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"Very high sex drive here. I quite often was the one that instigated sex with my partners. Found it hard lying next to a naked body without getting physical. Even had a partner ask me if I was just seeing him for sex. " | |||
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"Thankfully we both have a very high sex drive which make us compatible I guess...in the "outside" world it would appear that it's OK for guys but frowned upon for girls....which is nonsense" Yes...in the "vanilla" world it tends to be very much double standards...a lady is considered a slut or a Nike....a guy is a stud or a hero of some kind. Much better atmosphere here were all are accepted as normal.. | |||
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"Forgot to add...but, moving on 2yrs later i met someone off here who called me a sexual warrior as he said he'd never met a woman that gave it back as much as she took " A sexual warrior....I like that... | |||
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"Lol...that should read bike not Nike...." I was hoping to learn that Nike was a Greek goddess of sexuality | |||
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"When I first entered the swinging scene a couple years ago, one of my greatest joys was to find out that my overactive sex drive, which I'd been brought up to believe as major character flaw, was within this context a desirable asset. In the past, I had been called "greedy" not only by people faulting me, but also by people whom I loved and who loved me - this actually hurt. But in swinging nomenclature, many words have a different colour - I don't even register on the greedy scale! A totally new frame of reference, where "insatiable" is a compliment! The whole experience has made me realise just how much sexual appetites differ, and that it is so much easier for people with lower sex drives to pack it away and do something else. So now I know... not to take morality advice on sex matters from anyone that doesn't need a "maintenance" wank at least daily " I'm with you on that, glad to know now from being on here that I'm not the only woman who has a high sex drive, continuously thinking about sex, | |||
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"My sex drive is extremely high. I constantly think about sex. I've always had a vivid imagination. But unlike some, I hid it. Only my partners knew of my voracious appetite. People percieve me as innocent. I wear my mask well. Only on fab can I truly be myself. Even through dry spells I would watch porn, and have a play. Put it this way...you will never hear me utter the words " not tonight, I have a headache" " | |||
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"I've always had an attraction to women with extremely high sex drives. Females who are always thinking about sex, and often doing it. Particularly intelligent women. If I hear a woman described as a slut, which can be a highly derogatory term, I want to find out more. I know it's a social norm to look for women who are chaste and pure (although hardly a Fab norm) but I rather prefer the opposite. I'd love to hear from people who share this attraction and particularly genuine women who feel this way," my personal opinion is that most men are attracted to women that are sexually promiscuous, just look at how popular female porn stars are amongst men. typically, however, men do not consider these women to be appropriate for long term relationships and marriage. therefore, these women are desired by men, but only for short term casual sex. nevertheless, there are some men that go against convention because they receive great sexual gratification from having a 'slut wife'. i have never been in a relationship, long or short term, with a 'slut'. however, providing i liked her personality, i don't have any problem with it. actually, i do fantasise about what it would be like to date a 'slut'. this maybe controversial, but the thought of her having sex with other men, particularly well hung black men, whilst being in a relationship with me is very erotic. | |||
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"I've always had an attraction to women with extremely high sex drives. Females who are always thinking about sex, and often doing it. Particularly intelligent women. If I hear a woman described as a slut, which can be a highly derogatory term, I want to find out more. I know it's a social norm to look for women who are chaste and pure (although hardly a Fab norm) but I rather prefer the opposite. I'd love to hear from people who share this attraction and particularly genuine women who feel this way, my personal opinion is that most men are attracted to women that are sexually promiscuous, just look at how popular female porn stars are amongst men. typically, however, men do not consider these women to be appropriate for long term relationships and marriage. therefore, these women are desired by men, but only for short term casual sex. nevertheless, there are some men that go against convention because they receive great sexual gratification from having a 'slut wife'. i have never been in a relationship, long or short term, with a 'slut'. however, providing i liked her personality, i don't have any problem with it. actually, i do fantasise about what it would be like to date a 'slut'. this maybe controversial, but the thought of her having sex with other men, particularly well hung black men, whilst being in a relationship with me is very erotic." Having a high sex drive does not automatically make you a "slut" | |||
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"My sex drive is extremely high. I constantly think about sex. I've always had a vivid imagination. But unlike some, I hid it. Only my partners knew of my voracious appetite. People percieve me as innocent. I wear my mask well. Only on fab can I truly be myself. Even through dry spells I would watch porn, and have a play. Put it this way...you will never hear me utter the words " not tonight, I have a headache" " They do say the quiet ones are the worse. Lol. I would say most people aren't open about it in a day to day situation, but just with partners. It's only on fab that I have found it so openly talked about. | |||
