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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a quick question...As a single male, if I go to a meet at someones home, is it bad manners to be too forward?

Should I control my urges and wait for the lady to to pounce?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick question...As a single male, if I go to a meet at someones home, is it bad manners to be too forward?

Should I control my urges and wait for the lady to to pounce? "

Personally i would xx

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By *ethot69Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Definitely wait in most scenarios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a cpl we never make the first move thats just how we are

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Well someone has to make the first move and its usually me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well someone has to make the first move and its usually me "

Tart xx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Well someone has to make the first move and its usually me

Tart xx "

Better than twiddling my thumbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well someone has to make the first move and its usually me

Tart xx

Better than twiddling my thumbs"

Ya can twiddle my thumbs anytime xx

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By *INKKKYMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL/ WIRRAL


"Definitely wait in most scenarios."
i agree, thats how would like it to be!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If you waited for me to make the first move, we'd still be sat here at christmas!!

I'm not all that forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its usually me who makes the first move,of comes my dress or whatever im wearing thats usually gets things going lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be that she may also be quite nervous though, but you never can tell. I wouldn't assume anything, she may decide having met you that she doesn't want to play! Being unassuming has its charms too, but if you're unsure then just ask in a polite way. Plus, surely its nicer and more relaxing to spend a bit of time getting to know eachother first?

I'm sure it will all become apparent, just play it by ear, but certainly don't pounce unless it's blantantly obvious that's what she wants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think I need to look for more ladies like Mrs Honeypotcouple haha

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

we're always slow in coming forward, on one occassion we sat up till 8 in the morning then went to bed to sleep was a lovely meal though lol......................... so if anyone wants us you better make it really clear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

AandK....fancy a shag? hahahaha!

Wow were you drinking redbull to stay up until 8am?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Think I need to look for more ladies like Mrs Honeypotcouple haha "

I think you just know when its right,well I hav'nt been told to sod off yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you waited for me to make the first move, we'd still be sat here at christmas!!

I'm not all that forward. "

What that woman said.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"AandK....fancy a shag? hahahaha!

Wow were you drinking redbull to stay up until 8am? "

Redbull only gives you wings

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Im with HPC on this one, if you want something ...go get it

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Im with HPC on this one, if you want something ...go get it "

come and get me

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Im with HPC on this one, if you want something ...go get it

come and get me "
next time sexy

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Im with HPC on this one, if you want something ...go get it

come and get me next time sexy "

mmmmmm

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Im with HPC on this one, if you want something ...go get it

come and get me next time sexy

mmmmmm "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can someone point me in the right direction for which of you lovely ladies needs to be "got"

haha

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