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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have known this couple for about 5 years now and we get along really well and are very friendly and good mates. The male asked me tonight to have a 3sum with them next week after we have been out on town. I was shocked to say the least. I asked him where this came from and he replied that they had played a game of truth or dare about 6 months and his wife said she wants me and that they had been having sex with me as a fantasy and the time is right to make it a reality. The problem is I just dont fancy her in any way whatsoever. She has been smiling at me knowingly since we spoke. How do I get out of this one without offending them ?

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Put on a blindfold, explain it's you thing and think happy thoughts.

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Man up lol could be fun lol

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Heard the saying don't look at the mantle while poking the fire haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Man up lol could be fun lol "
I cant with her I would be mr floppy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what we do, tell them you don't play with friends as it can make things awkward in the future, you'd like to, but you value their friendship to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her in, get her bucked, get her out, you know the usual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say you respect their friendship too much and introduce them to the site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say you respect their friendship too much and introduce them to the site x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do what we do, tell them you don't play with friends as it can make things awkward in the future, you'd like to, but you value their friendship to much "
I like it. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just say you respect their friendship too much and introduce them to the site x "
they have no idea about this side of my life so cant introduce them to the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say that they might want to look for a swingers site or similar for a 3some fantasy. You don't need to say you are on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just say that they might want to look for a swingers site or similar for a 3some fantasy. You don't need to say you are on it."
good advice. My head is all over the place at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are good friends they will understand x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

You mention that you don't fancy her. Have a go anyway and you might discover your bi side

*courtesy of the non serious answer department*

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do what we do, tell them you don't play with friends as it can make things awkward in the future, you'd like to, but you value their friendship to much I like it. Thanks. "

Yes do this. No one man or woman should have sex with anyone for any reason other than they both want to in this context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man up and be honest with them, they'll respect you more in the long run than if you had a go through gritted teeth and not enjoy yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say that as much as you like them both you don't want to risk spoiling the friendship for a night of fun as you respect them to much and you hope they understand you reason x

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

Put your big boy knickers on,do the deed,but make an awful job of it and they won't ask you again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell em your Gay and pray that he doesnt wink at you

Gimp

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