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"I've always had an attraction to women with extremely high sex drives. Females who are always thinking about sex, and often doing it. Particularly intelligent women. If I hear a woman described as a slut, which can be a highly derogatory term, I want to find out more. I know it's a social norm to look for women who are chaste and pure (although hardly a Fab norm) but I rather prefer the opposite. I'd love to hear from people who share this attraction and particularly genuine women who feel this way, my personal opinion is that most men are attracted to women that are sexually promiscuous, just look at how popular female porn stars are amongst men. typically, however, men do not consider these women to be appropriate for long term relationships and marriage. therefore, these women are desired by men, but only for short term casual sex. nevertheless, there are some men that go against convention because they receive great sexual gratification from having a 'slut wife'. i have never been in a relationship, long or short term, with a 'slut'. however, providing i liked her personality, i don't have any problem with it. actually, i do fantasise about what it would be like to date a 'slut'. this maybe controversial, but the thought of her having sex with other men, particularly well hung black men, whilst being in a relationship with me is very erotic. Having a high sex drive does not automatically make you a "slut"" i agree with you. however, if you read what i wrote, i did not mention women with 'high sex drives'; i explicitly stated that i find women that are sexually promiscuous (sluts) attractive, lol. | |||
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"Slightly at a tangent here not hijacking I hope just expanding. I wouldn't say that I'm highly sexed but I am open, flirty and dress to accentuate my figure, this has led to disapproval and dark mutterings of "you'll get yourself into trouble" and the implication that nice girls don't behave that way. Mr N says it's jealousy but it is mostly moral judgement on a woman who isn't afraid to be sexual. It's refreshing to come across a group of people who don't make that judgement however some on here still do." | |||
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"I've always had an attraction to women with extremely high sex drives. Females who are always thinking about sex, and often doing it. Particularly intelligent women. If I hear a woman described as a slut, which can be a highly derogatory term, I want to find out more. I know it's a social norm to look for women who are chaste and pure (although hardly a Fab norm) but I rather prefer the opposite. I'd love to hear from people who share this attraction and particularly genuine women who feel this way," Is this a social norm these days? If so, I must be fabnormal! | |||
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"I've always had an attraction to women with extremely high sex drives. Females who are always thinking about sex, and often doing it. Particularly intelligent women. If I hear a woman described as a slut, which can be a highly derogatory term, I want to find out more. I know it's a social norm to look for women who are chaste and pure (although hardly a Fab norm) but I rather prefer the opposite. I'd love to hear from people who share this attraction and particularly genuine women who feel this way, my personal opinion is that most men are attracted to women that are sexually promiscuous, just look at how popular female porn stars are amongst men. typically, however, men do not consider these women to be appropriate for long term relationships and marriage. therefore, these women are desired by men, but only for short term casual sex. nevertheless, there are some men that go against convention because they receive great sexual gratification from having a 'slut wife'. i have never been in a relationship, long or short term, with a 'slut'. however, providing i liked her personality, i don't have any problem with it. actually, i do fantasise about what it would be like to date a 'slut'. this maybe controversial, but the thought of her having sex with other men, particularly well hung black men, whilst being in a relationship with me is very erotic." You do realize that a woman with an extremely high sex drive does not necessarily shag anything that moves, right? I find it humorous that some men who are man whores, would prefer to settle down with women who have average sex drives, for the sake of appearances. Isn't it better to have every aspect of the relationship covered? I consider myself to be a slut. But that doesnt mean I have slept with endless random men.....not even on fab. | |||
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"I've always had an attraction to women with extremely high sex drives. Females who are always thinking about sex, and often doing it. Particularly intelligent women. If I hear a woman described as a slut, which can be a highly derogatory term, I want to find out more. I know it's a social norm to look for women who are chaste and pure (although hardly a Fab norm) but I rather prefer the opposite. I'd love to hear from people who share this attraction and particularly genuine women who feel this way, my personal opinion is that most men are attracted to women that are sexually promiscuous, just look at how popular female porn stars are amongst men. typically, however, men do not consider these women to be appropriate for long term relationships and marriage. therefore, these women are desired by men, but only for short term casual sex. nevertheless, there are some men that go against convention because they receive great sexual gratification from having a 'slut wife'. i have never been in a relationship, long or short term, with a 'slut'. however, providing i liked her personality, i don't have any problem with it. actually, i do fantasise about what it would be like to date a 'slut'. this maybe controversial, but the thought of her having sex with other men, particularly well hung black men, whilst being in a relationship with me is very erotic. You do realize that a woman with an extremely high sex drive does not necessarily shag anything that moves, right? I find it humorous that some men who are man whores, would prefer to settle down with women who have average sex drives, for the sake of appearances. Isn't it better to have every aspect of the relationship covered? I consider myself to be a slut. But that doesnt mean I have slept with endless random men.....not even on fab. " lol, i did not mention women with 'high sex drives'; i explicitly referred to women that are 'sexually promiscuous'. a woman with a high sex drive likes a lot of sex, maybe with a single man. whereas, a sexually promiscuous woman enjoys a lot of sex with many different men. lol, i fantasise about the cuckold relationship. therefore, to fulfil my fantasy, i require a promiscuous woman. | |||
