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can not accom/travel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does that mean then would like to be picked up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Does that mean then would like to be picked up "

Yeah or that they like sex on their back door step.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Brill lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily, they might use public transport and hotels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The may also only wish to meet at swingers clubs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may simply have not bothered to complete their profile or inadvertently forgot.

Concentrating on our own profiles not others is best I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal circumstances can also dictate the cant accommodate/travel .....

Not everyone has transport of their own home as some can't drive/don't have a car and some share a home with a.n other....sometimes of course that is a partner or could be a friend/family members.... best not to judge without knowing personal circumstance.... chat to them and ask...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they want a local meet normally not at their home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accommodate or drive therefore i only meet at clubs and hotels close to me, i make my own way there and back though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fcuk letting someone you just met online into ur home

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"fcuk letting someone you just met online into ur home

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tell me about it to many trusting ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fcuk letting someone you just met online into ur home

tell me about it to many trusting ppl "

Hang on - they're ok to fuck but not ok to let inside the house? Both require trust and intimacy?


"I think they want a local meet normally not at their home."

Bang on! This is the case for me. I don't have time to travel, and I love it when people invite me in their home!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"fcuk letting someone you just met online into ur home

tell me about it to many trusting ppl

Hang on - they're ok to fuck but not ok to let inside the house? Both require trust and intimacy?

I think they want a local meet normally not at their home.

Bang on! This is the case for me. I don't have time to travel, and I love it when people invite me in their home! "

How do you get to their homes without travelling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they want a local meet normally not at their home."

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with me its because I don't accom due to family and I can't travel very far due to time, so it has to be a hotel near me or someone local who can accom. The last thing I want is to rely on someone else for transport.....I might want to make a quick getaway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How do you get to their homes without travelling?"

If you say you can travel people expect you to travel miles

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"

How do you get to their homes without travelling?

If you say you can travel people expect you to travel miles"

Simpler to say on your profile that you travel great distances, (give an idea, 10 miles 20 etc).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, most people take absolutely no notice of it anyway!!

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


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How do you get to their homes without travelling?

If you say you can travel people expect you to travel miles"

This

I can't accom due to children. However, I do drive and have my own car - but I don't want to travel too far for meets because time spent travelling is less time spent doing more fun stuff.

I also mainly meet at clubs - and would hardly ever pair up with a guy from fab to do so - I'll meet them in there and that way if there's no spark we can easily move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How do you get to their homes without travelling?

If you say you can travel people expect you to travel miles

Simpler to say on your profile that you travel great distances, (give an idea, 10 miles 20 etc)."

I find there is no need for that....it also changes how far I can travel depending on what time I have...and also who it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have time to travel, and I love it when people invite me in their home!

How do you get to their homes without travelling?"

I can manage 30' on the bus Sometimes I walk there! So basically, 5 mile radius - not what I would call travelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How do you get to their homes without travelling?

If you say you can travel people expect you to travel miles

Simpler to say on your profile that you travel great distances, (give an idea, 10 miles 20 etc).

I find there is no need for that....it also changes how far I can travel depending on what time I have...and also who it is"

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I know it's not just me but I and others get put off by can't 'accommodate / can't travel'. It seems to say possibly a bit of a messer. Personally I would rather see 'I'll only travel within (whatever radius) and work it out from there.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Not all profiles are logically set out and may mean local only. For me clubs are great as attraction is easier to figure out and I also enjoy social side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's not just me but I and others get put off by can't 'accommodate / can't travel'. It seems to say possibly a bit of a messer. Personally I would rather see 'I'll only travel within (whatever radius) and work it out from there. "

if it puts people off messaging then thats fine by me.....I prefer to find my own anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does that mean then would like to be picked up "

They are probably in an institution or jail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fcuk letting someone you just met online into ur home

tell me about it to many trusting ppl

Hang on - they're ok to fuck but not ok to let inside the house? Both require trust and intimacy?

I think they want a local meet normally not at their home.

Bang on! This is the case for me. I don't have time to travel, and I love it when people invite me in their home! "

If you came to my house I may never let you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's not just me but I and others get put off by can't 'accommodate / can't travel'. It seems to say possibly a bit of a messer."

A bit concerned about this? It is all about life circumstances. If I read this on someone's profile, I pity them because they've made their pool of potentials *so* much smaller (I definitely suffer from this).


"If you came to my house I may never let you out"

Your ironing pile is that high?!

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