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Is being a sub male a turn off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering if my preference is putting the ladies off

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It would put us off, but many gave a taste for these things. As with everything on here, it's all about different personal preferences.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"It would put us off, but many gave a taste for these things. As with everything on here, it's all about different personal preferences. "

Us too but its a complex world on here and we say "whatever floats your boat"

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"It would put us off, but many gave a taste for these things. As with everything on here, it's all about different personal preferences.

Us too but its a complex world on here and we say "whatever floats your boat""

^^ This ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While it may put off some, as they aren't into the fet scene, it may also be a case of the not being many Dommes out there. Dommes are slightly less common and many of the ones I've spoken to prefer to Dom in a nonsexual way. I think it's likely that it'll just take time and patience on your part. You're not alone. I'm a sub.....a single, bi, submissive, unclaimed female. I remain unclaimed because I'm damn picky about what i want from a Dom and won't settle. I get exactly how frustrating it is. Have you tried the more specialist site for the fet scene? Going to local munches, etc?

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Puts me off....as a sub myself i hate to see a man on his knees...thats my place ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah ive been on another site cant say which one but not much luck on there if im being honest ,the domes I encounter on here seem to either want you to be bi or promoting other sites

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just wondering if my preference is putting the ladies off "

We are here for our own brand of hedonistic fun. We will NEVER have universal appeal. All tastes are catered for so don't worry about those that are "put off" focus on those who may be turned on.

If more people were honest about what turned them on sexually, some of us would find playmates more easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience all men end up doing as they're told or led to do anyway.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have to say that the "Sub" role generally confuses me a bit. If I want to be Dominant then really I need a little resistance, otherwise I'm not really being "That" dominant am I?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"In my experience all men end up doing as they're told or led to do anyway."

Oh and yes.... I always do as I'm told. Even though I'm sometimes told "Dominate Me!"

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By *ctaviusStuntMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Its possible that it puts people off who lack imagination. In which case i wouldnt worry stay true to yourself.

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich


"Just wondering if my preference is putting the ladies off

We are here for our own brand of hedonistic fun. We will NEVER have universal appeal. All tastes are catered for so don't worry about those that are "put off" focus on those who may be turned on.

If more people were honest about what turned them on sexually, some of us would find playmates more easily."

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks I don't want to change as it rele turns me on

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