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"I've always had an attraction to women with extremely high sex drives. Females who are always thinking about sex, and often doing it. Particularly intelligent women. If I hear a woman described as a slut, which can be a highly derogatory term, I want to find out more. I know it's a social norm to look for women who are chaste and pure (although hardly a Fab norm) but I rather prefer the opposite. I'd love to hear from people who share this attraction and particularly genuine women who feel this way, my personal opinion is that most men are attracted to women that are sexually promiscuous, just look at how popular female porn stars are amongst men. typically, however, men do not consider these women to be appropriate for long term relationships and marriage. therefore, these women are desired by men, but only for short term casual sex. nevertheless, there are some men that go against convention because they receive great sexual gratification from having a 'slut wife'. i have never been in a relationship, long or short term, with a 'slut'. however, providing i liked her personality, i don't have any problem with it. actually, i do fantasise about what it would be like to date a 'slut'. this maybe controversial, but the thought of her having sex with other men, particularly well hung black men, whilst being in a relationship with me is very erotic. You do realize that a woman with an extremely high sex drive does not necessarily shag anything that moves, right? I find it humorous that some men who are man whores, would prefer to settle down with women who have average sex drives, for the sake of appearances. Isn't it better to have every aspect of the relationship covered? I consider myself to be a slut. But that doesnt mean I have slept with endless random men.....not even on fab. lol, i did not mention women with 'high sex drives'; i explicitly referred to women that are 'sexually promiscuous'. a woman with a high sex drive likes a lot of sex, maybe with a single man. whereas, a sexually promiscuous woman enjoys a lot of sex with many different men. lol, i fantasise about the cuckold relationship. therefore, to fulfil my fantasy, i require a promiscuous woman. " Well you are most certainly on the right site | |||
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" I consider myself to be a slut. But that doesnt mean I have slept with endless random men.....not even on fab. " Lol never head that one before | |||
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"I've always had an attraction to women with extremely high sex drives. Females who are always thinking about sex, and often doing it. Particularly intelligent women. If I hear a woman described as a slut, which can be a highly derogatory term, I want to find out more. I know it's a social norm to look for women who are chaste and pure (although hardly a Fab norm) but I rather prefer the opposite. I'd love to hear from people who share this attraction and particularly genuine women who feel this way, my personal opinion is that most men are attracted to women that are sexually promiscuous, just look at how popular female porn stars are amongst men. typically, however, men do not consider these women to be appropriate for long term relationships and marriage. therefore, these women are desired by men, but only for short term casual sex. nevertheless, there are some men that go against convention because they receive great sexual gratification from having a 'slut wife'. i have never been in a relationship, long or short term, with a 'slut'. however, providing i liked her personality, i don't have any problem with it. actually, i do fantasise about what it would be like to date a 'slut'. this maybe controversial, but the thought of her having sex with other men, particularly well hung black men, whilst being in a relationship with me is very erotic. You do realize that a woman with an extremely high sex drive does not necessarily shag anything that moves, right? I find it humorous that some men who are man whores, would prefer to settle down with women who have average sex drives, for the sake of appearances. Isn't it better to have every aspect of the relationship covered? I consider myself to be a slut. But that doesnt mean I have slept with endless random men.....not even on fab. lol, i did not mention women with 'high sex drives'; i explicitly referred to women that are 'sexually promiscuous'. a woman with a high sex drive likes a lot of sex, maybe with a single man. whereas, a sexually promiscuous woman enjoys a lot of sex with many different men. lol, i fantasise about the cuckold relationship. therefore, to fulfil my fantasy, i require a promiscuous woman. Well you are most certainly on the right site " lol, unfortunately, i am not as confident as you. the cuckold sex fetish is rather unusual and most people don't like it. | |||
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"My sex drive is extremely high. I constantly think about sex. I've always had a vivid imagination. But unlike some, I hid it. Only my partners knew of my voracious appetite. People percieve me as innocent. I wear my mask well. Only on fab can I truly be myself. Even through dry spells I would watch porn, and have a play. Put it this way...you will never hear me utter the words " not tonight, I have a headache" They do say the quiet ones are the worse. Lol. I would say most people aren't open about it in a day to day situation, but just with partners. It's only on fab that I have found it so openly talked about. " You really do have to watch the quiet ones.... | |||
