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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a quick question, I've been reading the forums trying to get the profile interesting, and have been writing considered emails that on the whole get at least a polite no thanks.

There are a few where it's quite clear that they have been lost in the backlog....questions is, what should you do here?

Wait for the off chance they make it through the backlog,

Resend it and risk looking pushy or desperate?

Cheers

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I ignore any mails that get re sent and delete both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait it out mate. Resending just seems pushy to me and if your message is simply read and deleted without reply consider it a thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kind of what I thought, though I've a few unread messages from like 4 days ago.

It's those messages I'm thinking about, you've got to wonder whether they'll ever get read seeing as the ratios here mean it's likely they're 100 message back by now

Is there a point where you can re email. Like after a week and it not seem rude? I get read and delete.

Unread and delete makes you wonder

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think you can remail after a week, particularly if you can make it witty and lighthearted, we all know what a hard time single guys get on here, and yes, sometimes we have mail we meant to reply to that just gets buried. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, guess it's one of those personal preferences, fine lines between what one will find impatient and another will find it proof of uninterest.

Lovely legs btw

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By *ananaPieCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I think you can remail after a week, particularly if you can make it witty and lighthearted, we all know what a hard time single guys get on here, and yes, sometimes we have mail we meant to reply to that just gets buried. Good luck."

Second that too. We get a fair bit of mail and sometimes messages just get lost and then auto deleted. Even when we meant to reply. The only repeat messages we hate are the ones that are pushy. Like "Are we going to meet?""Did you get my message?""Guessing that's a no then."

Best thing to do is kind of start again. Keep it fresh and don't message every week! Be patient with a response.

D & C

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah wasn't going to bombard people, equally didn't want to get ignored!

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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