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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, why do I seem to only attract timewasters. Get chatting to ladies for a while, arrange a meet then they disappear! Never replying to messages again! Are there any genuine ladies on this site???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not a single one

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Are they verified, I'm guessing most aren't??

Probably fairly likely they are guys using fake profiles (does this really happen lol???)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easier finding rockie horses sh *t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, would say most are cock teasers as we call them in the business lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock teaser who has a cock and is a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a bizarre twist, I've never had a single issue with cock teases or timewasters. Must be down to my own selection criteria...

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

If you work on the premise that 90% of people on here are fake you won't be far wrong !

Check their veris to see that they do actually meet people

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The common denominator is you, OP, so it might be something you're doing or not doing that is causing all these people to stop wanting to be in contact with you. Could looking at that aspect suggest some possible solutions to the problem?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"In a bizarre twist, I've never had a single issue with cock teases or timewasters. Must be down to my own selection criteria..."

Could it also be you have a certain set of standards that you always abide by?

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak

Think I have been reading far 2 much about breastfeeding. As I saw let down and thought it was linked with that lol

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

Just look at peoples verifications , that should give you more of an idea if they are real or fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of genuine people on here. Yes there are some fakes but they are usually pretty easy to spot.

I have been stood up before. But then got a genuine reason after. But all the others I have arranged meets with have turned up. Just keep trying I say.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hi everyone, why do I seem to only attract timewasters. Get chatting to ladies for a while, arrange a meet then they disappear! Never replying to messages again! Are there any genuine ladies on this site??? "

Quite a lot genuine ones, I've met lots. There are some fakes and time wasters, but as others have said it's a matter of filtering them out. As also mentioned by someone else perhaps it's something you've said or used in your approach that hasn't helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a bizarre twist, I've never had a single issue with cock teases or timewasters. Must be down to my own selection criteria...

Could it also be you have a certain set of standards that you always abide by?"

I definitely have high standards and expectations...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there are genuine people on here. To state there is not is rather childish and will certainly get you put on a few block lists. It's all down to your selection criteria or maybe lack if it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just assume they are all fake until you actually meet them

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Just assume they are all fake until you actually meet them "

Nothing like the power of positive thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would be nice to get a first meet to then put up a veri :/ hmmmm catch 22?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would be nice to get a first meet to then put up a veri :/ hmmmm catch 22?

its proving very difficult to arrange anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you arrange to meet at "the fisting club" or "murder ally"?

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Of course there are genuine people on here. To state there is not is rather childish and will certainly get you put on a few block lists. It's all down to your selection criteria or maybe lack if it."

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"it would be nice to get a first meet to then put up a veri :/ hmmmm catch 22?

its proving very difficult to arrange anything."

You might be struggling a bit because you only want to meet single women and most women I've met have usually wanted more than one man. Mind you I've often been the more than one man (men) so maybe that's just the women I've met.

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