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"I can't get enough, and find it liberating that I can say that in here! " Its always nice to hear. | |||
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"Lol...that should read bike not Nike.... I was hoping to learn that Nike was a Greek goddess of sexuality " I think she was the goddess of Victory. I haven't googled though so I might be wrong. | |||
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"Lol...that should read bike not Nike.... I was hoping to learn that Nike was a Greek goddess of sexuality I think she was the goddess of Victory. I haven't googled though so I might be wrong." You are quite correct. | |||
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"I can't get enough, and find it liberating that I can say that in here! " Now I'm singing | |||
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"I've been discribed as Hedonistic. Does that count " It sums you up quite well... | |||
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"I can't get enough, and find it liberating that I can say that in here! Now I'm singing " "I just can't get enough"? | |||
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"I can't get enough, and find it liberating that I can say that in here! Now I'm singing "I just can't get enough"? " Yeah | |||
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"I've been described as Hedonistic. Does that count It sums you up quite well..." Happiness is... | |||
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"I've been described as Hedonistic. Does that count It sums you up quite well... Happiness is... " Remember the last time we met?....That! I was a bit tender for days... | |||
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"I've been described as Hedonistic. Does that count It sums you up quite well... Happiness is... Remember the last time we met?....That! I was a bit tender for days..." I'm innocent really | |||
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"Wow, just got in to see some fascinating comments. Thanks. I think part of the reason I'm attracted to very highly sexed women is because it takes strength, confidence and self-awareness to express it. I would be open to a serious relationship with such a woman because for me love and sex can be separated and I think hearing about and facilitating a partner's dalliances would be fun within a loving, stable relationship. Really appreciate the fact that so many women have taken the time to respond." | |||
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"My high sex drive can be a hindrance" Sometimes I wonder what amazing things I could have achieved... if I had channelled into something else all the time, energy and effort I have invested into chasing and riding the wave of my orgasms! | |||
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"My high sex drive can be a hindrance Sometimes I wonder what amazing things I could have achieved... if I had channelled into something else all the time, energy and effort I have invested into chasing and riding the wave of my orgasms! " Does it ever get to the stage where you feel it's affecting your life? | |||
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"My high sex drive can be a hindrance Sometimes I wonder what amazing things I could have achieved... if I had channelled into something else all the time, energy and effort I have invested into chasing and riding the wave of my orgasms! Does it ever get to the stage where you feel it's affecting your life? " Yeah...when you hit the fruit n veg section whilst shopping | |||
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"I don't think I'm highly sexed. It's just that so many people have an underactive libido and don't realise it. " This. | |||
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"I've always had an attraction to women with extremely high sex drives. Females who are always thinking about sex, and often doing it. Particularly intelligent women. If I hear a woman described as a slut, which can be a highly derogatory term, I want to find out more. I know it's a social norm to look for women who are chaste and pure (although hardly a Fab norm) but I rather prefer the opposite. I'd love to hear from people who share this attraction and particularly genuine women who feel this way," I've been told I have a male brain when it comes to sex. I am not really sure what that means entirely.... | |||
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"Some men feel threatened when a woman can seperate love and sex so almost accuse them of being man-like in their behaviour. Kind of insulting for them really " Hmmm maybe you're right. I'm highly sexed and forthright. It doesn't go down well with some men I know that for sure. | |||
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"You go down well on some men though, I guess ? " Oh!! Sir! Restrain yourself please! | |||
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"Some men feel threatened when a woman can seperate love and sex so almost accuse them of being man-like in their behaviour. Kind of insulting for them really Hmmm maybe you're right. I'm highly sexed and forthright. It doesn't go down well with some men I know that for sure. " Wow is that with men on fab or just men in general? | |||
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"Some men feel threatened when a woman can seperate love and sex so almost accuse them of being man-like in their behaviour. Kind of insulting for them really I come across them here and elsewhere...get abuse for being forthright. Called a slag... Hmmm maybe you're right. I'm highly sexed and forthright. It doesn't go down well with some men I know that for sure. Wow is that with men on fab or just men in general? " | |||
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"Well if you insist Neat party trick... " I am Iniduoh...... (Houdini in reverse) | |||
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