"Change ur status to straight instead lol." Stupid response as he shouldn't have to lie. I for one am a fan of bi guys but I will not meet a bi guy that has straight on his profile | |||
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"Change ur status to straight instead lol. Stupid response as he shouldn't have to lie. I for one am a fan of bi guys but I will not meet a bi guy that has straight on his profile " this is why I state that I'm bi no point in lying | |||
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"I'm safe with every meet but its one of the GUM questions about playing with bi guys, and also when I give blood, so for me, it affects the things that matter, so for that reason, I don't play with bi guys. Also, 2 guys playing together doesn't turn me on, so I'd rather have straight guys. " I'm the same. It doesn't turn me on, in fact the exact opposite. | |||
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"It's true that bi men are considered a higher risk category. But I believe whats even riskier are those women sleeping with guys who identify to them as straight but in reality also meet other men. Those women, it can be theorised, are more likely to have unprotected sex with such men as they think they are less risky..." Not likely, I don't have unprotected sex with anyone other than long term partners, and even that is after we both go get checked. I trust the (very) few people I do this with, and if I think they have cheated, I will abstain until further testing (sadly had to do this after my ex cheated on me after having his son) | |||
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"So am I supposed to be worried about meeting bi woman?? In the same way " Probably | |||
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"Change ur status to straight instead lol." silly response. | |||
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"First off everyone is entitled to their own preferences. That said The gum clinic stats are based on massive assumptions. Let's be honest every person on this site is high risk full stop. So if you state that the only reason for not playing with bi men is for health reasons your kidding yourself your as high risk if not more so for being here. Straight men how straight are they really we get lots of mail from "straight men" stating they are secretly bi. Anal between men or men women carry the same risk. Protect your selves and stay safe just don't kid yourself over your reasons " Well said. For those of you who think you are avoiding bi guys it's a pity you can't see the messages I receive because when I look at your verifications I often spot familiar names. | |||
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"They tend to ask me if I've slept with any Asian men for some reason. " Hepatitis c is more common in the Asian community mainly they think due to vaccination practices some years ago | |||
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" loads of bi men don't do anal " this.. | |||
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"GUM statistics are total tripe. The sample population is of people that go to the GUM clinic or those that go to the doc when their bits turn green. It doesn't take into account all the other sexually active people that think they are immune from std's." Plus think I'm in a higher risk category due to the number of partners I have than a bi guy who might have only had 1/2 since his last round of STD testing! I do get asked every time though if I have been with bi men, and they don't seem to approve of my response of 'I'm working on it' | |||
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"GUM statistics are total tripe. The sample population is of people that go to the GUM clinic or those that go to the doc when their bits turn green. It doesn't take into account all the other sexually active people that think they are immune from std's. Plus think I'm in a higher risk category due to the number of partners I have than a bi guy who might have only had 1/2 since his last round of STD testing! I do get asked every time though if I have been with bi men, and they don't seem to approve of my response of 'I'm working on it' " Try harder. | |||
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"GUM statistics are total tripe. The sample population is of people that go to the GUM clinic or those that go to the doc when their bits turn green. It doesn't take into account all the other sexually active people that think they are immune from std's. Plus think I'm in a higher risk category due to the number of partners I have than a bi guy who might have only had 1/2 since his last round of STD testing! I do get asked every time though if I have been with bi men, and they don't seem to approve of my response of 'I'm working on it' " You've not messaged me | |||
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"GUM statistics are total tripe. The sample population is of people that go to the GUM clinic or those that go to the doc when their bits turn green. It doesn't take into account all the other sexually active people that think they are immune from std's. Plus think I'm in a higher risk category due to the number of partners I have than a bi guy who might have only had 1/2 since his last round of STD testing! I do get asked every time though if I have been with bi men, and they don't seem to approve of my response of 'I'm working on it' " O don't mind working on you lol and I don't consider being bi any higher risk than being straight I always take precautions and always get to know who im having sex with first as well. It is just presumed that bi men must go bareback and be full of disease. Nobody complains about bi women !!! | |||
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"I have a thing for playing MMF with bi guys. Lots of fun " Me too x | |||
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"Not put off at all personally but would be put off from meeting you for 2 reasons. A poor profile showing hardly any effort & the fact you refer to yourself as a bull" That's irrelevant to the question he asked | |||
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"Not put off at all personally but would be put off from meeting you for 2 reasons. A poor profile showing hardly any effort & the fact you refer to yourself as a bull That's irrelevant to the question he asked" are you the forum police lol, its a little side tracked but not irrelevant, the op is asking a question as he is clearly struggling and he believes its because he is bi, that post just offered him advice on whatelse it could be, so slightly of subject but not totally irrelevant. | |||
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"Don't want a cock in my pussi that been up a blokes ass just my thought " | |||
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"Not put off at all personally but would be put off from meeting you for 2 reasons. A poor profile showing hardly any effort & the fact you refer to yourself as a bull That's irrelevant to the question he asked" | |||
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"Cos you been up a blokes bum.no woman want a shitty cunt,or an infection" But it's ok if it's been up a woman's arse? They're just as shitty...or do you think women shit rose petals? | |||
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"Cos you been up a blokes bum.no woman want a shitty cunt,or an infection But it's ok if it's been up a woman's arse? They're just as shitty...or do you think women shit rose petals? " I do | |||
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"Cos you been up a blokes bum.no woman want a shitty cunt,or an infection But it's ok if it's been up a woman's arse? They're just as shitty...or do you think women shit rose petals? I do " I love you lol | |||
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"Cos you been up a blokes bum.no woman want a shitty cunt,or an infection But it's ok if it's been up a woman's arse? They're just as shitty...or do you think women shit rose petals? " Don't ever crush that vision. | |||
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"Cos you been up a blokes bum.no woman want a shitty cunt,or an infection But it's ok if it's been up a woman's arse? They're just as shitty...or do you think women shit rose petals? I do " xx | |||
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"So am I supposed to be worried about meeting bi woman?? In the same way Nope because bisexual women are not in a high risk sex category. I do not play with anyone who is on the high risk categories as giving blood is an important thing in my life. This is the list from the NHS about giving blood... You should not donate blood for 12 months after having sex with: a prostitute someone who has injected drugs someone who has haemophilia (a condition that stops your blood from clotting normally) someone who has been sexually active in parts of the world where AIDS and HIV are common, such as sub-Saharan Africa a man who has had oral or anal sex with another man (if you are female) a man (if you are male) As of November 2011, a man who has sex with men can donate blood provided they have not had anal or oral sex with a man during the past 12 months (even with a condom). Previously, men who had sex with men were not allowed to donate blood." so do you ask everyone you have sex with all these questions about themselves and everyone they've ever had sex with? Surely there's no way you can guarantee their replies are true anyway | |||
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"Cos you been up a blokes bum.no woman want a shitty cunt,or an infection" Not many bi guys actually fuck guys. I don't. It's not that easy finding ones that do...... Altho they are out there | |||
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"Bi guys are a bit of a turn on " | |||
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"Cos you been up a blokes bum.no woman want a shitty cunt,or an infection" I see you have anal down as one of your interests. | |||
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"Cos you been up a blokes bum.no woman want a shitty cunt,or an infection Not many bi guys actually fuck guys. I don't. It's not that easy finding ones that do...... Altho they are out there " Maybe but you would never know for sure because people dont always tell the truth do they? | |||
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"Cos you been up a blokes bum.no woman want a shitty cunt,or an infection" haha wow. ermm dunno what to say to that, other then i wear protection and you wash after? | |||
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"I don't get all the "straight" guys who are totally slating bi guys but then want to watch girl on girl action. Some people need to live a little and try things for themselves. Re giving blood have people forgotton the part about not giving blood if lots of sexual partners? " It doesn't ask that on the forms in my area... It asks about drugs and sex for money but no mention of number of partners? | |||
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"Change ur status to straight instead lol. Stupid response as he shouldn't have to lie. I for one am a fan of bi guys but I will not meet a bi guy that has straight on his profile this is why I state that I'm bi no point in lying " I absolutely swear by this method! | |||
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"Change ur status to straight instead lol. Stupid response as he shouldn't have to lie. I for one am a fan of bi guys but I will not meet a bi guy that has straight on his profile this is why I state that I'm bi no point in lying " Very admirable I my opinio | |||
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"So am I supposed to be worried about meeting bi woman?? In the same way Nope because bisexual women are not in a high risk sex category. I do not play with anyone who is on the high risk categories as giving blood is an important thing in my life. This is the list from the NHS about giving blood... You should not donate blood for 12 months after having sex with: a prostitute someone who has injected drugs someone who has haemophilia (a condition that stops your blood from clotting normally) someone who has been sexually active in parts of the world where AIDS and HIV are common, such as sub-Saharan Africa a man who has had oral or anal sex with another man (if you are female) a man (if you are male) As of November 2011, a man who has sex with men can donate blood provided they have not had anal or oral sex with a man during the past 12 months (even with a condom). Previously, men who had sex with men were not allowed to donate blood. so do you ask everyone you have sex with all these questions about themselves and everyone they've ever had sex with? Surely there's no way you can guarantee their replies are true anyway " No, I know there are no guarantees, and yes I do ask questions and turn down meets because of it - I don't play with offshore guys who work in Africa etc (quite a few up in my area) I don't actually have lots of sexual partners compared to my "vanilla" friends, because I would rather wait and find the right person to play with than do random one night stands - which I have never done. | |||
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"Change ur status to straight instead lol. Stupid response as he shouldn't have to lie. I for one am a fan of bi guys but I will not meet a bi guy that has straight on his profile this is why I state that I'm bi no point in lying Very admirable I my opinio " YeS the amount of 'straight' guys who mail me, 'I only put that so it doesn't put women and couples off.' Yes I'm sure they'd rather meet a liar than a honest bi guy. I've met women and couples because I'm open and honest, I gave up even being bi curious a long time ago. I got a brilliant mail from a 'straight' guy the other month, 'I'm not into bi / gay stuff but I'd love to suck two men off.' FFS | |||
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"I like bi guys " | |||
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"why are women so put of with bi lads" Not us either | |||
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"My husband and I met with a straight guy and would not do it again, now bi men is another story met with 3 now and love it real turn on seeing my husband getting fucked, then me getting fucked by the both of them at same time " Oooh how yummy | |||
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"My husband and I met with a straight guy and would not do it again, now bi men is another story met with 3 now and love it real turn on seeing my husband getting fucked, then me getting fucked by the both of them at same time " I remember may years ago my first proper MMF with my then GF and my best mate, it was fantastic. It's many many years ago but I was talking to the lady only last year and she was saying one of her favourite memories and turns on when playing with herself is seeing both of us sucking each others cocks. Then loving it so much when we were both inside and came at the same time, could we have done that if both straight. Before anyone even thought about AIDs before anyone complains. | |||
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"I am bi and it surprises me how many times supposed straight guys contact me on hear for a meet my theory is that lots of guys put straight on there profile to try and attract more ladies or that they are married and don't want the wife to know that they are bi " | |||
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"Prefer bi guys. hard to find ones that are open with their sexuality" | |||
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"I am bi and it surprises me how many times supposed straight guys contact me on hear for a meet my theory is that lots of guys put straight on there profile to try and attract more ladies or that they are married and don't want the wife to know that they are bi " I get lots too, best one was from a straight guy saying he wasn't into gay / bi stuff but he really wanted to try sucking two cocks? It makes me laugh when couples and women say they won't see bi guys, they've probably seen lots without knowing. I can play straight when someone wants that, however at quite a lot of events it's interesting how many straight guys want to get involved with me. The last time it happened the guy was wanking by the bed while I fucked his wife. He reached down and got my hand, getting me to stroke his cock, he got really excited when I came, I took his cock in my mouth and swallowed the lot | |||
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"Met a swinger on this site that was due to marry his swinging partner to her he was a straight guy and a straight swinger but to me he was a bi swinger" but lets just keep that between us ok " Some people just lie to everyone including themselves " I think most couples and single women are happy with and often want bi guys. So called 'straight' guys are probably missing out on meeting more people than they do by being dishonest. Most people whatever their sexuality prefer honest people. I won a lady over recently when one part of my mail to her mentioned that I gave up being curious an untold number of cocks ago | |||
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"Met a swinger on this site that was due to marry his swinging partner to her he was a straight guy and a straight swinger but to me he was a bi swinger" but lets just keep that between us ok " Some people just lie to everyone including themselves I have had something like this happen to me I have been refused a meet with a couple on here because I am bi. Ok that's fine I think until me contacts me from his own male profile saying he would like to meet up as he is bi and the wife is unaware that he is bi in any way. " | |||
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